Many times, I read the thread's title, thinking 'another stupid thread'. But now reading it through by chance, yours is a very good question. You may also ask who benefits the most in general in this lifestyle. Or at least, at the beginning. And then I may add why after so much experimenting in IR cuckolding do many cry foul when a wife enjoys a gangbang, or ask husband to participate, or find a black boyfriend, or ends up cheating, or leaves the husband. In my case, husband was more than grateful when I spontaneously was involved in a 4some without his knowledge, but general understanding. Now, was it 'electrifying'? Can't tell because I was a bit tipsy to preceive the significance of it at that time. But I can tell it was awesome at the end. And husband asked for a replay as soon as I told him. Detached from those episode, I can only say if a woman gathers some exp with average 'bulls' and later on finds a man who gives her 6+ orgasms in a night, she most probably will dream of / feel the need of a gangbang to replace him. But as for the electricity, it will surely fade away after the first time.