What can I do to satisfy her mentally as well as physically? What will pleasure both her mind and body to the point that she let's go, moans and gasps words and sounds that come from her core. Touching places and opening feelings that she didn't know she had locked inside of her. If her boyfriend or husband is there, catching a glimpse of him smiling while he sees his love in a state of total mental and physical pleasure. That in turn, drives me into that same state of mind and body. After the end arrives, hearing her tell her husband that she cannot wait until she has the opportunity to feel that way again! And more often than not, I receive a call just to tell me how good it was, and, if they live nearby, would it be possible to meet again. That's the ultimate meet. In full disclosure, there are many meetings where the husband is giving directions..."Fuck her harder," fuck her deeper!." My thoughts then, "okay, this is more for you (hubby/boyfriend) than for her." Lastly, the wife who shouts how hard and deep she wants to be fucked, almost like a raw emotion or even punishment and embarrassment for wanting nothing but a hard Black fuck. Happens more often than you'd think. In both of those instances, I still try to give her pleasure, but wonder if she's really getting anything out of it. Those meetings usually end with a "had a nice time, let's get back together sometime, " but I know it will only be for the fuck and not for the total mind and body experience. Might be more than you wanted to know, but it's from the heart and from a sizeable number of experiences!