I was in a similar situation in the last year. I posted about this in a different thread.
The situation was a little different but you can see the repercussions from my view.
I was at a Club that was mostly black with my DOM, who is a 24 y/o bull. It was pretty apparent that that I was his property even though my husband was present. We ran into a black friend of one of my sons. This person used to hang around our house since he was 10 y/o and is now 31. I would cook meals for them, they would hang out weekends, my husband was their baseball coach.
When he saw me at the Club he was initially surprised but he caught on quickly what was going on. He congratulated my DOM on his "prize" to which my DOM told me to take him into the bathroom and give him a blowjob. I almost fainted and my husband had to turn away he was so upset. Of course, I took him to the bathroom and although he was a little shy at first, once I was on my knees, unzipping him he started to call me a ho, told me to suck my cock and that he was going to paint me. When we returned, my DOM told him he was free to call me up anytime "for some pussy", which he has done several times since that night.
I can still remember how I felt while on my knees in the bathroom. this is what I said in a different thread on humiliation:
“What I remember thinking was "how big Dwayne is", while I was bobbing up and down on him. Since then, I have had mixed feelings. Sometimes I am angry that Dwayne would do this to me since I was like a surrogate mom/aunt to him. Other times I am excited about the whole situation. When I am sucking him or he is fucking me, I am totally absorbed in the sex acts, so I am not really thinking.
My husband is very upset by the whole situation. He was a baseball coach for Dwayne and my ******* and was always shuttling the *******. Plus, Dwayne really embarrassed Richard when he had Richard clean his cock after he fucked me the first time. From my husband's standpoint this was totally out of line. I don't think he will ever forgive Dwayne. Dwayne's attitude was that we were owned by a black DOM who was younger than him so there was nothing wrong with a black man taking what is now owned by black bulls.”
Mixing personal life with this life can be very complicated,