Do white women love being seduced, or do they prefer quickies?

[SanDiegoBlack]

Seems to me that most white women love the act of seducing and teasing a black man versus just picking a guy up for a one-nighter. Most of the women I've been with have extensive wardrobes that include lingerie, stockings and sexy underwear. With couples, this is almost always the case. The hubby loves to see his woman at her sexiest, right in front of him! They both enjoy knowing that I'm devouring her looks, attention to detail, and the effort she put into making herself as hot as possible.
Just curious....Am I right, or do more women pick up black men at bars, restaurants, etc., and want to go straight to the action?

 

[KatyMisbehavin]

I would want to meet a guy first, for sure. A quickie sounds exciting - maybe if it was vacation or something spontaneous and we 100 percent clicked - but otherwise, yes, the work up to the action is what makes it!

 

[mrscondo]

I’ve done my share of quickies. My preference is to be wined, dined, and seduced.

 

[xxbree34]

I want to be seduced

 

[funcouple52661]

I’ve done both. I’ve enjoyed both

 

[berna35]

I only do it during business trips so mostly quickies very much thrilling

 

[SanDiegoBlack]

I’ve done my share of quickies. My preference is to be wined, dined, and seduced.

That's my preference, too. The whole seduction process is a turn on, and makes the relationship more than an hour long fling.

 

[SanDiegoBlack]

I want to be seduced

No right or wrong answer, but seduction is like a foreplay for the mind! Love it as a precursor to what may follow.

 

[ldrendall]

Definitely seduced

 

[Wifeaskt4bf]

Seems to me that most white women love the act of seducing and teasing a black man versus just picking a guy up for a one-nighter. Most of the women I've been with have extensive wardrobes that include lingerie, stockings and sexy underwear. With couples, this is almost always the case. The hubby loves to see his woman at her sexiest, right in front of him! They both enjoy knowing that I'm devouring her looks, attention to detail, and the effort she put into making herself as hot as possible.
Just curious....Am I right, or do more women pick up black men at bars, restaurants, etc., and want to go straight to the action?

Mine loves it. But hasn't taken all the way. So frustrating.

 

[Whynot1731]

Hit and run for us.

 

[SanDiegoBlack]

Mine loves it. But hasn't taken all the way. So frustrating.

Give her time and don't push her. Keep assuring her that you're supportive and she may go ahead and take that step.

 

[CuriousChloe]

I don't need some long drawn out seduction but I for sure need a cinnection or need to feel a connection of some sort.

 

[SanDiegoBlack]

I don't need some long drawn out seduction but I for sure need a cinnection or need to feel a connection of some sort.

So you're not necessarily looking to immediately drop the panties (if you're wearing any), and you do enjoy meeting a guy that can engage in a conversation and is interested in more than simply getting under your skirt?

 

[CuriousChloe]

Tbh he can just want to get under my skirt and get my panties off I am fine with that but yea I don't ever see myself just dropping my panties for some guy without a connection being formed and it doesn't need to be this long built up connection but an interesting conversation, some flirting, a shared interest something. It all goes a long ways in a person being a turn on for me

 

[wippersnapper]

No "wham bam thank-you mam and I'm out the door" with my wife. She needs the feeling of sensuality between her and her lover of the moment. She fully gives of herself to a lover that shows her patience and caring for her desires as well as his own.

 

[AnnieS]

Gee I don’t know. What do you think?

 

[SanDiegoBlack]

Gee I don’t know. What do you think?

Check out the answers. Not as cut and dry as you would think. Certainly surprised me!

 

[Wifeaskt4bf]

Give her time and don't push her. Keep assuring her that you're supportive and she may go ahead and take that step.

Appreciate the encouragement. Hoping to use new toy sooner. Add the new movie I bought. And see what happens!!!

 

[couplejoueur]

j'aime bien les 2 cas.
mais même pour un coup rapide il faut me séduire.