Experienced White Husbands: How do you deal with *that* Post-Orgasm feeling?

This is a great point that a lot of husbands must feel at some point in this lifestyle. When the stud leaves and you go back to your normal routines a lot of husbands must think to themselves "whats does she think of me?" "Does she still consider me to be her man?" A lot of questions like this probably arise. It would be nice to hear the female perspective on this.
Yes. Something many newcomer husbands go thru. So many women hot for BBC but still many going thru the change to black and all the emotions there. Can be hard on husbands
 
This is a great point that a lot of husbands must feel at some point in this lifestyle. When the stud leaves and you go back to your normal routines a lot of husbands must think to themselves "whats does she think of me?" "Does she still consider me to be her man?" A lot of questions like this probably arise. It would be nice to hear the female perspective on this.

I think about what it will feel like afterwards and how my wife would view me as a man in general. I've no doubt she can appreciate what I offer as a breadwinner but once she has been to bed with a well hung black man her view of me as a lover must diminish is certain ways after she draws comparisons between me and some hung black stud who has done things to her during sex I have never done.
Hell, I feel like this way after we watch interracial porn of some amateur housewife with a hung black man and she sees his size and how the wife responds to him. At times I even cover myself afterwards because it feels awkward to be exposed after she sees a black man with a huge cock and I am laying there for her to see me. And that is is even after she has commented on the size difference while we were watching.
 
I think about what it will feel like afterwards and how my wife would view me as a man in general. I've no doubt she can appreciate what I offer as a breadwinner but once she has been to bed with a well hung black man her view of me as a lover must diminish is certain ways after she draws comparisons between me and some hung black stud who has done things to her during sex I have never done.
Hell, I feel like this way after we watch interracial porn of some amateur housewife with a hung black man and she sees his size and how the wife responds to him. At times I even cover myself afterwards because it feels awkward to be exposed after she sees a black man with a huge cock and I am laying there for her to see me. And that is is even after she has commented on the size difference while we were watching.
After years of cuckholding by Susan with VWE BBC bulls I am very Clear on how Susan sees me as a Beta White Male. I am her subserviant white companion there to support her sexual activities with black men. I have no concerns ( anymore ) about being much smaller than all of her BBC sexual partners. What I do have is a firm understanding of her and most white womens powerful sexual needs for the sexuality and orgasms that most only get from fucking BBC. Once BBC has penetrated that white pussy and filled them full of black semen , they are forever changed regardless if the white husband is also VWE and a proficient sexual lover. Susan has enjoyed BBC many times over many years so her desire for BBC is well established.
 
After years of cuckholding by Susan with VWE BBC bulls I am very Clear on how Susan sees me as a Beta White Male. I am her subserviant white companion there to support her sexual activities with black men. I have no concerns ( anymore ) about being much smaller than all of her BBC sexual partners. What I do have is a firm understanding of her and most white womens powerful sexual needs for the sexuality and orgasms that most only get from fucking BBC. Once BBC has penetrated that white pussy and filled them full of black semen , they are forever changed regardless if the white husband is also VWE and a proficient sexual lover. Susan has enjoyed BBC many times over many years so her desire for BBC is well established.
I agree. Once we got involved in this lifestyle it quickly became less about the big Black cock and more about simply the Black cock, and whatever power or authority we each imagined it had over us as a couple. Feeling like a beta was all part of the submissive pleasure for me. BTW when I see "BBC" I see it as "beautiful Black cock" more than "big Black cock."
 
I agree. Once we got involved in this lifestyle it quickly became less about the big Black cock and more about simply the Black cock, and whatever power or authority we each imagined it had over us as a couple. Feeling like a beta was all part of the submissive pleasure for me. BTW when I see "BBC" I see it as "beautiful Black cock" more than "big Black cock."
Yes. Especially as it enters Susans white pussys. So much admiration at how well they fuck her. These VWE young black men give so much cock and so many orgasms and I love watching how much she enjoys sucking on the BBC. Always amazed when she deep throats these huge cocks but she does it. And then when they flip her over and that BBC dissappears deep into her ass that's very special too. Susan has become the consumate whore for BBC as have so many women today. She is always naked around black men and on her knees sucking BBC. Often she is. Sucking one BBC and another is deep inside her pussy or ass. She swallows lots of black cum and enjoys facials too. She has so many young black friends now I have trouble remembering all their names. But they do keep. Susan very happy and very satisfied sexual. We enjoy living this lifestyle
 
You are totally right. I could have written the same thing too. One time I jacked off while watching and came in ten seconds of course, and it got "weird". After that time we have a rule I cannot nut until they are all done most of the time after he is gone

I guess that's part of the ride and experience of this lifestyle. I would have such intense sexual excitement watching that i would want to join or stroke it, but know that the feelings would go from 110 to 0 after an orgasm. I wonder if experienced husbands here can chime in and tell others how they handle those intense levels of sexual excitement for sometimes hours before the bull leaves and is able to get some release.
 
I guess that's part of the ride and experience of this lifestyle. I would have such intense sexual excitement watching that i would want to join or stroke it, but know that the feelings would go from 110 to 0 after an orgasm. I wonder if experienced husbands here can chime in and tell others how they handle those intense levels of sexual excitement for sometimes hours before the bull leaves and is able to get some release.
. First solution is chastity. Second solution is tied to a chair with hands behind but some husbands cum anyway. Third solution is positional. 69 with wife on top.
 
I guess that's part of the ride and experience of this lifestyle. I would have such intense sexual excitement watching that i would want to join or stroke it, but know that the feelings would go from 110 to 0 after an orgasm. I wonder if experienced husbands here can chime in and tell others how they handle those intense levels of sexual excitement for sometimes hours before the bull leaves and is able to get some release.
Practice makes perfect lol
all are probably the same initially that horrible stomach churning feeling after you shoot your own load watching, that feeling never really leaves you but thankfully you learn to control your own ejaculations somehow to get maximum pleasure from it
I would say many would agree that is the reason why some of us let wives play alone!!!! the arousal while waiting at home or waiting in itself has the effect that you remain aroused for hours waiting and have some control of this,
that I have found is best way for me to "contain" myself
 
As someone that has watched my wife with black lovers, I can tell you it is an intense experience. What I saw, heard and smelled wasn't what I thought it would be. I was also surprised at my feelings. It was very erotic to see my sweet Amie being ravished by black men but it also brought out jealous feelings in me as well a sense of shame. I also felt a sense of pride and empowerment sharing her. She is very lovely and count myself lucky to have Amie as my wife and men come onto her constantly.
When she is having sex with them I hold back cumming no matter how much I want to so I can save my load for when they are done with her. She almost always take them bareback and they almost always ejaculate inside her so when they are done I have the overwhelming urge to make love to my wife. Letting the excitement build just makes the act of sex with her used body so much more intense. I feel like I have to reclaim what is supposed to be exclusively mine and after I mount her I usually orgasm very quickly and fill her with more than the usual amount. The idea of my semen swimming around inside her, competing with the seed of one or more black men is an intense turn on for me.
You have to remember that if you share your wife with another man you are surrendering your alpha male status to them, even if only temporarily. It can give you a strange feeling especially if they are more well endowed than you and she is enjoying herself very much because they are great lovers. Sometimes you will be surprised at what she will allow them to do to her. Be ready for the unexpected.

Some lucky black cock has gotten to feel and fill her up
 
Practice makes perfect lol
all are probably the same initially that horrible stomach churning feeling after you shoot your own load watching, that feeling never really leaves you but thankfully you learn to control your own ejaculations somehow to get maximum pleasure from it
I would say many would agree that is the reason why some of us let wives play alone!!!! the arousal while waiting at home or waiting in itself has the effect that you remain aroused for hours waiting and have some control of this,
that I have found is best way for me to "contain" myself
The solution of her playing alone would have the opposite effect for us. I would not be able to contain thinking of what was going and and masturbating then the embarrased and angst feeling never going away until she comes home ? That is just not for me or us.
 
The solution of her playing alone would have the opposite effect for us. I would not be able to contain thinking of what was going and and masturbating then the embarrased and angst feeling never going away until she comes home ? That is just not for me or us.

Gotta agree with you guys. To me this lifestyle is for the enjoyment of all three parties; the female, the stud and the husband. Don't think i'd like or could handle the wife and bull doing their own thing.
 
I have experienced both
initially I watched secretly without the guy knowing and that was so bloody hot!!!!!
it has developed over the years that she mostly plays alone and that took some getting used to and was difficult to handle and still can be on occasions , but sometimes it cant be any other way
the first time she went away I was physically sick with all sorts of thoughts/angst, you ;earn to deal with it
I find the "wait" arouses me so much. sometimes I cant help but relieve my self sometimes several times over a weekend when she is away if I can manage to abstain the excitement of just seeing her walk in, in the "just fucked state" marked and bites visible knowing she has been seen in that state can result in me cumming just kissing her and feeling her body against mine
 
I have experienced both
initially I watched secretly without the guy knowing and that was so bloody hot!!!!!
it has developed over the years that she mostly plays alone and that took some getting used to and was difficult to handle and still can be on occasions , but sometimes it cant be any other way
the first time she went away I was physically sick with all sorts of thoughts/angst, you ;earn to deal with it
I find the "wait" arouses me so much. sometimes I cant help but relieve my self sometimes several times over a weekend when she is away if I can manage to abstain the excitement of just seeing her walk in, in the "just fucked state" marked and bites visible knowing she has been seen in that state can result in me cumming just kissing her and feeling her body against mine

yeah, the buildup is the most fun part. sometimes i can get so wound up and hawt that my legs get weak and i almost feel lightheaded. i'm not so good at edging like i've read about on here. i need to practice that. maybe a cage is the solution! lol
 
Ok...I have watched her in person taking bbc many times. In the beginning I would cum without touching myself and had an embarrassing wet spot on my kahki shorts that they both noticed. The opportunity to feel guilt was fleeting because they were steady at it. The sounds, sites and smells bring me right back around to an excited state. I have waited at home and jacked of continuously, what I later found out was called edging! (Thought I invented it, ) if I did cum while waiting at home I would get worried about her immediately that something bad would happen to my angel, I’d end up sending a text, when she would finally answer it, I would instantly get hard again and start stroking. That is really the only guilt I would feel. I would recommend wearing a cage and letting baby have the key during both of these times if you are feeling guilt.
 
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