Look, buddy, you were the one who brought dildos into the conversation, not me. I just replied to your comment, unfortunately.Well we do see them as the sum of their parts as well. If we didn't look at the whole picture then we wouldn't ever find quality studs now would we? Dick on Demand is what we look for. My wife is not interested in romance or foreplay with her studs. She just likes to milk some hot dicks into her pussy plain and simple. Does that mean that she is wanting that from every dude with a big dick? Of course not. We have to be able to enjoy their personality and have conversations. We consider all of her regular studs friends, which is why they all play bareback. It goes back to our original statement that if you can't trust them to not have a disease then why would you play with them at all?
I'm pretty sure the title of this thread is "Bareback, Hot or Not?", not "Do you think it's ever safe to play bareback?"
And somehow it's now a thread about dildo use. LOL
Anyway, trust is not instantaneous. It is earned. When it is earned, on both sides, then bareback can be discussed. But, as always, my personal opinion. Obviously, there will be many who disagree. Fine, whatever. I say what I feel. Those who feel differently are certainly welcome to lead their lives as they see fit. I have never said otherwise.