As an older white sissy boi I define sex just as you have described it. Gone for me is the stress of trying to please a woman. Just as my wife did...I found that once you have a Black Cock deep inside your body, no other act will come close to the pleasure, satisfaction and emotional fulfillment.
Something else I would like to share, if I may. I don't often see this aspect talked about. Let me be clear with what I am about to reveal. This is my opinion only. I am not, nor can I speak for other white bois.
Being penetrated is absolutely different than penetrating. I mean more than just the physical act itself. Yes the physical act is also much different in the feeling of my body.
Being penetrated is accepting a Man to enter your body. It is so much more intimate in both the act as well as the emotional, mental, and spiritual aspects. When I used to fuck women, wife I felt and thought with my penis. Being penetrated I dont even know I have one, nor do I care. The bonding of completely surrendering ones body and emotions to a Man is life altering and so much more satisfying on every level.
Orgasms. Orgasms are also completely. When I pretended to be an Alpha and fucked a woman or even my wife I thought of only the pleasure my penis was feeling and my desire to cum. While being penetrated I think about nothing except the Man that I have given myself and my body to. I only care about him and his pleasure. This, combined with being stimulated internally rather than externally has resulted in the most intense and whole body orgasms. Note, I did not say cumming. I think I came as a guy, I orgasm as a sissy. So so so much better both physically and emotionally. After I came...I was done. After I orgasm (which by the way can last for a long time) I do not lose my sexual desires or needs. In fact the exact opposite is true. I need and desire to feel that sensation again and again. I have found that when a Man has is big Cock deep inside me, stretching me, filling me, I want...no I need more. When he is done I can and do want more, but also find that I am purring like a kitten in his arms.
Anyone else feel the same?