As an experienced Bull my personal view is that I want the husband there whenever possible. I want him to see the things that I do to his wife and that his wife does for me. Personally, I enjoy even more when they invite me into their home. Looking around their home and seeing all the evidence of the life they've built together....family photos..vacation pics..souvenirs..and especially their wedding photos. Seeing that pic, knowing that on that day they stood before their family and friends and professed their eternal love for one another......and here I am about to use her like my personal fucktoy.....doing all sorts of unimaginable to her. Knowing that all who attended their wedding would be completely shocked to see what was going on. For me that is where my rush comes from. Yes I enjoy fucking a wife in front of her husband, but nothing beats doing it in their marital bed.
Great description of how I feel a real Bull should feel and think!
I've noticed (from reading a lot, not actual experience) that there are a lot of different kind of cuckolds.
Some just like to see their wife fucked by one or more men (like me), without the need to feel humiliated by the superior man/cock.
Others don't want to participate, or even want to be explicitly forbidden to participate. Then there are some who like their wives to be fucked somewhere else and stay at home helplessly receiving footage of what's happening on their phones.
And then there is a difference in HOW they participate if they want/may. Some want to join in as a fully adequate team member, others want to 'assist' the bull or only be involved in the 'cleaning process'.
I think an experienced bull knows he needs to have this information beforehand to avoid unpleasant surprises
I must admit that I'd also like to participate in the role of the bull, in the exact same way as you describe it IdoWives, it's hot as hell.
Unfortunately i'm not black and even more unfortunately I have a small cock so that's never gonna happen, lol