Interesting read. I have been cuckolded (call it what it is) and when we began, she quickly decided it should be "Black Men Only" not just because they had the larger equipment she desired, but also because they understood and respected the rules. The few white men we tried all tried to set things up behind my back. Neither of us wanted that. My wife and I love each other very much. So much, that I love to see her getting extreme pleasure. She wants me there. Sometimes, she demands that I participate (in various ways). She feels that if I am willing to allow her whatever she wishes sexually, that there is no need for her to sneak around. She wants me involved, at a minimum, to watch. Black men seem to get that better than white men. In fact, she (we) had a nearly 2 year long relationship with a bull who handled all calls, texts, etc, through me. I told him he could call her, but he insisted that he would not ever create any unnecessary suspicion and only called me. Sure, they fucked while I was asleep on the weekends he would stay with us. No problem, because he "got it"(at a young age, BTW). He was a friend to me and a lover to her. Perfect.