Guys who have NOT experienced your significant other with BBC, it's time to weigh in on the question. Please discuss and tell us all how you feel about it.
Are you obsessed with the fantasy?
- Thread starter Blkdreams88
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I feel the same way. I'm at a point where I feel like I need to stop trying though. How against it is your wife? What kind of conversations have you had regarding it?
PhoenixCpl4Man
Couple
I think about it often. Every day. But I don’t know if obsessed is the best description.
Is it your primary focus sexually when you want to be aroused or to reach climax?
PhoenixCpl4Man
Couple
I would say yes… primary. It’s in my head every day and every sexual experience
That borders obsession to me. An obsession can be quiet or loud depending on the obsessed. Fixation could be another word used for it. There's no shame in it. I used to be repulsed by the idea many years ago. I've reformed in a sense.
Arkansas
Male
She calls me a perv. She is a conservative Christian wife. With that said I honestly feel under the right conditions she would.
My wife says I have a "complex" haha. She is the same as your wife but I think the stars would have to align to get her to do it. She won't make any effort to make the fantasy real.
Yes, I can say I am hooked with this fantasy and I would like my wife to try a bbc but I don't understand why... why I want this...
It make me crazy knowing my wife will orgasming on a bbc very hard.
I love her a l9t and I do everything for her... maybe this is the reason.
It make me crazy knowing my wife will orgasming on a bbc very hard.
I love her a l9t and I do everything for her... maybe this is the reason.
You're probably right. That kind of love makes common sex practices go out the window when you make it about her. Same goes for me too. My wife is awesome, she works hard and is a great mom. I think she deserves the best. So I want her to have it. I'm sure you feel the same about yours.
I would say I’m obsessed yes, not a day goes by that I don’t at least think about it and most days jerk off thinking about it or looking at pics or porn about it. I would say at least four days a week my wife and I talk and make comments about her cucking me.
Does she seem to like the idea outside of the bedroom or is it something that just helps to get her off in the moment?
I have discussed my desires with my wife for years. We have role played the scenario of a big black stud fucking her. She has told me the stories of her past experiences getting pounded by big black cocks. She just won’t do it for real. I don’t know if I will ever get over it. I crave it more than anything. However, if she shakes her big ass in my face or thrusts it on my cock I blow up.
Yeah my wife can do things to get to me as well. I just can't get over that fantasy though. I don't know why. The two girls at once dream died out years ago because the likelihood of it happening was always so small. For some reason I keep holding on to the hope that BBC will pound my wife again. I just want to keep her as my wife and queen.
I have considered try to have a guy seduce her
I did the same. Haven't made the move yet because I feel like she would obviously know I had set it up. I've told her that if I didn't think she'd be upset about it, that I'd arrange for a meet up to see if something spicy could happen.
I really wanted a stud masseuse come to our house and massage and seduce her
Not bad. It would be obvious though and we're shacked up with someone right now so we'd have to go out. I think mine would do it if given the right circumstances but I don't think she wants those circumstances. The ******* is that she plays on the fantasy so well in bed. She says she is a BBC cum shut, wants to be bred over and over again and she even degraded me once which was hot. But then she says I'm weird for liking it lol. I can't win.
It’s discussed quite often outside the bedroom also. I heard from some women that I used to work with that one of the guys in my wifes work area is well hung, I’m thinking about telling my wife about it just to get her fantasies going.
