Are All black men rough with us?

[submisse]

We are swingers. I predominantly play with black men, but my husband also plays with other women. One of the things he hates is a husband telling him how to fuck his wife. I can remember one time when the husband would stop talking. My husband stopped and said, are you fucking her or me? These were good friends. My husband never played with her again.

No that is not what I meant. Basically, my Husband tells them to be as rough on me as they want. He will only say something if the guy is approaching one of my limits, Sorry if there was a misunderstanding

 

[VegascplXXX]

No that is not what I meant. Basically, my Husband tells them to be as rough on me as they want. He will only say something if the guy is approaching one of my limits, Sorry if there was a misunderstanding

Yes that is quite different than the husband thinking he is movie director!

 

[submisse]

Yes that is quite different than the husband thinking he is movie director!

Yes, He is more of a referee LOL

 

[GiselaHoll]

It may sound like a conservative stereotype, but I believe you'll get it rough if that is what you're looking for. I do also believe that abuse does exist, and that everyone may also picture some incidents as rough too. Men let themselves carry away by excitement, that it true and that happens easily during oral sex. Attempts to non-consensual anal penetration and double penetration at one or different places are not uncommon. But black men are in that regard not different from other men. On top of that, men are more exposed to porn and believe what they watch is the standard. But some women do as well and accept it, especially younger ones - I'm not too old btw but I have a couple of times overheard girls telling each other: 'You have to' or 'you'll loose him'. At that point a woman has to stand her ground and pull the brake. I know it from my own experience. Now, you like it rough? Then keep silence and follow Eleanor Roosevelt's advice: You have to accept whatever comes and the only important thing is that you meet it with courage and with the best that you have to give.

 

[VegascplXXX]

Yes, He is more of a referee LOL

I prefer to have my husband with me when I play. I've never had an issue, but I feel more secure having him there as a potential Referee!

 

[Okla73012]

So true Sir.

Very sexy videos. You got us in the mood

 

[submisse]

I prefer to have my husband with me when I play. I've never had an issue, but I feel more secure having him there as a potential Referee!

Totally agree I want him there for protection and participation too

 

[bkforher]

Well now that's a great questions.
Its not a trend of black men being rough we tend to engage in sex aggressively.
Whether its just for our own pleasure or to make a woman so taken by how we put it
down that she is following us round like a lost puppy begging just to be near us if that's
all she can get. That pedestal nonsense ruins white women, inhibits their sexuality, and
in the end they look for someone that's trying to destroy that pussy with each stroke. Its all because
dad doesn't want his little girl to have a real sex life if she has one at all. Imagine if your dad walked in
on you getting dick for real from some average Steve Irkle looking black guy who is slinging his
rod like a warrior. He would rather see you with Opey barely knowing youre getting fucked waiting
for it to be over and thinking to yourself what's the big deal about sex. But in reality you haven't had sex or been fucked some guy just put his thingy in you. Its not a white girl thing its any woman Asian, white, black, that purple bitch from star trek when you kneel before the altar of the Black warrior you will get fucked like a woman should. Made from the rib
to serve man; a true woman knows she wants to be fucked senseless by a real man and will cheat to get just that.

Did that answer your question?

i like how you think sir, i bet my plump white girlfriend would love being your sex slave

 

[VegascplXXX]

I prefer that my husband participate also. We are swingers and I like group sex. I also don't like leaving him out of the fun. He includes me when he plays with other females. I routinely turn down guys who want a one on one.

 

[Jdingo619]

What's causing the "trend" of black men being rough with white girls, and how come some of us like it?? I've grown up expecting men to put me on a pedestal, but when they do I'm turned off.

Black men are just rougher period. We produce more testosterone than most so we are driven by it hence the rougher treatment.

 

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Understandable and expected… only to give in and surrender to that natural desire

 

[teenyppwhite]

Hi everyone, I've been with a small number of black men and in my limited experience they tend to be on the rougher side. I thought my experience was isolated. I browsed this site for a couple of hours and see that most of the topics and comments support a certain treatment of us...

What's causing this? I'm just curious from a social commentary perspective.

If you want to go black take it and don't complain

 

[WetNwild57]

Lol too much porn watching but in all seriousness each man is different some black are rough but for me i am not but if that's what your woman desires then you should do that .

Im not nor have ever been into the rough stuff...Sex is supposed to be fun hot and whatever else you want it to be Not painful...For me being pounded drys me out then it becomes painful and that will turn me off instantly..Im not saying i dont like to be fucked deep because i do Just not into the rough stuf...But thats were the diffrent strokes for diffrent folks comes in...Just my 2 cents worth

 

[Carolynlester]

I've been with dozens of black men.
Only one was ever rough with me.
I won't be in inviting him back.

 

[HardBlackCandy]

Im not nor have ever been into the rough stuff...Sex is supposed to be fun hot and whatever else you want it to be Not painful...For me being pounded drys me out then it becomes painful and that will turn me off instantly..Im not saying i dont like to be fucked deep because i do Just not into the rough stuf...But thats were the diffrent strokes for diffrent folks comes in...Just my 2 cents worth

But some people, both men and women, do find rough stuff to be fun Plenty don’t, but I’m here to tell you that plenty do. I’m versatile

 

[mykoreanwife]

I like strong and powerful black men who like to use me for their pleasure, it make me feel so good they enjoy me.

 

[CremeBrulee]

From my personal experience, yes lol
I think the prospect of having a hot white girl in bed makes it too difficult for college black guys to control themselves...
The social zeitgeist we live in probably plays a major factor in their sexual rage as well. Not that I’m complaining lol

 

[WetNwild57]

No

 

[Kellyshain]

From my personal experience, yes lol
I think the prospect of having a hot white girl in bed makes it too difficult for college black guys to control themselves...
The social zeitgeist we live in probably plays a major factor in their sexual rage as well. Not that I’m complaining lol

I have to disagree with you, in essence you are saying as a black man I am unable to control my emotions and just be that over aggressive being in bed ? It’s on its own merits. I have women that may want to dominated and so we do that . Some times she wants to be kissed , caressed and made love to . So in fact your generalisation foes a disservice to black men in General . We are not all that aggressive and animalistic like you portray. So it goes with what that person wants and enjoys . Btw Black men can be submissive also just to enlighten you .

 

[CremeBrulee]

I have to disagree with you, in essence you are saying as a black man I am unable to control my emotions and just be that over aggressive being in bed ? It’s on its own merits. I have women that may want to dominated and so we do that . Some times she wants to be kissed , caressed and made love to . So in fact your generalisation foes a disservice to black men in General . We are not all that aggressive and animalistic like you portray. So it goes with what that person wants and enjoys . Btw Black men can be submissive also just to enlighten you .

What part of personal experience don’t you understand? No need to get so triggered over someone else’s perspective