My advice keep it a fantasy. In my youth i was and it could have ruined my life i had no idea i had been filmed. The second time at twenty-six it could have been a disaster if i had not been totally honest with my guy. Imagine being on vacation in Europe approached at a sidewalk cafe by three men who knew you from a stag loop made and not to be distributed in the USA but here you are on the street Amsterdam. You can't control who might be the one who sees that's you. Your neighbor, pastor, employer, even a member of your circle of friends or family.
