Black Guys: A question about the Husband watching

wahoosurfer said:
Every time my wife and I are going to meet someone we make it VERY clear what is expected of everyone involved. He will know before we meet him that we ONLY play together, no kissing her on the mouth, exactly what she likes/doesnt like and that he must be good with some cuck activities and those are explained beforehand. He will know that all messages and pics go through me and that is at HER request as well as mine. I will make sure he is good with all that is going on and ask if he has anything he wants to add. If the bull is not good with any of these things then we either discuss it and get past it or move on. It is supposed to be fun for ALL involved and if its not then why do it?
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YES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
RandC said:
Idowives thanks for writing this paragraph because it is exactly how my husband and I approach the lifestyle...his love for me is the key factor of us venturing into the Bull-ring perse' in hopes of finding men who understand and are instrumental in the success of an eventful and satisfying liaison.
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wow......
 
Idowives0763 said:
In my opinion this is what separates a Real Bull in the context of the lifestyle from your average guy. If you remove the husband from the equation then it's just a man and woman fucking which may as well be a vanilla situation. As far as I'm concerned, if I wanted vanilla I'd just go somewhere and find a typical white woman to go fuck (store, bar, club, gym, etc) That has zero appeal to me. I've always been a kinky person so I was drawn to this lifestyle like a moth to a flame. A big part of the appeal to me is fucking a woman as her husband looks on. It does not take away from the experience in any way, shape or form. There is nothing that I would do to a wife in private that I wouldn't do in front of her husband. Now, there have been situations where a couple has given me the freedom to see the wife alone which I am fine with. But even when doing that I enjoy teasing the husband with pics, videos and phone calls. It just adds to the overall excitement for me. It's all about the mind fuck and I am one who thoroughly enjoys a good mind fuck.
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This gentlemen is all together! 100%! God I wish others would take lessons from this perfect example!!!
 
IMO, and please don't pounce on me if you don't agree!!!!

I think that the Bull is smart if he can figure out the play and the seriousness inj what he ventures into.

In our case, I am subservient 24/7 to the wife. She is a true FemDom and my superior, Queen and Idol all wrapped up into one. My third marriage and my everything. My saying should be, whatever she wants and whatever she does or did is 110% correct. So in my case the bedroom stuff does carry over to our personal life away from any Bull. In lots of other couples cases, just about everything in the bedroom is left in the bedroom and the hubby is an equal outside of the bedroom. Meaning, that the Bull's direct contact should and would be expected first to the hubby. In my case, it should be directed first to the wife, even outside of the bedroom.

Maybe that is more protocol and thinking it through rather than the inter-personal gestures and interactions, but I still think the 'chain of command' applies.

All IMO.
 
Cuck2AsianWife said:
IMO, and please don't pounce on me if you don't agree!!!!

I think that the Bull is smart if he can figure out the play and the seriousness inj what he ventures into.

In our case, I am subservient 24/7 to the wife. She is a true FemDom and my superior, Queen and Idol all wrapped up into one. My third marriage and my everything. My saying should be, whatever she wants and whatever she does or did is 110% correct. So in my case the bedroom stuff does carry over to our personal life away from any Bull. In lots of other couples cases, just about everything in the bedroom is left in the bedroom and the hubby is an equal outside of the bedroom. Meaning, that the Bull's direct contact should and would be expected first to the hubby. In my case, it should be directed first to the wife, even outside of the bedroom.

Maybe that is more protocol and thinking it through rather than the inter-personal gestures and interactions, but I still think the 'chain of command' applies.

All IMO.
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It's special and wonderful when everyone's needs are satisfied and people are happy. That's how I see y'all and anyone giving you two words of discouragement is a real tool with a much more closed mind than they know.
 
Idowives0763 said:
As an experienced Bull my personal view is that I want the husband there whenever possible. I want him to see the things that I do to his wife and that his wife does for me. Personally, I enjoy even more when they invite me into their home. Looking around their home and seeing all the evidence of the life they've built together....family photos..vacation pics..souvenirs..and especially their wedding photos. Seeing that pic, knowing that on that day they stood before their family and friends and professed their eternal love for one another......and here I am about to use her like my personal fucktoy.....doing all sorts of unimaginable to her. Knowing that all who attended their wedding would be completely shocked to see what was going on. For me that is where my rush comes from. Yes I enjoy fucking a wife in front of her husband, but nothing beats doing it in their marital bed.
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This is a man! So fucking erotic, pure and natural. Would treasure this type with physical submission, service and spoiling most could not comprehend. She has a couple of boyfriend but not this type of material as Idowives explains his point of view.

I would actually serve him drinks, cook him food (and boy can I cook used to own restaurants) and give him great massages. When the wife went to open our business I could drive this type of Dom around and even open and close doors for him like I was a butler, LOL. It's all a head game, except some of us actually live it and get into it, while for others it is 30 minuets or an hour in the 'hot bed' and then back to life, LOL!
 
Speaking from a husbands pov, I like being there while my wife is with the bull. I like seeing the joy on her face when she is taking a big dick. I enjoy helping in any way I can and she likes to have multiple cocks to play with. I take pics and vids for a while and also join them. It's not a couples experience if you aren't doing it together. We aren't strickly plating with men either, we do play with couples from time to time. We are a little more fluid in our playtime than some couples where the wife takes on single guys. She likes seeing how turned on I get watching her and I love to see her be pleased. We both have to be there to get the full enjoyment out of the experience.
 
Dom seeking sub said:
A subservient cuck seems to be the most wanted situation.
That dynamic is quite exhilarating especially for the Dom who
becomes lord of the household, if you will. Allowing hubby to both
be present and restricted to his wife's submission to him. There are
a myriad of ways to play this scenario out and please all parties involved.
Oh my....
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Well put, admire your view..
 
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