Hi Rachel, love the story of you and your (ex) husband, have you written a longer, detailed story anywhere? If so, I would love to be directed to it, if not, are you planning to? If not, would it be ok to ask some questions, to fill-out the story you have told so far?
I adore your perspective on racism where white guys keep try to oppress black guys. I adore Jewish women like you but where I live they adhere to Judaic traditions and they don't associate with us gentiles.