Experienced White Husbands: How do you deal with *that* Post-Orgasm feeling?

#3
I usually sit in a chair and watch and play with my little dick as she gets pounded from one orgasm to another. Usually after they finish, I do clean up and then am allowed to orgasm in her stretched out pussy. But on more than one ocassion I have have gotten so excited watching that have gotten one stroke too far and spew before they are done. At that point the humiliation is so
intense ..... every orgasm she has is just debilitating and then he starts spasming as he empties his balls into my wife ....its just devastating . But then I'm still expected to do my clean up .....which honestly is just ...eeeww....disgusting at that point. There is no way to put it out of your mind what a pathetic wimp you are at that point. But a week or so later I'm sitting in that same chair hand hping ....just more carefully this time
 
#4
If you can only support your wife fucking other men when you are horny then you probably resent being dominated by her. I think that any man who has a woman that cuckolds them should either accept it and do their best to help and enjoy or walk away. There is nothing wrong with being submissive to a woman but very few people are willing to admit that they are. The last taboo
 
#5
You should keep away from cumming at any price until your wife is done fucking her bull. It will keep the excitement up and you will for sure be so horny that you will totally clean up your wife's pussy full of his cum several times with all eagerness. When the bull leaves if your wife is not too tired from all the fucking and cumming she may let you fuck her and it shouldn't take long for you to cum after all the built up excitement and jerking off while watching her fucking her bull.
I totally agree with Hot Baby....this is how it has always worked best with us; my bf's orgasms are at my whim and direction, and he knows that no matter how long he has to wait, he only gets to climax AFTER I have been used to exhaustion by a young, fit, stud. Sometimes, I can take lovers three or four times a month, and others, when professional, family, or social demands are pressing, it may be a month or two before time can be made for this kind of stress relief.
Of course, I make sure to keep his frustration (and my oral satisfaction) stoked in the interim :wub: .

Most of the time, on most occasions, even though I do insist that he participate orally during or after the scene with my lover, I do not allow him relief that evening, or the next morning , if my lover is still present. But, at some point, soon after our return to "normal life", but before he returns to his home, from mine, I will allow him to penetrate my vagina and will coax an orgasm out of him with the soft words of verbal humiliation mixed with true and deep love that I know work so well with him (and that are very heartfelt and honest between us)...he will immediately perform one last, blessed oral devotion to me after reaching his release, and we will both lay for a while in each other's love, knowing that the cycle of devotion is beginning anew, and that our commitment to each other is a new devotion and a new adventure. :lips:
 
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You should keep away from cumming at any price until your wife is done fucking her bull. It will keep the excitement up and you will for sure be so horny that you will totally clean up your wife's pussy full of his cum several times with all eagerness. When the bull leaves if your wife is not too tired from all the fucking and cumming she may let you fuck her and it shouldn't take long for you to cum after all the built up excitement and jerking off while watching her fucking her bull.
you really know how to treat a cuck
 
#7
I totally agree with Hot Baby....this is how it has always worked best with us; my bf's orgasm's are at my whim and direction, and he knows that no matter how long he has to wait, he only gets to climax AFTER I have been used to exhaustion by a young, fit, stud...Sometimes, I can take lovers three or four times a month, and others, when work or family demands are pressing, in may be a month or two before time can be made for this kind of stress relief.
Of course, I make sure to keep his frustration (and my oral relief) stoked in the interim :wub: .

Most of the time, on most occasions, even though I do insist that he participate orally during or after the scene with my lover, I do not allow him relief that evening, or the next morning , if my lover is still present. But, at some point, soon after our return to "normal life", but before he returns to his home, from mine, I will allow him to penetrate my vagina and will coax an orgasm out of him with the soft words of verbal humiliation mixed with true and deep love that I know work so well with him (and that are very heartfelt and honest between us)...he will immediately perform one last, blessed oral devotion to me after reaching his release, and we will both lay for a while in each other's love, knowing that the cycle of devotion is beginning anew, and that our commitment to each other is a new devotion and a new adventure. :lips:
you are such a dominant woman lol or bitch poor man who is owned by you his balls will surely be sore
 
#8
This hasn't been a problem for me. On the very first play date, I was so turned on as he first entered her, I pretty much came involuntarily, spilling my seed as I watched without even fully stroking. I was still fine and into the whole experience. I recovered and still had two more orgasms that night…once after fucking her after him a little later and again cumming onto her chest after he finished the last time. On other play dates (we've only had 3 so far), I've still been into things after I've cum.
 
#9
I do not cum while watching her. We do reclaim sex where I will have sex with her after her partner has finished. Sometimes the partner is still present. If I do cum before they are finished, I do have a significant decrease in excitement and do get some level of anxiety. I also do have this after the reclaim sex. It lasts for several hours or possibly until the next day, but then I'm back to wishing she would do it again. It's a roller coaster of emotions and you really need to be ready for it. It's also one of the reasons I do it. The excitement, the emotional distress and then the excitement again.
 

MacNfries

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#10
re: Experienced White Husbands: How do you deal with *that* Post-Orgasm feeling?
I think a lot of inexperienced guys in relationships wonder how they will feel in real life after they have seen their wife sexually serviced by a stud right in front of them. ....
Any tips and comments here from experienced people in terms of how to deal with this feeling would be greatly appreciated.
.....This is a good question, actually. Its often mentioned/suggested in this forum, to couples just starting cuckold fantasy play, to start out in small steps, and its because of the negative emotional snowball some people experience (jealousy, anger, resentment, regret, etc) during and after the event of watching or knowing your "bride" is having sex with someone other than you. This is common, but what we don't know, going into it, is how we'll each handle it individually, and how it'll affect the couple's relationship going forward.
.....Those small steps ... watching her kiss someone else, or dance with someone else, or being 'felt up' by someone else ... and if each of you handle those well, you progress to a more sensitive level ... watching her suck another man's cock, or get her pussy eaten by another man, etc. There's no 'undoing' these events, after they've occurred, thus the seriousness of watching another man actually fuck your lady is the ultimate prize. What really is the concern is when you see a guy fuck your woman better than you've ever fucked her, and watching her once she realizes she's being fucked better than you've ever fucked her. Will she still want you later? Will she fall in love with this other individual, etc. ?
.....So, again, small steps to protect the relationship, particulary if you have small children already, because the traumatic risk to your foolish play is giving those kids a set of divorced parents, and that isn't fair.
 

NEHIGHLANDER

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As someone that has watched my wife with black lovers, I can tell you it is an intense experience. What I saw, heard and smelled wasn't what I thought it would be. I was also surprised at my feelings. It was very erotic to see my sweet Amie being ravished by black men but it also brought out jealous feelings in me as well a sense of shame. I also felt a sense of pride and empowerment sharing her. She is very lovely and count myself lucky to have Amie as my wife and men come onto her constantly.
When she is having sex with them I hold back cumming no matter how much I want to so I can save my load for when they are done with her. She almost always take them bareback and they almost always ejaculate inside her so when they are done I have the overwhelming urge to make love to my wife. Letting the excitement build just makes the act of sex with her used body so much more intense. I feel like I have to reclaim what is supposed to be exclusively mine and after I mount her I usually orgasm very quickly and fill her with more than the usual amount. The idea of my semen swimming around inside her, competing with the seed of one or more black men is an intense turn on for me.
You have to remember that if you share your wife with another man you are surrendering your alpha male status to them, even if only temporarily. It can give you a strange feeling especially if they are more well endowed than you and she is enjoying herself very much because they are great lovers. Sometimes you will be surprised at what she will allow them to do to her. Be ready for the unexpected.
 
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MacNfries

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#12
We guys "THINK" we know what we want or how we'll react when it happens, BUT, that's not always the case and probably one of the main reasons wives/gf's are reluctant to do these things at the request of their partners. Women tend to be more practical in their thinking ... we guys are more "knee jerk" responsive; a big difference that I contribute to our having 2 heads but only one brain.
 
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bostonbean

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Hi everyone. As the husband of this duo, I can attest to cumming way before her bull does. Sometimes i sit and watch till they finish, other times i will kiss her rub her. I have gotten drinks, put down music and gotten her wet for him to fuck again.
My wife is my porn star, she and I love to lay and play and talk after she and him are done. To be honest watching your wife squirt all over another man is a game changer It changs our sex for the better.
 
#14
Also amazed when I hear about guys that cum from simply watching their wives bang BBC with almost no physical stimulation whatsoever.
Really? When I idealize the act -- and I do -- that's one of the things I imagine happening. Don't know how I might respond to it, but I'd like to find out. The simple fact of being aroused to the point of losing control and reaching a climax that way would be an amazing and powerful thing, in some way as pure and absolute an affirmation and celebration of the arrangement as the orgasms a wife and her lover give each other.

Surely it happens to plenty of men in couples who do this.
 
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Usually I like to time it for when her Man cums in her, its a great feeling. However, sometimes it goes off before hand, and in that case I usually wash my hands LOL. Then I sit back and watch and act as the director, you know, that feel good baby, you look awesome taking his BBC, you enjoying it, at first she was like just moans and groans, oh fuck im cuming so now with the help of her man we got her to be very vocal.
 
#17
What about when she is away and fucking another man, sometimes my wife would call me and leave the phone near so I had to listen or sometimes she just fucked all alone. I never have an urge to cum from watching because I like fucking a woman so much more.
 
#18
When we first started, I would jerk off while she fucked another man. There were times when I would lose control and squirt before they finished. I know the feeling you are talking about. I felt more guilt and jealousy after I orgasmed. I told her about it and she came up with a solution. The next few times, before they started with foreplay, she would take me into the bathroom and jerk me off as fast as she could. Once I was drained, she would make me sit right by the bed with my little flaccid cock. That is when she started lettng me be involved. Kissing her feet or nipples, licking her pussy.
I grew to be turned on even when my cock couldn't get hard. This is around the point, she just started locking me in chastity while her lovers were with her.