So if the hubby bf can't get it together as you said and keeps fighting it all the time? Then maybe hubby bf ain't beta.
He might actually be an alpha but a weaker bull? Should he get turned out bi gay then? Is that the law of nature that a weaker bull should be fucked and turned into a steer then like the beta ? Or should he leave them two and find another woman who doesn't want a cuck him so he can do the fucking again? This is a serious question,I thought of this after reading your post.
If there is actual conflict and/or true unhappiness on the part of the committed male due to the outside sexual activities of his female, then he needs to learn acceptance or move on. He could be lacking the emotional maturity to love and support his partner and her unconventional choices, or he may truly be unable due to his nature.
Another possibility is that he likes the process of fighting for his woman’s attention, followed by failing in a spectacular way that is presented to him. A bull that I know said that one of his hottest experiences was coming back to a couple a year after they stopped to work on their marriage and attempt to be traditional again. The husband looked and felt defeated, and the bull watched him most of the time while he pleasured the wife. The husband didn’t want to get hard and masturbate, but he did.
Finally, not all bulls want to fuck betas in the ass to prove a point. They could if they wanted, but many do not. The point to me is that the alpha can do so while retaining 100 percent of his heterosexuality. In my experience, it is mainly about humbling the fellow hetero beta, not being gay.