I used to be nervous about hub watching, but then I grew to like it. I found that with married couples, they tend to like to do it together more and I came to accept that. Now I like it and prefer married couples so hub can watch, and enjoy watching, as long as he doesn't interrupt trying to direct and all that. One hub did not want to be in the room, but that was his preference. If wife has a preference, I wouldn't care either way. But I found that if I am going to be with married couples, it is better to get used to hub watching anyway because most hubs like watching.