I’m echoing what you said in relation to caliber(just on a female side) it’s important when you’re emotionally secure and not afraid to work on things that your energy is returned. You put the work in why should you do double the load, especially if someone doesn’t want to be your equal.
sadly man baby is a great description of the current Australian male. Our current femacide rates reflect what happens when they are told no. Meanwhile I’ll just watch from over there
thanks for the discussion.
Trust me, the 'Man-Chilld' problem is Global not just in OZ
I was talking to a young Danish girl recently and it's a problem in Denmark as well.
I started a thread called 'Black Men Raise your standards' specifically to address this issue.
The standards a person sets for themself will be the quality they get in life!
In Your case @missbe if the relationship situation is as DIRE as you claim, you DO have the option of moving. No one says you have to stay put on your remote island country LOL