Experienced White Husbands: How do you deal with *that* Post-Orgasm feeling?

I totally agree with Hot Baby....this is how it has always worked best with us; my bf's orgasms are at my whim and direction, and he knows that no matter how long he has to wait, he only gets to climax AFTER I have been used to exhaustion by a young, fit, stud. Sometimes, I can take lovers three or four times a month, and others, when professional, family, or social demands are pressing, it may be a month or two before time can be made for this kind of stress relief.
Of course, I make sure to keep his frustration (and my oral satisfaction) stoked in the interim :wub: .

Most of the time, on most occasions, even though I do insist that he participate orally during or after the scene with my lover, I do not allow him relief that evening, or the next morning , if my lover is still present. But, at some point, soon after our return to "normal life", but before he returns to his home, from mine, I will allow him to penetrate my vagina and will coax an orgasm out of him with the soft words of verbal humiliation mixed with true and deep love that I know work so well with him (and that are very heartfelt and honest between us)...he will immediately perform one last, blessed oral devotion to me after reaching his release, and we will both lay for a while in each other's love, knowing that the cycle of devotion is beginning anew, and that our commitment to each other is a new devotion and a new adventure. :lips:
now that is what true love is all about, a truly wonderful couple
I totally agree with Hot Baby....this is how it has always worked best with us; my bf's orgasms are at my whim and direction, and he knows that no matter how long he has to wait, he only gets to climax AFTER I have been used to exhaustion by a young, fit, stud. Sometimes, I can take lovers three or four times a month, and others, when professional, family, or social demands are pressing, it may be a month or two before time can be made for this kind of stress relief.
Of course, I make sure to keep his frustration (and my oral satisfaction) stoked in the interim :wub: .

Most of the time, on most occasions, even though I do insist that he participate orally during or after the scene with my lover, I do not allow him relief that evening, or the next morning , if my lover is still present. But, at some point, soon after our return to "normal life", but before he returns to his home, from mine, I will allow him to penetrate my vagina and will coax an orgasm out of him with the soft words of verbal humiliation mixed with true and deep love that I know work so well with him (and that are very heartfelt and honest between us)...he will immediately perform one last, blessed oral devotion to me after reaching his release, and we will both lay for a while in each other's love, knowing that the cycle of devotion is beginning anew, and that our commitment to each other is a new devotion and a new adventure. :lips:
now that is a truly beautiful relationship a perfect couple truly in love with each other
 
Experience itself may be the key. I have cum while they were still fucking and have been happy still watching. Are you comfortable with who you are? Does your wife show you affection and etsreassure you that you are the one she loves? Like others have said, I won't even touch myself during and won't cum until the next day at the earliest.
It is mixed bag. I usually thank her lover. I thank them for letting me watch. Sometimes i feel guilty and sometimes my wifes gets angry with me for being such a wimp.
 
What a great thread... so many different ways of handling these issues. That helps make this lifestyle so sexy and erotic. We do what turns us on, not necessarily what turns others on.

When my wife is with one of the guys, I always at least watch. Whether I get involved or not depends on the circs and the vibe at the time. Yes, I can't help but masturbate while I'm watching and my wife loves that I get so excited. I do my very best not to cum before they are "finished" , but I have. The sight of her still being taken continues to turn me on...

She and I always have our reconnect time after he is finished. I almost always enter her used pussy... and I almost always cum very quickly due to the excitement that I have been watching or participating in.

I dont want to make this too long... but its just cool that everyone seems to find what turns them on....
 
When we are scheduled to meet with a Bull, I don't allow myself to cum for a week prior. If I cum within a few days before the meeting, I will start having second thoughts about it and might back out. During the actual session, I don't get to cum until after the Bull leaves. That way, he can stay and enjoy my wife until he's ready to leave. Once he's gone, my wife will sit on my face while I jerk myself off. Sometimes she will do it for me. While she's riding my face, she will talk about the Bull and how wonderful he was.

Once I orgasm, I tend to start having second thoughts and regrets. I wish that didn't happen but it does. That feeling is gone within a day, though.
 
When we are scheduled to meet with a Bull, I don't allow myself to cum for a week prior. If I cum within a few days before the meeting, I will start having second thoughts about it and might back out. During the actual session, I don't get to cum until after the Bull leaves. That way, he can stay and enjoy my wife until he's ready to leave. Once he's gone, my wife will sit on my face while I jerk myself off. Sometimes she will do it for me. While she's riding my face, she will talk about the Bull and how wonderful he was.

Once I orgasm, I tend to start having second thoughts and regrets. I wish that didn't happen but it does. That feeling is gone within a day, though.
that's normal in my experience when it is in the beginning, it never entirely goes away , after 30 yrs I still have similar thoughts but no where near as when I first shared her
 
Take it from me and my experience- if you can help it don’t cum until they have finished. Otherwise you will have a hard time enjoying it. Once you spew your load, all of the horny cuckold feelings go away and you are left with shame and depression as you witness her eyes rolling into the back of her head from the bbc stretching her out. It’s then becomes a sickening feeling almost and I get a pit in my stomach. But, Prior to blowing your load, i’m am on an intense high. I wanna cum so bad and i am so horny while beating off my little nub. It’s like sensory overload. You smell them fucking, you hear her crying out in pleasure and see her eyes rolling into the back of head as she creams on his monster cock. And I’m hunched over grunting and groaning furiously jerking my little dick. It’s an incredible feeling. It’s like being super high on a ******* and then feeling like going through withdrawal after cumming. My mood changes immediately. That’s the only way I can explain it. So for that reason, I really really try to refrain from cumming until they finish. It’s hard to do as premature ejaculation is a norm now. So I try to practice edging to keep from blowing my load. I’d say I’m successful in not cumming most of the time. But some times I take it over the edge before they do and then I pay for it
 
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Take it from me and my experience- if you can help it don’t cum until they have finished. Otherwise you will have a hard time enjoying it. Once you spew your load, all of the horny cuckold feelings go away and you are left with shame and depression as you witness her eyes rolling into the back of her head from the bbc stretching her out. It’s then becomes a sickening feeling almost and I get a pit in my stomach. But, Prior to blowing your load, i’m am on an intense high. I wanna cum so bad and i am so horny while beating off my little nub. It’s like sensory overload. You smell them fucking, you hear her crying out in pleasure and see her eyes rolling into the back of head as she creams on his monster cock. And I’m hunched over grunting and groaning furiously jerking my little dick. It’s an incredible feeling. It’s like being super high on a ******* and then feeling like going through withdrawal after cumming. My mood changes immediately. That’s the only way I can explain it. So for that reason, I really really try to refrain from cumming until they finish. It’s hard to do as premature ejaculation is a norm now. So I try to practice edging to keep from blowing my load. I’d say I’m successful in not cumming most of the time. But some times I take it over the edge before they do and then I pay for it

Just to be on the safe side, I don't get close to cumming until after the Bull leaves. You never know when the Bull might want to go for another round or the wife might want to suck on him some more. If I were to cum while he was still there, I would be ready for him to leave right away. Similar problem with cumming before the big event. One time I came the day before we were supposed to get together and I ended-up cancelling the whole thing.
 
I think this is an issue that is limited to whitebois married to hot-wives. It certainly does not consider the hookup culture that dominates the college campus. Hookup sex favors Black men's needs. Internet Porn is the standard and white girls and sissies have to perform like porn stars, if we want to be invited back for more.

When a Black man tags a white sissy, we are expected to service him and his friends. Whether we are doing a circle-suck, getting spit-roasted or gang-banged, no white sissy can hold her juice till all the Black cocks are drained. One taste of pre-cum, or a look into his eyes and we squirt our gurl juice. Then we just have to suck it up (haha) and finish them. The Black men don't care about our little problem. Black cocks are throbbing and it's a white sissy's job to relieve them.

Over a weekend party 20 Black men might use us, and we might feel sexy again and squirt several times, till we can't anymore. This is where white sissy limp clitty comes from. You can see it in our role models like Shiri Allwood and Natalie Mars.
 
For a sissy, post-orgasm sex is normal and something we have to learn to deal with.

When I was a bit younger, some mornings at school might mean relieving the morning wood of 3 or 4 or more Black boys. They would take me in the woods behind the maintenance building or one of the dressing rooms under the stage. It was just me, on my knees giving blowjobs to completion, and as quickly as possible, so we weren't late.

It is not easy to make a Black man cum quickly and my erotic efforts -- eye contact, sucking their balls, begging for their cum -- overwhelmed my sissy brain and my clitty squirted sissygasms long before any of my Black masters were relieved. Then I suffered all the guilt and shame and loss of eroticism of post-orgasm. But a white sissy does not say "no" to throbbing Black cocks that demand relief.

I tried though. In my shame I would turn my face away. But wherever I turned, a Black boy would slap my face with his rigid meat, then hold my head and fuck my mouth, while his friends laughed "you know you want it nanci, pretty nanci, you a white bitch." I didn't want it...and yet my mouth responded, sucking tightly down on his purple head, when he tried to pull out. I found that my humiliation was it's own eroticism and that helped me keep going until the first Black boy shot his cum. The Black boy's cock pulsing in my mouth, his thick cum blasting my tonsils and his guttural grunts made his orgasm feel like it was my orgasm again. When I adopted the Black boy's orgasms as my own, I found that their powerful orgasms gave me more erotic pleasure than my own weak ones.

The Black boys demanded that I look in their eyes as I swallowed their cum. They told me I was a good gurl and the sheer wanton slut nature of being praised as a cocksucker made me hungry for the next Black cock. If they made me suck them more than a few days in a week, my clitty wouldn't even get hard. I would take my panties off and my clitty would just dribble on the ground from under my skirt.

With a soft limp clitty, all of my sexual cravings and slutty rewards came from the Black male body and the Black male orgasm. I burned with a mixture of shame and pride, when they would whisper about me during the day, and a new Black boy would give me the look.
 
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This is a topic no ones mentioned, Id love to here some insight from peolle that have
Five years ago when I introduced my then-wife to my bisexual best buddy, who is black and now 24 and married to her, I watched them close-up as he barebacked her magnificently on our marriage bed.

My emotional response to the supple and unbridled interthrustings of their beautiful young bodies devastated me. As did my wife's multiple convulsive orgasms and the accompanying out-cryings I had never heard her let out even once during intercourse with me.

In the very act, which went on uninterrupted for almost 40 minutes, I was so entranced and aroused by what I was witnessing that it did not occur to me that my buddy would finish by ejaculating in my wife's vagina at all---let alone as powerfully and deeply and copiously and for as long as he ended up doing to my great distress.

I simply and very naively thought that my buddy could and would control himself and withdraw his cock from my wife's vagina when he felt his orgasm overtaking him and go on to ejaculate completely outside it.

In the torrid event, his ejaculating balls-deep in her felt to me like a massive betrayal of my trust in him not to completely take over my wife, especially by inseminating her in the middle of her ecstasizings over the beauty of his body and the feeling of his grossly expanded cock jerking and jetting in her vagina.

I was so thunderstruck by the runaway fervor and ******* of their finally fucking to mutual orgasm that I was rendered completely dumb and unable to protest or even whisper my disapproval and extreme distress at what I had just witnessed, that being---as I saw and felt it in the intense heat of the moment---losing my wife to another man who had just marked his possession of at least her body by very visibly whitewashing her cervix and the walls of her vagina with the obviously longed-for semen that she had desperately called forth from his balls and furiously rutting pelvis.
 
It's not the playing ******* role....It's more like she has a secret lover that enjoys her other than me......She has a man that reaches deeper for one, so he touches her in a place that I can never....Thrust deeper with slow loving power. He's Younger than me by 10 years so he's seed is very strong a potent. It's like she is falling in love with him with every deep thrust and they are all alone in a bed. I watch the clock just knowing she's falling in love right now and getting a load of seed deeper than I can place it. That those panties I saw her put on ...he slid off and is deep inside her now. It's unreal exciting this way I encourage everyone to just try it once.
Your description---all of it---of your agonising aloneness and the obviously intensely erotic charge you get from knowing, in excruciatingly real time, that your black-cock-addickted wife is being really deeply fucked and ejaculated into and beautifully satisfied by a young black who is so sexually superior to you, is for me extremely hot and breathlessly wankworthy. Thank you.
 
Your description---all of it---of your agonising aloneness and the obviously intensely erotic charge you get from knowing, in excruciatingly real time, that your black-cock-addickted wife is being really deeply fucked and ejaculated into and beautifully satisfied by a young black who is so sexually superior to you, is for me extremely hot and breathlessly wankworthy. Thank you.
The young black lover in my threesome scenario of the last 5 years with my wife (now my ex) is a versatile bisexual, as I am, and since he was 17 years of age was my secret lover. Since he married my ex 2 years ago we have continued living together in a menage-a-trois, sharing the marriage bed nightly.

On topic now: since my buddy married my ex I have become increasingly more sensitive to and envious of his increasingly sex-strengthened physique and the gristly solidity of his erections, especially as he builds to his orgasms when fucking my ex beside me on the bed, such that now when he is ejaculating in her I am, much more frequently than before they married, emotionally overwhelmed by the awesome wide-open naked display of physical and ultimately deep-rooted sexual power my buddy has over my helplessly orgasming ex-wife and, by proxy, me too.

In every phase of the act of ejaculating into her my buddy makes no secret of the fact that the blinding ecstasies of his enviable powerfully convulsive orgasms with his hard-jerking cock buried to its very hilt in my ex are, for the minute or more he invariably takes to finish, very plainly the be all and end all of his existence.

His companying throb-by-throb bellowing-out of the extreme pleasure he is feeling in his contracting cock and throughout his body and in his visibly super-genitally-focused young mind sometimes so overwhelm me that I have to shut my eyes and block my ears against it all.

It is my buddy's unrestrained orgasmic outcrying and the accompanying joltings of his glorious young body that finish me off both physically and emotionally as he ejaculates into my ex and---watching his semen welling back up around his buried root and seeping and squishing into the contrasting curls of the lovers' rammed-together intermeshing pubic hair---I quietly but furiously stroke myself off.

As my own lesser load spurts from me and slips lazily down my wrist and forearm and onto my tense belly, there is vain anger and overwhelming angst in me. Lots of both. But the blissfully post-orgasmic lovers do not know or suspect either. I conceal my puny orgasmic groanings and disappointments and deeper griefs from them far too well. Perhaps too well for my own good.

So how do I feel post-orgasm? Firstly, hugely relieved that my ordeal is over. And secondly, gross envy and wild but loving despair at my buddy's vastly superior potency and wife-pleasuring capability compared to mine.

My feelings of envy last for many hours after my buddy and my ex have fallen asleep in each others arms. As I listen to their quiet contented breathing I sometimes wonder if the reason I put myself through all this is because when my buddy manfully executes his ejaculatory plunges into his wildly orgasming wife, without knowing it he counter-plunges me into an ocean of beautiful but agonising Nostalgia for what I never had with her and he very visibly does have, nightly and in the fullest possible measure.
 
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