Bulls do you like the husband present or nah ?

I'm good either way as long as the husband watches and doesn't bother us but then i know some husband's that like to join which is perfectly fine. I'll just leave the situation if the husband is too pushy and is always trying to direct the action or don't do that or don't do that either and only this.

When they put all these limits on the fun and directs you to do this and that it takes the fun away from the whole evening.
 
I will not fuck without the hubs present. I enjoy it more knowing he is there and I do a lot of it with him in mind.
Agree 100 percent. It’s us doing it together. I get more excited with looking over at my husband and seeing him excited than anything else. Nothing like getting used by a BBC and seeing my love, love seeing me like that.
 
I've been in this lifestyle overwhelmingly it's the husband that makes the initial approach. Personally my hard no is any aspect of seducing (tricking) her into it-if he doesn't love her enough to talk to her, I'm staying out of that minefield. Otherwise I take my cues from the two of them. I have some anxiety with EVERY new couple knowing some have talked but may not be able to handle the walk.

But if he is present, I insist he participate in some form, helping to undress her, or holding her hand during, whatever it takes for her to be able to say he was involved AFTER the fact. I've seen guys make it happen, then blame her for it all, and I do my best to make that an impossibility.
 
I thought the whole idea of this lifestyle was to watch your partner with a BBC ? Or even a MFM situation. May be different for me as we are more a stag and vixen couple rather then cuckold and humiliation. The main reason my wife likes this lifestyle is because I would be present watching her be a slut for another man ! She said that's the whole reason this fantasy turns her on so much because it turns me on and it's something we want to do together ? Anyone else the same ? Bulls do you take more pleasure in a husband being present?
 
I thought the whole idea of this lifestyle was to watch your partner with a BBC ? Or even a MFM situation. May be different for me as we are more a stag and vixen couple rather then cuckold and humiliation. The main reason my wife likes this lifestyle is because I would be present watching her be a slut for another man ! She said that's the whole reason this fantasy turns her on so much because it turns me on and it's something we want to do together ? Anyone else the same ? Bulls do you take more pleasure in a husband being present?
Absolutely a number of reasons
 
My wife along with her bulls have not wanted me there with them, to my wife it’s about her and her black bulls not me. I try to focus on my wife’s pleasure not mine.
That comment let's everyone on here know you are a true alpha male not some beta. To be secure with yourself and what you and your wife have. Not caught up on your own ego.
 
I'm kinda past it. If they want to watch, whatever. My regulars don't and I haven't had any new in awhile. As long as the husband is cool and not controlling or pushy, it's fine. It's when you get the guys who think they are directing a porno or want this for themselves and not really what the wife wants that I can do without. Be cool, up front and have realistic expectations, and it's good.. usually.
 
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