Embrace Your Black-Owned Lifestyle

I've HAD to learn to appreciate that my hotwife and perhaps some of your wives
are more easily able to slide in and out of being "black owned" than probably
many of us, husbands. This includes me. I fell in love with the idea of my
wife being a "BBC OWNED CUNT WIFE," or better, MY bbc owned cunt wife.

Thanks to great luck, for sure, got of HARDER than ever with me on the night
I introduced the idea/decision to her. And I was, and am, on a sex-life high
since then, too, which was Nov 2022. But when my wife said that I'm more obsessed
with big black cock than she is, it got me thinkin'.

YEARS ago, we stopped "counting" the number of black cocks that she's fucked
and sucked. The quantity thing at some point, for both of us, was no longer
the thrill. In fact, "part of the deal" we made was that she WANTED to be able
to embrace fully the "BBC OWNED CUNT WIFE" freedom and opportunity but she
couldn't unless the black guys she was having sex with were guys that SHE really
wanted to fuck in the first place. ie: no more large hotel parties with black
guys that just showed up and offered little else, ie: guys that had big black cocks,
but also hard-bodied, young, heavy cummers...in addition to being fun, appreciative,
and that would put her pussy ahead of their cock once in awhile.

"You need a few steady lovers, baby. Guys that YOU pick, guys YOU want to worship
but that will make the time to learn how to properly fuck you, too."

So, that became my mission and certainly a labor of love: introducing her to guys
that meet every qualification and then giving her and him ALL the space and time
to establish whatever they decide to establish. And it's important, take it
from me, to communicate this CLEARLY to the men before you introduce him to
her, make it clear that you are just trying to find her some world-class sexy
options but that you aren't promising anything. It'll be up to HIM and HER to
decide, NOT me. No tricks, no games, no promises, no surprises. The men, if
they have any real "bull" material in them, will respect the ******* out of you.

But ... she started slowly developing her own mission, her own proactivity,
which had/has nothing to do with me. At first, not sure I saw it, not sure she
even realized it, but once again I was lucky enough to be able to talk to herMVC-003L.JPGMVC-019L.JPGMVC-021L.JPG
about this stuff in an honest way. See, she started going out after work with
a couple of single girlfriends, and she found a place in Delray Beach where
she met a couple of black guys that she was having fun with, flirting, having
drinks, etc...until she decided to go home with one of them and fuck. She
got home at 330am, didn't tell me about it for a few days. She thought I would
be upset since it wasn't "our plan."

Well, plans change, for sure. I INSISTED that I was HAPPILY THRILLED and that
from now on, she would remember one of the benefits we agreed on, a benefit to
being a BBC OWNED CUNT WIFE was that SHE did NOT have to answer to me or include
me or ask me or inform me of ANYTHING so long as it was big-black=cock related.

NO white guys NO ******* pushy assholes. If it's a black guy she's getting along
with, she now has heard me loud and clear that I support it, I want it, I'm proud
of her, I WANT her to put her pussy's needs ahead of any thought of me.

So, that's where things are right now, March 2024. Not sure how many one-night
stands or repeat performances she's had, and i've only seen a couple pictures of
a couple of the guys, she was excited to show me that, at least.

I'm worried, of course, about safety and trust and making sure she doesn't get
herself into a bad situation, so I'm lobbying again for her to take a few black
men as steady lovers and for us to invite them into our home so that she and
I can tell them that we're looking for a "proper bull." BUT< as things have
evolved, it's going to end up being ME that mostly trains/mentors the guys on
what being a proper bull for her is.

You (husbands) should be your wife's bull's best friend, in a way. You're gonna
help him with info and instructions on what she wants to do and here and feel
and experience. he's going to rely on you to make sure he's ahead of the game
with her. AND, likewise, her bull should be able to tell you what he'd like
her to do for him next time, or how she should dress, or what he'd love to
hear her say.

Wife and Bull should be fulfilling each other's fantasies WAY beyond just the
physical "fuck" thing. She SHOULD be willing to dress like a slutty schoolgirl
when he picks her up and they go to a strip club so he can show her off. And HE
should be willing to abstain from having an orgasm on the days leading up
to his next date with her because she LOVES heavy cummers.

She knows I can't give her a huge load of cum, and I know she won't be my slutty
schoolgirl, so having a proper bull or two is important, yes?

Damn, back to my original question, who is more obsessed and puts more thought
and work and time into keeping my girl properly fucked by black cock ONLY?
Here's a few ORIGINAL pics, of her getting her cunt owned by BBC. No way
I could own her pussy like that. She knows it, we all know it. BBC OWNED
CUNT WIFE is best for all of us.
 
Hey, TONS of "thank you, we love you too and love your feedback and/or questions, etc." to my/our followers. This is the "him" in our relationship, of course, but MOST the inspiration for my posts are the experiences I've had AND are having with my wife party4candy (we used to spell it candi, yes, but she changed it). Thanks to her, things have evolved in past year from HER being my "BBC OWNED CUNT WIFE" to me realizing, admitting and embracing that I am just as owned by BBC, albeit not as physically or tangible as she is. ie: she fucks BBC only and I think non-stop about her fucking more more more black men and think non-stop about new ways she/we can embrace (and ENJOY) devoting our sex life to BBC in reality and in spirit (when there's no BBC in the room). There's new discoveries or ideas every week (for me) something we should try or talk about or incorporate or plan for. I TRY TRY TRY to always keep it fun for her, but I feel bad for her because although I tell her otherwise, there's really no way she could ever completely "satisfy" the deepness and depth of BBC Sexstyle I'd like to experience. So, I introduce it carefully. She told me long ago, "don't shout out instructions when I"m with a black man or let alone when I'm fucking black cock, I know what to do, I'm not making a porn movie." So, for one, that hit home. But I still find ways of telling her something new (or forgotten) that I know a black lover would love to hear her say or do. Of course, they are all things I want to hear her say or watch her do, but I always position it as something her lover would love, and I try to convince her of that by including things that she KNOWS I wouldn't want to hear her say (even though, yes, I do).

I'm starting a list of items, and please contribute so that it's OUR list, not MY list, two heads (or many heads) are better than one, ahem:
HOW BAD DO YOU HAVE IT?
a) when I see a hot teenage girl at the mall, I immediately daydream that I could take her to meet our BBC friends so that they could enjoy her tight white slutty pussy before any white guys try to fuck her.
b) ...and, when I see a hot girl or woman of any age, I don't think about ME fucking her, I wish I was taking her to get properly fucked by big black cock.
Example: would YOU love to fuck her OR would you rather take her to get black fucked ONLY? bdsmlr-147039-FX7XW0fTRQ.jpg
 
kicbackandcum2 said:
I agree...What's next?
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Glad you asked. We already did most the "hotwife-for-bbc" training years ago and some of it, when we tried again, turned out to be silly in retrospect. Now, it's more the width and depth of thought and communication we share. She will continue to fuck ONLY black cock, we're well into our 5th or 8th or 10th year (it gets technical, did I fuck her or didn't I?) of her being 100 percent black owned pussy (and mouth, and ass, and tits). But there's still so much more we (ie: me) want to communicate and plan and do. The reason I logged back in tonight is, she's still at work for another hour and when she gets home, she'll shower and we'll go out for a couple of drinks to unwind, it's not a "party night" for her (she's got her period), but I've decided to do this when we get home: I'll set up my camera/recorder and capture some conversation I want to have with her. She
balks at first until she gets more "into it," something I just have to deal with (yeah, it's not all wet gaping pussy here, men)...but I want to tell her about some of the "role play" I'd like to do (with her, and with other couples and BBC men). I won't tell her where I heard it before (because it was from another girl, before this wife and I get married), but i'll tell her that if I had it MY WAY, she wouldn't even consider having sex unless she had two black cocks to take turns sucking and fucking. I'd LOVE for her to (sooner rather than later) admit to me (as the earlier girl of mine did) that it doesn't even feel like real sex unless she has a black cock in her mouth and another fucking her from behind, etc. Kinda like this pic that I took.
Well, she'll balk at that, but I'll get her off shortly thereafter when I'm sucking her clit and telling her that she is going to NEED two BBCs to properly fuck her pussy, her ass, her tits, her face...wait, that's 4 BBCs, isn't it? Like this other pic I took. MVC-003L.JPGMVC-003L.JPGMVC-012L.JPG
 
Discovered a motel in australia....called the black bull. I copy/pasted the image onto a "create your own t-shirt" template so that I can order a couple for me and Candice. What you think? view.jpg
 
party4candi said:
Yes, more thoughts and experiences needed about what we feel is a different lifestyle than QOS or cuckold. This might incorporate elements but it might also be a better and less confusing way for us, I emphasize, for us because we made this decision a few months ago after many years in interracial scene as swingers that enjoyed vanilla action too. But that got boring, o,d, even goofy. I can’t count the number of unappreciative bbc bulls,hee bee, or so they thought they were that great wives S a one way street, never focusing on getting the girls off. So when Covid hit, we unplugged, took time discussing what she needed and lots of thinking hours and nights and weeks later, I proposed that we no longer need the wall to wall hotel interracial fuck parties we used to host, wasn’t giving us satisfaction. Instead, we find a handful of very hot, very fit, very eager to learn and only the very very well hung, and offer them an intimate and steady opportunity , ie to be welcomed into our home , to be ready to learn what she needs from a real bull, our house rules, etc. we match that to their interest and fantasies, etc, and see if it makes sense for all. No wannabes, no big time players, no arrogant assholes, nobody that thinks this is all about him. So late last year when I began posting here again, we used our network, have about 8 guys that seem to understand it. We are now, as I type this, about to invite them individually to meet us our place for intro and run down. No promises, no bullshit. Not in a rush necessarily because we want this to be a world class and absolutely authentic and honest experience and relationship for all. Must be trustworthy safe reliable, sober, able to be seen in discreet public now and then when taking her on a date or to a party, etc, but always. Gentlemen in public, treat her as great friend or girlfriend, but be able to own her pussy in private, in our home or other appropriate setting. Husband does not participate other than all the initial stuff I’m detailing here. This is her thing, so she can devote the time and passion into giving worthy bbc men the total worship experience but then also be ready to properly service her. Alll of that said, but it just now in past couple of open talk days led me to this. We want all of this because the only thing,the only way that I, sexy husband, can get her off is when I’m sucking her pussy and telling her what a great whore for bbc she is, etc. thoughts about me long gone, my friends. So I said to her, hey, let’s make this even more honest, more truthful to each other so that we are on same page if we do this, no room for recriminations, no room for backing out, no room for embarrassment or jealousy. Let’s agree, Brandi, that you are now officially my BBC Owned Cunt Wife. Already, we’ve discovered slight fun sexy changes in us, and also some realizations we hadn’t thought about before. I’ll continue this thought on, time to go to the office.
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Sounds like a fun change.
 
Good morning. Last night I posted here with my plan to tell my wife a couple of new sentiments I’ve been mulling over, specifically that as we continue to develop and continue to enjoy being and always becoming a BBC OWNED CUNT WIFE AND HER FULLY ACCEPTING HUBBY (all elements and focus of our sex life, of course), we need to share new feelings or ideas, discard the ones that didn’t work and tweak the ones that need tweaking and cherish the ones that make her wet. So tonight I told her (at late happy hour) to consider this the next time she’s enjoying big black cock: the only way she’ll soon feel that she was having honest and fulfilling sex is when she’s getting fucked by one of her bulls AND one of his friends. As I posted yesterday, my first bbc slut wife said she never felt like she was having sex unless it was her and at least two black guys. So…I told candy to be open to that feeling going forward so that I can make sure she gets properly fucked. As I thought, she rolled her eyes and then glarred at me for bringing it up in public . I wasn’t trying to embarrass, of course, but I guess she had no fair warning. To which i said, honey, things might not always sound hot and or message delivered at inappropriate time, but embrace that too as part of whole experience. I reminded her of the horrible timing for me that time a few years ago before we were married when she called me at midnight ******* and crying because one of her very steady black lovers had to send her out the back door nearly naked because his ******* just pulled up the driveway. She hid in yard until I got there. I was pissed at their bad planning but I’ve since apologized many times over because I didn’t realize at the time that big black cock turns some women into begging panting cheating white whores. I have pics from that night that he took, I’ll post a couple later. So anyway, back to tonight, she’s still upset that I am happier when she’s with a black lover than I am than when she’s with me. I’d be happier if she was begging me to face fuck her, but that, my friends, is total,fantasy. She’ll beg for black cock . So how bad do I have it? The only thing I want for my birthday is a hot wet frothing dripping creampie, cum so thick I can almost chew it.
 
Oh, forgot to share this, also from tonite. Told her about a very hot black guy I used to,work,with, bumped into him on Friday. For work related reasons, he never met my wife. Well, things changed and now I told her I was going to surprise her one night by bringing him over for her to meet. Once she sees him and enjoys a ******* or two, I have no doubt he’ll be fucking her. She said that she still is enjoying doing her own solo thing now and then, bbc prowling. She said that if she isn’t interested, she’ll tell me to suck him off instead. Whoa. If we’re gonna embrace being BBC OWNED, I’m at a fork in the road.
 
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Followers, lots of boring posts from me this weekend, I know, I had a couple days off. And so, here's another surely mis-guided thoughts, so if anything here resonates with you, I'm the lucky one. But if not, let's at least agree that we're all HERE, all with different opinions and experiences, but we're still ALL HERE, so more power to you and lots of well wishes for you and your girl.

I've said AND PRACTICED so many times that since your girl is NOT going to walk thru the front door one evening late from work and tell you "honey, we have to talk." She asks you right away, "have you ever cheated on me?: and you tell her the truth, "NO, never have, never will." She then says "reason I ask is,today I needed an image of a bull, a black bull specifically, to drop onto one of our Hemingway Tour brochures and when I saw "black bull and my wife" link, I hit it without thinking anything dirty. But what I found was a profile on a website all about white women making love to black men. And the profile picture, though it was very small, looks like me about 20 yrs ago. Did YOU post that profile?"

And after you stutter some sort of lie to her, she says "ok, well, that's not all I found. I found that the same profile had also posted things like "how do I tell my wife that since I found old pictures of her fucking and sucking black cock, I make myself cum every day before she gets home from work because I'm praying she's cheating on me and still fucking black guys."

No, you insist, not you, that's crazy talk, you wouldn't enjoy her cheating in the first place, let alone with black men.

She then says, "well, good, but since we're married and supposed to have each other's interests in mine, I want to tell you that I'll never cheat on you.....again."

You say WHAT? She says I know that profile was you because I asked one of the young black men that work in production if they knew about this website, and when Jeremy told me "oh, honey, I figured you knew about that already, your husband has emailed me and a couple other black guys here to encourage us to hit on you now and then, he wants us to ask you to party sometime with us."

so, yes, followers, that would be great way to bring you and your innocent wife more closely together, but it aint gonna happen.

So, if you really honestly have the burning desire to be cuckolded by her and a hot black guy, YOU have to take the lead and put the work into it. TRUST ME ON THIS ONE< it's a labor of love for me. Sometimes I got unlucky and called a pervert but MOST the time (2 wives, 5 girlfriends), after letting her/the girls see how much respect I have for black men and then let them see and hear me showing them NOTHING but interracial porn featuring cheating white girls of all ages and shapes, they let their guard down too, slowly but surely.

Tell her that same night that you want to just suck her clit tonight, you want to keep your cock iin your pants tonight, it's all about her getting off, it's all about what her pussy needs to feel and hear from you tonight. And when she's getting close to cumming, tell her the reason you are keeping your pants on tonight is becauase all you can think about is her getting fucked right now by big black cock.

After she cums and cuddles up, cuddle up next to her and tell her that she squeezed your head when she was cumming harder than ever.

Just an easy thing and fun and hopefully fresh for her AND you. She's NOT getting herself off thinking about fucking white guys, THAT has NEVER been something I've seen or experienced. Here's original pic of my girl getting her pussy OWNED before they even got clothes off. Your girl will let this happen when she's with black men, but don't ask or even suggest that sshe should do it for you, too. She won't, and you really don't want her to, either.bbc own.JPG
 
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