She said no
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Listen to what the majority 'here' are saying. She was pretty clear as to what she'd do if you insist.
Or, listen to your dick and lose her.
Maybe it would make you feel better knowing that most of these wild wife/gf stories are fake and usually just jack-off material for their own minds.
Why do you want to ruin a great relationship. As the old adage goes, "Be careful for what you wish for. Because it might come true".
Exactly my. Wife said no for 5 yrs then it happen. Start with blac dildo n plant the seed n let it grow over time n enjoy bedroom fantasy. Then play it all out in bedroom Once you. Both build connection to this fantasy it might just happen in time. Be patience never ******* it but let it happen naturally. Make her feel. Sexy n treasure her like your princess..Doesnt hurt to make sure you provide her with nail n hair appointment monthly n also take her shopping for sexy outfit n heels to wear out with you in date night n watch other guys notice her. The seed will turn. Into a. Flower but take time n patience n being her rock. keep us posted
it's not like people choose to have these sexual desires.
I think if cucks could just take a pill to turn into ideal masculine monogamous archetypes, we would.
Also I don't know what to tell you, OP. Unless you can work out some kind of substitute that works for you, I think your relationship is doomed, sadly.
No means no. Enjoy your porn and the fact that your wife loves you. Let it go.
My wife's past...befor I knew her she had done the 2 guy thing with a guy she was seeing and his roommate. She said it happened a few times. I'd bet it was more because she had told me she stayed the night with the guy. That's all good but I can only imagine there was more than a few times as the guys were roommates. She's said many times she is ashamed of things she did in her past and would never do a like that now.
Present day, we've been married 25+ years. We've been into mfm fun with a guy we know pretty regularly for over a year.
Who knows what's really in her mind..
Present day, we've been married 25+ years. We've been into mfm fun with a guy we know pretty regularly for over a year.
Who knows what's really in her mind..
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You planted the seed at least.
I think enough's said right there, my fellow forum member. I wonder how many true cucks would give their right nut to have a woman like you have? It's not as common these days to find a diamond like you have.
Someday she may want to explore a bit more with other men, but not today. You're the owner of a happily married woman and you don't realize or seem to appreciate it. Go home, take her in your arms, kiss her, and tell her you love her. That's what you do with a woman like you have.
This ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ @thotcommander
Just love her, cherish her, and give her that super sensual look as you look into her eyes when you make love to her.
If you ever find youself thinking, "If I could just get her to.................." STOP!!! and end that line of thinking right there.
Get off of this site, stop the porn and just look at her.......... You'll love what you see.
Just be with her
Again, I get the sense you like too many others BSed and made it about her instead of telling your OWN truth that it's hot to you...and it does make all the difference in the world.
Why does every woman say I can’t understand why a man would want this? It seems easy to understand. Do women think this maybe because they are normally conniving and cunning and always looking to manipulate men to get what they want so they think men must be doing that too? I think so. People always thing others think the same things so that probably explains it. Sorry ladies. Anyway it goes like this. Do women desire a man more when they see him walking down the street alone or when they see him talking to three women? We know what the answer is. Women desire a man that every other woman wants. Now do you understand how simple this is? I can send an above average looking man, let’s say he is a solid 8, into a crowded area and he will be luck to get a few looks from the women. Then I can send a below average looking man, let’s say he is a 4 or 5, into a crowded area with two beautiful women on each arm and every single woman there will notice him. They will wonder what this man has going for him and their desire for him will instantly go up big. You ladies all know this is true. So now tell me why you can’t understand why your husband wants to watch you fuck another guy. We feel the same way. When we see men desire you it makes our desire skyrocket. This should be one of the easiest things to understand. It’s pyschology 101. You can learn it before the first semester is over come on. I think it would be easier if women stopped think men are manipulative like them and just understand us men are pretty basic and straight forward. We actually mean what we say. What a concept right?
No that’s not it at all. First she thinks he will use it to go out and fuck other women himself. This is every woman’s fear because they worry about security more than anything else. No woman will do this until she is 100% convinced she is 100% secure and without that she will never do it. If she knows there is no way her husband will leave her she will bang that black stud and not worry one bit about being submissive to him. Enjoyment in sex for a woman comes second to security. Security is everything for a woman.
To be real you only have one option and there is a good chance it will work if you are really patient. Tell her you respect her feelings and it’s ok with you but tell her the idea really gets you off and you would like to fantasize about it and roll play in bed. Tell her you will cum hard if she talks about fucking black men. You simply make it a part of your sex life and then leave it at that. Give her extra special attention and affection when she makes you cum talking about black cock. Then you have to wait and see if her desire to do it for real comes around. That’s all you really have so don’t push.
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Omg, I love the girls that say never. Find little small ways to let her know you were curious, but not as a trap, but as a way of learning more. Tell her your sister or your friends wife has a black lover, make sure it’s positioned as a positive not ever a negative. Or, be brave and change your lives sooner with the truth, you had a dream about her and you on vacation in Jamaica and so many hot black men there, it made you proud in your dream when you could tell the attention was making you feel…..free.
100% correct.
Late 70s I had just turned 18 working at Kmart. About 150 employees, most were under 25. My manager was a really cool 26yo guy, good looking. He was doing several of the women that worked there, 2 were happily married. We got to be pretty good friends. He'd tell me if a girl asked what I was doing after work, on Friday, on the weekend, whenever, I need to say I was busy. I wasn't about to turn down a possible "date" of any kind but he told me it works. Damn he was right. Yes I sat home a few nights because I was "fake busy" but I got laid a LOT. My confidence went through the roof, I guess word got out that I had stuff going on(girl action). The new hires we'd call fresh meat. If I was chatting with a new hire one of the other girls would see, come over and make a date with me. Worked every time. Eventually the new girl(s) figured it out and soon I had a date with a new gal. Not all the girls were into messing around but plenty were.
There were four of us guys at the store all playing the girls, my manager included. As us guys got more friendly we'd talk about who had a date with who. Come to find out another manager(there was four), a friggin 39yo guy was doing the same thing.
About a year later I moved far away to a small midwestern town. I was 19 and living with grandma. I didn't know anyone but quickly got a job at the very small Kmart, 80 employees about half were small town, long term older mean women.
Granny took me to church that first Sunday. 7 people my age range, 16 to 19, 4 were girls, "good christian girls", granny made sure I knew that.
I was the new guy at Kmart so I worked most Sundays. I got invited to a party at a girls parents house, parents were not home. Probably 10 people when I got there, everyone was friendly and all worked at Kmart. Alcohol, pot, chips, popcorn. Within 30 minutes I was in a bathroom making out with a girl for at least 10 minutes. Half hour later making out with a different girl in a bedroom. I had her bra off but she got second thoughts because her boyfriend was supposed to show up at the party. Later that night I fucked a different girl in that same bedroom.
Couple of weeks later I had Sunday off, granny takes me to church. Two different girls politely and privately asked me out. I did go out with one, pizza, cokes then we drove around as she showed me the town. Ended up with an hour make-out session in my car with me playing with her tits then a blow job. Over about two years I fucked three of the girls several times including the preachers girl(no lie) that was engaged and on the pill so she could have sex with her fiance, her parents didn't know that. She was 19, very classy and good looking. She visited my place many times for sex. More church, I hooked up with two different happily married milfs, one three times before she came to her senses. Other was at least 30 times over about 6 months then her and family moved. All these church girls approached me, I never initiated any of it.
Long post, 100% true...and because girls knew other girls were into me. I was a regular, dorky kid. All because of my manager at Kmart.
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Early on with our marriage I told my wife I was bi
Then she opened up to me she had very strong feeling with her being bi. But never had the opportunity to explore I told her we need to change that. Joined an Adult web site and found a couple here in town that seemed to be a good fit
Oh boy was it. Opened up a whole new world for us both
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