Alright to start off I am not meaning to offend anyone and in all cases to me the care and love for the baby would be at the top of my concern before anything else.
So my husband and I have been considering me becoming pregnant from one of my bulls. We pretty much have the method down but the part still in discussion is what to tell people since our sexual lifestyle is secret. We live in a mostly white area and where is my husband and I could get over a lot and don't care about judgments I don't want something to come back on a baby of mine. So I've posted some ideas below and I am curios as to what others have done, ideas they have came up with or if people have just been open about it all. Please post your thoughts below.
Option A I become pregnant and then we go overseas or somewhere for around a year returning with our adopted baby. The problem with this being I would tell my baby they are mine and would be hurt if someone gave him the idea he was adopted. So I don't want drama down the line for my baby.
Option B We say my husband has a medical condition preventing him from getting me pregnant and we decided to go with donor sperm and it just happened to end up being of mixed race. This probably brings some behind the back talking but I think it brings the easiest story to follow.
Option C More along the lines of the truth we tell people we walked a mixed baby so we set it up and became pregnant. All of the truth with leaving the sexual lifestyle hidden away.
So my husband and I have been considering me becoming pregnant from one of my bulls. We pretty much have the method down but the part still in discussion is what to tell people since our sexual lifestyle is secret. We live in a mostly white area and where is my husband and I could get over a lot and don't care about judgments I don't want something to come back on a baby of mine. So I've posted some ideas below and I am curios as to what others have done, ideas they have came up with or if people have just been open about it all. Please post your thoughts below.
Option A I become pregnant and then we go overseas or somewhere for around a year returning with our adopted baby. The problem with this being I would tell my baby they are mine and would be hurt if someone gave him the idea he was adopted. So I don't want drama down the line for my baby.
Option B We say my husband has a medical condition preventing him from getting me pregnant and we decided to go with donor sperm and it just happened to end up being of mixed race. This probably brings some behind the back talking but I think it brings the easiest story to follow.
Option C More along the lines of the truth we tell people we walked a mixed baby so we set it up and became pregnant. All of the truth with leaving the sexual lifestyle hidden away.