Early with newer bull we cuddle afterwards and hold and kiss each other with me licking and kissing her all over eventually licking her pussy to get his scent and taste then we talk about how we felt, what we liked, disliked wanted or should have done differently and if we want to see him again or need to think about it for awhile.
With a regular lover we may go to sleep from exhaustion but many times have deep conversations and ask hard questions about feelings, wants desires insecurities so we can face them then and there and begin a longer conversation for later such as if she really prefers having sex with him and wants to be exclusive for a bit and us take a break from sex so she can sort her feelings out maybe agreeing to give me hand jobs if Im hurting but no intercourse I can only lick her to get her ready or if she needs me to get her off but agrees she wants to only think or talk about sex with him during any intimacy between us for a bit to get comfortable and explore how we feel with him being a presence in our lives.
Other hard questions are how do I feel about her and him and do i like seeing them together and feel ok with him being around more often and her having feelings.. or maybe she wants to know how i felt when she said this or that or wants me to suck and please her love and be more comfortable and relax around him when he is with us, Did anything bother me or her and if so what and why and do we care if that thing occurs again and how do one of us feel if one wants something the other doesn't really bad and we need to be ok accepting it might happen again.. like me asking her to tell him she wants to have his baby or humilating me at times she doesn't like it but doesn't mind if the bull does it instead