Can a cuckold ever go back to a vanilla sex life?
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Men, why is it so difficult to go back to vanilla.
Here is why I’m asking. Anyone would think having sex of any kind would be better than watching your wife have sex, even it is awesome sex, with some other dude ......what is it that makes you think, “I’d rather see her fucking BBC than me fucking her?”
Here is why I’m asking. Anyone would think having sex of any kind would be better than watching your wife have sex, even it is awesome sex, with some other dude ......what is it that makes you think, “I’d rather see her fucking BBC than me fucking her?”
Yeah, I feel you. When you see her react to BBC and then you compare that reaction to how she reacts to you, it can significantly take away from your pleasure.
Do now you derive pleasure from her extreme pleasure.
Do now you derive pleasure from her extreme pleasure.
I am sorry you feel this and sometimes I do too! I was wondering if this lifestyle reinforces our own insecurities? Is this healthy and does the fantasy creep into our daily habits and lives? This obsession of ours do we become a beta man in real life situations. Are we walked over and take a back seat in real life business and personal situations that could hurt us? What I am saying is that if the cuck is willing to get his wife and himself fucked sexually why would he stand his ground on other situations? Are we all George McFly's?
It's absolutely impossible as far as I can see! It totally rewires your brain and sexual appetite until nothing gets you off in the same way!
For me it was an competitive thing. Both my ex’s said I fucked harder, longer and better after sharing them. Plus it was more MFM threesomes and some one on one side action for my ex’s then them telling me or sending me pics would have me rushing home to reclaim them! Was the best sex I’ve ever had!
We have not played with our BBC BULL in quite sometime. My gorgeous wife and I have great sex together but after sucking our BULL's cock and being his bitch in our bedroom for about 3 of the 5 years that we had all played together, I cannot shake the fact that I have urges to submit to hot muscular ALPHA guys. I jackoff to gay porn, cuck porn and femdom porn. I miss and need the humiliation and verbal and physical DOMINATION of being a submissive bottom cuckold. I have never cheated on my wife but I do constantly fantasize about pleasing cocks so much now.
I do not know if it is true but we might be on a downward spiral. Because we never have enough, and once we achieved one fantasy, we desire more and crazier porn to get us stimulated. Is that you too? I have been listening to this guy who has a Connor McGonigal and it might he has theory on why we are cuckolds.
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I do not know if it helps but here is my situation. Hours spent on different Porno sites like ourhotwives or cuckhold forum et al and fantasies keep on getting more extreme. I cannot get an erection unless it involves some sort of hardcore porno or fantasy. We started out as swingers and became cuckolds and now my wife has tired of it but I cannot move on like she has. Does this sound similar?
This is somewhat tangential but I think it fits here.... years ago I had a girlfriend who also part-timed as a *******.
She was very skilled at sex (practice!) and I've often noted how boring sex has been with "vanilla" relationships has been since.
It seems to me once you've had really exciting bedroom experiences you are just ruined for anything less than.
She was very skilled at sex (practice!) and I've often noted how boring sex has been with "vanilla" relationships has been since.
It seems to me once you've had really exciting bedroom experiences you are just ruined for anything less than.
I agree. It took me several years to accept it. My wife had numerous affairs. She told me she needed a bigger cock and a better sex partner. I found my self masturbating to the fantasy of her having sex with a well endowed lover. When I finally witnessed her having sex with some one with a huge cock and saw how she responded, I knew I could not deny her that pleasure We came to an understanding. She coud have sex with her lovers and still love me.
I couldn’t go back even if I wanted to.
I was never great in bed and my younger wife lovingly tolerated my inadequacy in bed for the early years of our marriage.
After six years of her being fucked by BBC I am even less able to function as my size is reduced from lack of use. My wife has noticed I longer get fully hard when she gives me handjobs.
I’m glad she has great sex and would never attempt to be the one to satisfy her needs.
I was never great in bed and my younger wife lovingly tolerated my inadequacy in bed for the early years of our marriage.
After six years of her being fucked by BBC I am even less able to function as my size is reduced from lack of use. My wife has noticed I longer get fully hard when she gives me handjobs.
I’m glad she has great sex and would never attempt to be the one to satisfy her needs.
The thoughts and fantasies never go away, but a great woman could make me happy in a vanilla relationship.
Although, truth be told, I would most likely try to steer her toward cuckolding.
Although, truth be told, I would most likely try to steer her toward cuckolding.
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I could never go back. When you watch your young wife and mom taken over like that by black man it hits your brain hard. Still jerk off to them all the time.
I can't go back I'm addicted.
I could never go back. When you watch your young wife and mom taken over like that by black man it hits your brain hard. Still jerk off to them all the time.
I can't go back I'm addicted.
I do not get sexually excited about any other kind of sex anymore. We have taken breaks from cuckolding over the years and even attempted other things, and we always returned to interracial cuckolding. No matter what other sex we tried, BBCs fucking her was all I could think about, and my tiny dick was never going to satisfy her. We are just wired this way.
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When one can quite drinking, opium and ******* addicted can leave that habits then Cuckolding is also reversible but look at example quoted its not that easy lol
I can tell you that’s true, when my wife is in between her black lovers I feel lost, it’s impossible to not be a cuckold once black guys are getting your wife.
