Bull getting romantic with wife

[Rachel Weiss]

I wasnt quite sure whether I should post this in a forum, or if I have made the right decision, but I’m actually pretty excited right now. Guess what? My girlfriend has set me up on a proper date with a black former athlete! Really! It’s a friend of the guy she’s sleeping with, I won’t say his real name but he used to be a professional footballer!!. She showed me some photos so I can say with some certainty that

1) He’s black

2) He’s handsome

3) He’s muscular

And according to my girlfriend, he’s self confident, VERY financially independent with some kind of sports car and two apartments, and he’s hung, so what more does a hot pretty lady like me need? I only intend to have drinks with him and get to know him a little better, of course, at least at first lol

My girlfriend has told me some pretty raunchy things about him too. There is a story going round from a few years ago that he had an affair with the wife of the manager of one of his former teams, and the manager caught them rutting in his bed one afternoon and just freaked out and there were all kinds of repercussions. I don’t know if it is true but he left the football club shortly afterwards.

Anyway, we’ve set it up for Wednesday, because that’s the night I normally go out for drinks with my girlfriend, who’s in on the plan. I’m actually meeting in another town that’s quite close to ours, at a Middle-Eastern restaurant where I won’t bump into any of our friends or Jewish family. I think its quite clever of me to think it out that way. This girl isn’t just a pretty face lol

Of course I feel guilty about my husband, who wouldn’t?, But as my girlfriend said, I owe it to myself to have a bit of fun and enjoy life, and not spend my best years stuck in a childless marriage that isn’t any fun, at all actually. I was really at first hesitant, but my girlfriend (who is dating black man btw) told me that I owe it to myself to explore other options in life, take the path les travelled as she put it. She pointed out that I am a very attractive young lady with a body that many men admire, and therefore I deserve the best. And guess what, I think she may be right J

Looking at this site here and others I have come to realize that men come in all shapes and sizes, and I happen to like black men. I am no longer comfortable or attracted to my white husband’s shape, or size. In fact, there’s really not much about him I like any more, hes on a constant downer, always moaning about not having any money or something. I mean, he is quite intelligent, but he is in his 40’s and suffers from a skin condition, and also his personal hygene is bad. What a downer for any girl right?.

I do hope that people will understand that I only want a bit of harmless fun, and I deserve it. Any advice would be most welcome. I am not sure how to dress – conservative and classy, I think, with high heels and a business suit or dress.

I’m really not sure what I am getting into, but you only live once, right? I just need some romance back in my life. Actually I cant wait xxx

 

[falcondfw69]

Easy MacNfries... so most men whether white, black, red, orange with high testosterone are going to try and be domineering and controlling. Hell I've even seen stud lesbians try and domineer the submissive woman in the relationship when they thought the woman was leaving their sphere of influence. On the flip-side, I once got challenged to a fight by a female stud who wanted to prove her masculine dominant power to her gf when she thought she was losing control over her woman.

The sexual power that may rage through a man's body especially when a woman acts submissive to him brings on animalistic primal spirits where just like a Lion over his pride, or the eldest Gorilla will try and control all of the females. Look at it from a psychological and nature perspective and not so much about a black male perspective. After all they are objectifying black-males as Bulls, and what do Bulls do - they charge, with heads down and horns up. I enjoy the comments and I think this is healthy to express the thoughts and opinions and think we should do something constructive as make a list of dos and dont's. Lets set that up MacNFries in another Thread. How about it.

If that is truly your body in your avatar, you must have absolutely died laughing when she challenged you to a fight. lol.

 

[falcondfw69]

I wasnt quite sure whether I should post this in a forum, or if I have made the right decision, but I’m actually pretty excited right now. Guess what? My girlfriend has set me up on a proper date with a black former athlete! Really! It’s a friend of the guy she’s sleeping with, I won’t say his real name but he used to be a professional footballer!!. She showed me some photos so I can say with some certainty that

1) He’s black

2) He’s handsome

3) He’s muscular

And according to my girlfriend, he’s self confident, VERY financially independent with some kind of sports car and two apartments, and he’s hung, so what more does a hot pretty lady like me need? I only intend to have drinks with him and get to know him a little better, of course, at least at first lol

My girlfriend has told me some pretty raunchy things about him too. There is a story going round from a few years ago that he had an affair with the wife of the manager of one of his former teams, and the manager caught them rutting in his bed one afternoon and just freaked out and there were all kinds of repercussions. I don’t know if it is true but he left the football club shortly afterwards.

Anyway, we’ve set it up for Wednesday, because that’s the night I normally go out for drinks with my girlfriend, who’s in on the plan. I’m actually meeting in another town that’s quite close to ours, at a Middle-Eastern restaurant where I won’t bump into any of our friends or Jewish family. I think its quite clever of me to think it out that way. This girl isn’t just a pretty face lol

Of course I feel guilty about my husband, who wouldn’t?, But as my girlfriend said, I owe it to myself to have a bit of fun and enjoy life, and not spend my best years stuck in a childless marriage that isn’t any fun, at all actually. I was really at first hesitant, but my girlfriend (who is dating black man btw) told me that I owe it to myself to explore other options in life, take the path les travelled as she put it. She pointed out that I am a very attractive young lady with a body that many men admire, and therefore I deserve the best. And guess what, I think she may be right J

Looking at this site here and others I have come to realize that men come in all shapes and sizes, and I happen to like black men. I am no longer comfortable or attracted to my white husband’s shape, or size. In fact, there’s really not much about him I like any more, hes on a constant downer, always moaning about not having any money or something. I mean, he is quite intelligent, but he is in his 40’s and suffers from a skin condition, and also his personal hygene is bad. What a downer for any girl right?.

I do hope that people will understand that I only want a bit of harmless fun, and I deserve it. Any advice would be most welcome. I am not sure how to dress – conservative and classy, I think, with high heels and a business suit or dress.

I’m really not sure what I am getting into, but you only live once, right? I just need some romance back in my life. Actually I cant wait xxx

Rachel,

Yes, men come in all shapes and sizes and ambitions and sex drives. Just like women. And, as someone in his 40's (late 40's), I can tell you that age does not determine any of the previous things. My fiance will turn 25 in September.

I think you are smart not to "play at home", as they say.

You do deserve to enjoy your life. But I am very sorry things with your husband have progressed as far as they have. I do understand about the hygiene and stuff. He needs to take better care of himself. I am sure the depression he feels has a lot to do with how he is treating himself, but there is no excuse for having poor hygiene. And yes, that would be a downer.

Seems like you have a lot of difficult decisions to make. But I hope you have fun on Wednesday. And I would go with a skirt and nice blouse. Somewhat conservative, but the skirt should be shorter than you would normally wear in a business situation.

 

[BigBlackBull76]

Those were all good personal stories people relayed. I think people must remember that although the white woman and white man may think its just sex with a Black Bull, feelings can develop because sex can be an intimate thing. I'm a poetic and philosopher at heart so I tend to wax poetic and philosophical on topics like this.

Not to get too scientific on here as I could, but when 2 people have sex there is a chemical that is released especially for woman known as Oxytocin. Oxytocin chemical serves as a "bonding hormone" chemical which makes the woman by nature feel a bond toward her partner that she copulates with, or the baby she gives birth too. I do my homework and know a myriad of ways to enslave a woman.

look it up: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oxytocin

With that being said, it can often be hard for a woman or the Black Bull for fact of the matter to separate their emotional feelings for someone with just the physical act of sex because of the hormones released by primal nature. It really takes a conscientious effort to not get those "Blurr the lines" -like the Robin Thicke song and suppress ones emotions. You just love the way that Black bull, or that hot white cum slut slave may fuck and you develop deeper feelings which can be hard to control.

 

[BigBlackBull76]

If that is truly your body in your avatar, you must have absolutely died laughing when she challenged you to a fight. lol.

Indeed I did laugh as well as the 5 other men who were standing around when they heard the stud woman say "do you want to take this outside?" You know guys being guys they joked me about it for a good 6months. At first I was amused, then I was pissed, then I was aroused like I bet if I just fuck that Stud good - she would submit and go back to being a submissive little slut bitch like she is supposed to be.

 

[BigBlackBull76]

I saw another good article on the web that kind of addressed the issue of the Bull getting too romantic or becoming a lover to the cum slut wife. It offerred some great advice people should keep in mind that I will summarize below:

Lover or Bull?
ref: http://merryporns.com/lover-or-bull/

For a Hotwife, what’s the difference between a lover and a Bull?

When she’s with her lover, that babe has a great time, but in the back of her mind, she’s looking forward to getting back home to her spouse and cuddling and sleeping with him. That babe needs to feel that connection.

When she’s with her Bull, this babe doesn’t even think of you. In those moments, it’s like you don’t even exist. This chab consumes her. Owns her. This babe belongs to him. That babe acquires lost in his presence. And she spends the night with him.

--- What is all that saying: to establish emotional boundaries in your life between your lover/spouse and Black Bull.

That is my disclaimer. However in real-life it may not be that easy as lets face it, who can really master controlling all of their emotions especially when a woman may become adDICted to the Black Bull's Massive cock.

 

[Rachel Weiss]

omg thats enormous

 

[steve6557]

My husband is unemployed too, Steve, like you were. He can't afford to take me out, and wine, dine and romance me. And let's be honest, all girls like that sort of thing. I know a couple of guys with plenty of money, including a black businessman who is in a relationship with a friend of mine, and the big boss at my work. Both really have some swagger, I can tell you. The boss man has acted inappropriately with me on a couple of occasions, nothing serious, I just feel he infringed on my personal space a little too much, and paying me compliments. Last week he told me I smell good, which I thought was a little odd but sexy.

But when I get home my husband hasn't cleaned the house and there is washing up to do, it's just not romantic and who wants to kiss a chubby middle aged guy in a white vest, jogging bottoms and dirty socks?

Oh well, my husband has a job interview this week, maybe things will change and he will get some of his swagger back. I hope so!

Hi Rachel,
The BBC that took my wife had it all, I could not compete with him at all. Aside from the money he was always sharply dressed, he could be on the cover of GQ magazine. A body that any man would be jealous of and that 8" pipe hanging between his legs. He touched all her hot buttons just right, a true gentleman! The first date the limo came to pick her up and the driver gave her a red rose. The night he gave her the 3ct diamond, they had dinner on the beach a table just for them with rose pedals all around. She fell for him big time

 

[Orion Pax]

omg thats enormous

Why put your husband down like in front of strangers on the internet? You should keep your business between the two of you, regardless of the situation at home. Here another poor guy that might go off the deep end.

 

[falcondfw69]

Hi Rachel,
The BBC that took my wife had it all, I could not compete with him at all. Aside from the money he was always sharply dressed, he could be on the cover of GQ magazine. A body that any man would be jealous of and that 8" pipe hanging between his legs. He touched all her hot buttons just right, a true gentleman! The first date the limo came to pick her up and the driver gave her a red rose. The night he gave her the 3ct diamond, they had dinner on the beach a table just for them with rose pedals all around. She fell for him big time

You are wrong. He had everything, EXCEPT class and morals. You don't set out to steal another man's wife. Especially if he is nice enough to let you fuck her. The things he did were designed to steal her, from what you say. That makes him scum of the Earth in my book. I don't care how rich or good looking he was.

 

[falcondfw69]

Those were all good personal stories people relayed. I think people must remember that although the white woman and white man may think its just sex with a Black Bull, feelings can develop because sex can be an intimate thing. I'm a poetic and philosopher at heart so I tend to wax poetic and philosophical on topics like this.

Not to get too scientific on here as I could, but when 2 people have sex there is a chemical that is released especially for woman known as Oxytocin. Oxytocin chemical serves as a "bonding hormone" chemical which makes the woman by nature feel a bond toward her partner that she copulates with, or the baby she gives birth too. I do my homework and know a myriad of ways to enslave a woman.

look it up: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oxytocin

With that being said, it can often be hard for a woman or the Black Bull for fact of the matter to separate their emotional feelings for someone with just the physical act of sex because of the hormones released by primal nature. It really takes a conscientious effort to not get those "Blurr the lines" -like the Robin Thicke song and suppress ones emotions. You just love the way that Black bull, or that hot white cum slut slave may fuck and you develop deeper feelings which can be hard to control.

BBB,
I totally agree with what you are saying. I personally, when I was younger, tried to be the "ladies man about town". I could not do it. I could not separate the two no matter how hard I tried. I had to have feelings for who I was sleeping with or it was a rather dull and unfulfilling event.

 

[steve6557]

You are wrong. He had everything, EXCEPT class and morals. You don't set out to steal another man's wife. Especially if he is nice enough to let you fuck her. The things he did were designed to steal her, from what you say. That makes him scum of the Earth in my book. I don't care how rich or good looking he was.

It was my wife that went on the dating site to find him, although she was looking just for sex. He offered a lot more and she took it. So they both were wrong if you look at it that way

 

[Rachel Weiss]

Hi Rachel,
The BBC that took my wife had it all, I could not compete with him at all. Aside from the money he was always sharply dressed, he could be on the cover of GQ magazine. A body that any man would be jealous of and that 8" pipe hanging between his legs. He touched all her hot buttons just right, a true gentleman! The first date the limo came to pick her up and the driver gave her a red rose. The night he gave her the 3ct diamond, they had dinner on the beach a table just for them with rose pedals all around. She fell for him big time

Wow I'm not surprised, he sounds like every woman's dream. Women love romance as much as sex

 

[marriedslut4blax]

I definately can go along with the owning part as long as the session lasts ...I personally love the DOMINATION part of it all
I THINK IT IS HOTTT!!

 

[lustwunsch]

Rachel you are so correct. When my wife and BBC first met the sex was intense, but he began to woo her. He not only wanted to own her, but have her fall in love with him, which she did. He got very romantic and controling of her. She told me in less than a month, she loved him and he owned her body. I was toast. He enjoyed cucking me when they were here(3 times) and the 1 visit I had to VA. They lived in VA and I'm in TN too far apart to keep a relationship going. We now are divorced any they are living happily ever after.

That has to be accepted! ******* happens.

 

[Rachel Weiss]

I have an update from last night. You’ll be pleased to hear that it went very well, and I am one happy and excited lady, though it wasn’t quite what I expected!! Thanks for the messages of support, by the way, I do appreciate the understanding, love and encouragement.

If you remember my girlfriend had set me up on a proper date with a black former athlete, a friend of the guy she’s sleeping with. Well, I was looking forward to it a lot – but at the same time, I was worried about going behind my husband’s back. Needless to say, I think I made the right decision in the end.

I had a hair appointment earlier that day, and they did a great job. I wasn’t quite sure what to wear, though. I contemplated wearing a hot clinging dress, but as I was supposed to be going out with my girlfriend, I don’t think my husband would have approved! I eventually took the advice of Falcon dfw, and wore conservative, professional attire – a kind of black-and-white business attire, with a white blouse, black skirt, and strappy heels. My skirt was slightly above the knee, but I wore black pantyhose with criss-cross patterns on the back. I am a full figured girl, and the blouse and skirt were slightly tight on me, which served to accentuate my curves, which I know are one of my best assets.

I also wore my best jewelry, which I only put on after I left my husband slumped on the sofa watching football. That is, three gold rings, a gold necklace, a gold bracelet on my wrist and a classy, thin gold anklet above my left heel. I saved the red lipstick until I was in the taxi too.

Well, I was first to arrive at the restaurant, and spent an anxious five minutes fidgeting, crossing and re-crossing my legs, and wondering if my dress was right and if I had made the right decision coming here at all! But then, I spotted a broad, very tall, bald-headed young black man at the entrance, and I knew I had been right all along. He looked gorgeous, enough to make any girl’s mouth water. He wore a tight black silk shirt, classy-looking black slacks, and snakeskin ankle boots. I waved, and he strode over towards me. I stood up, a little flushed, and he then took my hand and kissed my cheek, and told me he was “really pleased to meet you at last”.

My first thought was: “oh my god, he’s even more handsome than his picture, and he’s very, very muscular. Even though he was wearing a shirt I could tell that he was muscular and sooo ripped. That’s why I was so flustered, and I accepted his offer of a large champagne to calm me down a little.

I’ll call him Jamaal (not his real name of course). Anyway he was very, very self confident and we settled into conversation easily. To be honest it was a bit of a dream, and the time went so quickly. After a few pleasentries, he began paying me all kinds of compliments, like telling me what a “classy attractive lady” I was and how a woman like me deserved “all the best things in life”. I was loving it, he was so sweet and romantic, and after my third ******* I started to talk freely about the situation at home with my unemployed husband, and my boring childless marriage

At first I felt a bit disrespectful, talking about my husband’s problems and shortcoming to this hot young black stud that I had only known an hour but he was so sweet, kind and understanding, I almost melted. At one point, he said that if I were his woman I wouldn’t want for anything, and he would enjoy romancing me, sweeping me off to Paris at weekends. He said that a woman like me needed a strong man to protect her and make her feel wanted, and I deserved better than an unemployed, overweight husband. I was shocked he said that, but agreed wholeheartedly. Jamaal has the knack of knowing what I am thinking, and I sooo love that.

At one point Jamaal shocked me by using a word that I thought was slightly strange. After I had told him about my husband running away from a pub brawl some years ago, he said “he sounds like a real bitch to me”. I was surprised that he used the word “bitch” as I thought black men only used it for their women. But Jamaal just laughed and told me that they also use the word to describe another male who is weak or effeminate. Then he explained that if he were to call me his “bitch”, that would be a positive term, and respectful to me. But if he called another man the same thing, that would be condescending.

Right then, I secretly thought then that I would very much like to be his “bitch”

I asked Jamaal about the story that he had an affair with the wife of the manager of one of his former football teams, and he said that it was true but it’s not like he seduced her at all. She literally threw herself at him, he didn’t instigate it at all. He also got a six figure payoff when he left the club, he added, as there was “nothing in his contract to say he couldn’t sleep with whoever he wanted”

Anyway, by the end of the night I was very flustered, and blushing from all the romance and the compliments he had given me, and I couldn’t help but gaze into those smoldering eyes and those abs and pecs under that tight shirt. I had to make a conscious effort not to keep licking my lips, and I am embarrassed to say that my nipples were standing right out under my tight blouse, there's no way he couldn't have noticed. It really made me blush, but at the same time I liked him looking. There was nothing I could do about that. A couple of times I caught him looking, and I took a deep breath, Then our eyes met, and we both smiled. It was soo romantic, I felt weak at the knees.

He drove me back to my girlfriend’s place in his sports car, which I think is a Mercedes. It goes really fast but Jamaal was an expert driver and in perfect control, which I found to be hot and sexy. We parked outside her place, and I asked him if he wanted to come in for a *******, but he declined. That’s when he kissed me.

It was a long, slow, soul kiss, and he tasted so good, our mouths locked together and our tongues intertwined for what seemed like ages . After about five minutes he took my dainty hand and softly placed it at the top of his slacks so I could feel his size. I honestly gave a loud, involuntary groan through the soul kiss as I felt it. It seemed amazingly thick and hard, it was huge, and I could even feel the veins on it through his slacks.

I know I said that I only intended to have drinks, but I would probably have been willing to give him a blow job if he had wanted. But instead, he broke the kiss and told me that we should not rush into anything and for now I should go back to my husband. What a gentleman Jamaal is! I really did admire him for that, such a nice guy. After he had driven off I realized that I didn’t get his phone number, which I am slightly mad about – but he has mine, and hopefully he will call or text soon.

I ended up telling my girlfriend all about the date when she drove me home, and she said that it sounded really romantic, and I needed some romance in my life. But she can also be a little crude, and she said that if she was in my situation in Jamaal’s sports car, she’d probably have begged to suck his black dick!

When I got home my husband asked me if I had had a good time, and I said yes, thanks you. That’s all he asked, and he went back to watching the football. I looked at his fat body on the sofa and couldn’t help but compare him to Jamaal.

As I mentioned before, I hope that people will understand that I only want a bit of fun, and I just need some romance back in my life. Actually I can’t wait to see Jamaal again. But I am afraid that he won’t want to take things any further until I have told my husband that I want a trial separation. Really I am scared to do that as I think he is still in love with me despite all his problems. As I mentioned, he didn’t take it well when I previously threatened to walk out.

But my date with Jamaal confirmed my view that I am a very attractive young “bitch” with a body that hot black men admire, and therefore I can have better than my husband, if I like. And if things don’t change soon, I am pretty sure that I won’t be with him much longer. He has a job interview today though, so maybe things will pick up. It would at least be great to have him out of the house!!

 

[Rachel Weiss]

Better add that Jamaal has texted me since, and he says that he had a wonderful time, and if I do decide to leave hubby, he will treat me to a smart hotel for as long as I like. Wow, what a man! x x

 

[j_of_argos]

Better add that Jamaal has texted me since, and he says that he had a wonderful time, and if I do decide to leave hubby, he will treat me to a smart hotel for as long as I like. Wow, what a man! x x

have to ask have you met him again since?

 

[Rachel Weiss]

yes I have and he fucked me the very next night lol xxx

Actually Jamaal wasn't such a perfect gentleman in the end as he totally fucked up my husband's ego the other night, and I was a victim too as he made me watch. But that is not a topic for this thread so I posted what happened on another thread.

 

[MacNfries]

... if I do decide to leave hubby, he will treat me to a smart hotel for as long as I like.

OK, I give up, I know I'm not the shiniest dime in the bunch, but what the hell is a "smart hotel" ... pleazzzzzzzze.