be recognized by someone

Drops mic! This is why we would never want to be outed. Everyone knows us to be like them, a polite, conservative married white couple that is completely normal. If any of our friends or family got word of this they would surely think of us as despicable and no longer associate with us.
It sucks the world is like that but what are we to do? We both want and need this for us, it is odd but it is like this was the one thing missing in our sex life. Well hung black men excites us and the idea of my wife having a black man as a partner seems to be the perfect fit.
It's funny that you say that it sucks that the world is such a way, but isn't that the aspect that makes a black man what you need in your relationship? The taboo? There are big-dicked white men out there after all.
 
I keep my image off the internet as much as I can. But for those of you who have pictures and videos on line, I just have an observation.

If someone calls you out, especially offensively, I think a good response would be 'Yes, so? Besides, I guess you like it to or why were you on that site?"

Should rattle them enough for you to move away from the confrontation
 
I have had it a few times. One time there was someone attending the church we went to who recognized me. They contacted me and told me they thought what I do is pretty awesome and to keep on doing it. They never told me who they were but it was pretty intriguing that it did happen. So far though haven't been recognized by family. I am curious though to see the reaction if it ever happens.
Because of her job , Susan is often being recognized by people so I often never know but she is often approached by black men and has short ( sometimes longer ) conversations with them. Sometimes I recognize them. Often they recogize me. Some have been susans long time lovers. So it all goes with living this lifestyle.
 
I keep my image off the internet as much as I can. But for those of you who have pictures and videos on line, I just have an observation.

If someone calls you out, especially offensively, I think a good response would be 'Yes, so? Besides, I guess you like it to or why were you on that site?"

Should rattle them enough for you to move away from the confrontation
My concern is that this might provoke further perhaps ongoing confrontation. If the person is a true stranger. I use the " lawyer approach" and have " no comment ". I neither "confirm" nor " deny ". Other acquaintences , I pretend to have no knowledge of what they are talking about and just let the discussion come to a quck ending.
 
They didn't or you didn't know how to bring it up?
But they must have succeeded I guess, otherwise you'd never know that she had been recognized?
So what happened after they admitted it?
We started to talk about the things I was into. It was going well at first. Then completely turned left. The moment I said I like being watched or kikebto watch others have sex
 
It's funny that you say that it sucks that the world is such a way, but isn't that the aspect that makes a black man what you need in your relationship? The taboo? There are big-dicked white men out there after all.

I guess that part is true, going against the grain as it were
 
As much as I want to tell and show the world my preference and passion, it's not something I can do at this time because of family and job issues. I would love to make videos showing my face and my love of the lifestyle. I envy and admire those who can. I look forward to the day when I can just say screw it, and enjoy shouting to the world my love of black men.
 
Yes I have been approached by OnlyFans and Twitter followers around Las Vegas. Never bothers me since everyone is pretty low key and just happy to have a few seconds.
I can't imagine my family members cruising these sites so I don't worry about that.
If anyone is worried about family members, friends or co-workers finding out about you here, the question is why are they here in the first place?
 
While we are not ashamed of our lifestyle but I know my friends and family would be shocked and floored. They would not know how to handle it so we try and be as discreet as possible. I have thought about sharing our “secret” with a girlfriend or two but I’m afraid that it would be too much for them to keep to themselves. It’s fun to think about if someone actually knows but nothing has ever been said to us. So we keep our lifestyle a secret.
 
While we are not ashamed of our lifestyle but I know my friends and family would be shocked and floored. They would not know how to handle it so we try and be as discreet as possible. I have thought about sharing our “secret” with a girlfriend or two but I’m afraid that it would be too much for them to keep to themselves. It’s fun to think about if someone actually knows but nothing has ever been said to us. So we keep our lifestyle a secret.
It’s no longer a secret, if the secret has been told.
 
My wife came home from a weekend in Atlantic City with her bull and told me she was seen by friends. She and said they saw her rubbing his crotch while they on the boardwalk. At first I was upset, telling her she should have stayed in the hotel room and fucked him. Now I just accept the fact that she is a slut.
 
Actually, this is my biggest fear about being on here. Hopefully, my avatar is cut off enough that most of my coworker would not be sure it is me.
I agree Angie that's my worst fear 2 my girlfriend caught me in the bathroom jerking off generation porn laid into me what was wrong with regular pornography what's my problem and such it was ******* but I find more guys talk to me on here then girls I'm trying to get a woman's perspective I don't want anybody to find out either
 
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