What's the best next step for this "beginner" couple?

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We're a real life married couple in our 30s. Husband had a few sexcapades before getting married, but Wife was a sexless divorcee from a repressed Mormon upbringing, so Husband was her best and biggest in her life. A few years ago, he brought up the idea of swinging. Even then secretly he also hoped it might lead to seeing his wife get taken in a "threesome" with a BBC bull. Opening her up to the idea was a slow process. We started watching porn to fantasise about swinging adventures, but he always made sure to include some tantalising clips of dominant BBC bulls and white women who looked like her.

We live in Australia, so there's not a huge surplus of African guys. But our first time visiting a swinging club, it was an amazing coincidence that a black guy arrived soon after and came straight up to talk to Wife. He was very complimentary of her body and knew what he was doing. She sucked his dick that night. That was all, but it was enough to start our journey on BBC for real.

We've had a few experiences now. We meet someone online. We arrange to meet up at a hotel. Husband watches Wife cum again and again while she takes big thick BBC for a few hours. She has a great time, and he loves watching. It's surprisingly low key, the guys keep it simple and strong, and the focus is on her pulling as much pleasure as she can from being totally stuffed.

What is a good next step for us? What sort of different experience should we be considering? Or without a bull, what can we do to prepare Wife mentally for some deeper and more degrading submission? We're hoping for some inspiration on what direction our journey should go.
 

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TDoggle said:
We're a real life married couple in our 30s. Husband had a few sexcapades before getting married, but Wife was a sexless divorcee from a repressed Mormon upbringing, so Husband was her best and biggest in her life. A few years ago, he brought up the idea of swinging. Even then secretly he also hoped it might lead to seeing his wife get taken in a "threesome" with a BBC bull. Opening her up to the idea was a slow process. We started watching porn to fantasise about swinging adventures, but he always made sure to include some tantalising clips of dominant BBC bulls and white women who looked like her.

We live in Australia, so there's not a huge surplus of African guys. But our first time visiting a swinging club, it was an amazing coincidence that a black guy arrived soon after and came straight up to talk to Wife. He was very complimentary of her body and knew what he was doing. She sucked his dick that night. That was all, but it was enough to start our journey on BBC for real.

We've had a few experiences now. We meet someone online. We arrange to meet up at a hotel. Husband watches Wife cum again and again while she takes big thick BBC for a few hours. She has a great time, and he loves watching. It's surprisingly low key, the guys keep it simple and strong, and the focus is on her pulling as much pleasure as she can from being totally stuffed.

What is a good next step for us? What sort of different experience should we be considering? Or without a bull, what can we do to prepare Wife mentally for some deeper and more degrading submission? We're hoping for some inspiration on what direction our journey should go.
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Looking good
 
TDoggle said:
We're a real life married couple in our 30s. Husband had a few sexcapades before getting married, but Wife was a sexless divorcee from a repressed Mormon upbringing, so Husband was her best and biggest in her life. A few years ago, he brought up the idea of swinging. Even then secretly he also hoped it might lead to seeing his wife get taken in a "threesome" with a BBC bull. Opening her up to the idea was a slow process. We started watching porn to fantasise about swinging adventures, but he always made sure to include some tantalising clips of dominant BBC bulls and white women who looked like her.

We live in Australia, so there's not a huge surplus of African guys. But our first time visiting a swinging club, it was an amazing coincidence that a black guy arrived soon after and came straight up to talk to Wife. He was very complimentary of her body and knew what he was doing. She sucked his dick that night. That was all, but it was enough to start our journey on BBC for real.

We've had a few experiences now. We meet someone online. We arrange to meet up at a hotel. Husband watches Wife cum again and again while she takes big thick BBC for a few hours. She has a great time, and he loves watching. It's surprisingly low key, the guys keep it simple and strong, and the focus is on her pulling as much pleasure as she can from being totally stuffed.

What is a good next step for us? What sort of different experience should we be considering? Or without a bull, what can we do to prepare Wife mentally for some deeper and more degrading submission? We're hoping for some inspiration on what direction our journey should go.
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Dude congrats lol. WOW you are lucky. She seems to be taking very nicely to this lifestyle. The story of her first experience at the swinger club and a black dude walks in and chats her up and she sucks his cock is hot. That is actually a very aggressive encounter for a first time. Very brave for a woman brought up moron and I’m sure you were rock hard lol. So it sounds like you meet bulls and watch the wife in action and you want to increase the stimulation. This other guys suggestion of letting her spend the night alone with a guy sounds nice but you would obviously need to know the guy well. Do you have any bulls she has seen more than a few times? If so go with that. How about you invite a bull to stay the night with her in your bedroom and you sleep in the guest room. Wake up and make breakfast for them and be their waiter for the morning. Also in the future you could think about her having a regular boyfriend if that floats your boat.
 
Jimmydong said:
Dude congrats lol. WOW you are lucky. She seems to be taking very nicely to this lifestyle. The story of her first experience at the swinger club and a black dude walks in and chats her up and she sucks his cock is hot. That is actually a very aggressive encounter for a first time. Very brave for a woman brought up moron and I’m sure you were rock hard lol. So it sounds like you meet bulls and watch the wife in action and you want to increase the stimulation. This other guys suggestion of letting her spend the night alone with a guy sounds nice but you would obviously need to know the guy well. Do you have any bulls she has seen more than a few times? If so go with that. How about you invite a bull to stay the night with her in your bedroom and you sleep in the guest room. Wake up and make breakfast for them and be their waiter for the morning. Also in the future you could think about her having a regular boyfriend if that floats your boat.
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The first encounter was really lucky for us, and she took to it easier than she thought. We had the opportunity to make a regular thing with him too, but we weren't ready and he's moved on now.

Yeah we do need a regular bull now, hopefully someone who can get her really comfortable and open her up more.
 
But I'd love to know what we can do to make that search and anticipation be as exciting for her as possible, and help build up her desire
 
I would suggest getting verified on here so we know you’re real.

We have a similar history. Wife was religious and I was only her second sex partner. We explored swinging, but most were your average suburban husbands. Knowing she was a size queen, I eventually found her a BBC. We’ve haven’t looked exclusively for BBC, but they continue to prove why they should be our first choice.

For your future, it’s already been said. There is a much different dynamic w solo play. When the husband in present (even if they just observe) it’s not the same for anyone. There is an excitement to being w someone new and giving all your attention to them. She may be more comfortable if it’s someone you’ve played w as a 3some to start. But it’s also exciting to have her go on dates completely solo. All the husband gets is a few teaser shots and then maybe a video after she gets home. We continue to meet just for coffee as a couple, but she is also on dating apps where she finds men on her own. It’s then her choice if she wants me there the date 2 and beyond.

For her first completely solo play date w someone I didn’t meet, she did have me parked nearby just in case. She then left me on an open phone call. It was easy to tell it was going well 😈.
 
TDoggle said:
But I'd love to know what we can do to make that search and anticipation be as exciting for her as possible, and help build up her desire
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Search for guys together. Use dating apps or swinger apps. Let her lead the intro conversations, and you work w her in the background. Encourage her to talk w men when you’re out in public. Make sure she knows how desirable she is to others. That confidence should be a huge turn on for her. Encourage her to dress just a little bit sexier each time she goes out during the day and have her pay attention to who’s checking her out.
As my wife approaches 50, it’s important that I remind her how attractive and desirable she is. I can tell her that all the time, but it’s much better when a stranger shows the same desires.
 
Naughtygators said:
Search for guys together. Use dating apps or swinger apps. Let her lead the intro conversations, and you work w her in the background. Encourage her to talk w men when you’re out in public. Make sure she knows how desirable she is to others. That confidence should be a huge turn on for her. Encourage her to dress just a little bit sexier each time she goes out during the day and have her pay attention to who’s checking her out.
As my wife approaches 50, it’s important that I remind her how attractive and desirable she is. I can tell her that all the time, but it’s much better when a stranger shows the same desires.
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Thank you for the great advice. We'll go through verification. She's already dressing a little sexier, and started noticing how some men are more friendly (and some women hate it). She's never felt desirable like that before, realising that random men out with their wives actively want to fuck her. It was just for fun, but it makes sense for that to be an important step in keeping her body confidence high.

It sounds like the future is clearly to find the right guy for her to enjoy alone. It will be hard to find true BBC bull here who can pleasure her body and mind as much as we hope, but we'll keep looking.
 
TDoggle said:
We're a real life married couple in our 30s. Husband had a few sexcapades before getting married, but Wife was a sexless divorcee from a repressed Mormon upbringing, so Husband was her best and biggest in her life. A few years ago, he brought up the idea of swinging. Even then secretly he also hoped it might lead to seeing his wife get taken in a "threesome" with a BBC bull. Opening her up to the idea was a slow process. We started watching porn to fantasise about swinging adventures, but he always made sure to include some tantalising clips of dominant BBC bulls and white women who looked like her.

We live in Australia, so there's not a huge surplus of African guys. But our first time visiting a swinging club, it was an amazing coincidence that a black guy arrived soon after and came straight up to talk to Wife. He was very complimentary of her body and knew what he was doing. She sucked his dick that night. That was all, but it was enough to start our journey on BBC for real.

We've had a few experiences now. We meet someone online. We arrange to meet up at a hotel. Husband watches Wife cum again and again while she takes big thick BBC for a few hours. She has a great time, and he loves watching. It's surprisingly low key, the guys keep it simple and strong, and the focus is on her pulling as much pleasure as she can from being totally stuffed.

What is a good next step for us? What sort of different experience should we be considering? Or without a bull, what can we do to prepare Wife mentally for some deeper and more degrading submission? We're hoping for some inspiration on what direction our journey should go.
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Nice thick woman, prolly got that "Allo mate" accent going, "training" can always be done during between times and such. Get a Black dildo, be imaginative and creative with it, get an anklet, do small preparations and training to spice up evenings. At the right angle with a phone camera, you can make some great mini clips that make her practice with the dildo look like the real thing. Make a collection of those and enjoy a movie night of the greatest hits together.

P.S. Don't name the dildo and limit the fantasy.
 
Thanks for affirmations. She is literally out by herself right now. I think in his bedroom by now taking 11 inches. Beautiful, I'm so proud of her! And very anxious right now haha. I can't wait to hear all about it.

To expand a bit - We were going to arrange another threesome night. He offered to host us tonight but I wasn't able to go. Usually we'd reschedule but I had all these thoughts in my mind so I suggested she just go ahead. Now it's happening and I'm not used to being in the dark like this! I'm dying to hear what happened.
 
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TDoggle said:
How do we open her up to feeling safe about going for that? And to fantasise about it?
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You both have to feel safe about it. Find a guy that you are both okay with then you spend time in a different room then when she is comfortable with that you can get two rooms at a hotel then when she is okay with that you drop her off at the hotel where they will meet.
 
Naughtygators said:
Search for guys together. Use dating apps or swinger apps. Let her lead the intro conversations, and you work w her in the background. Encourage her to talk w men when you’re out in public. Make sure she knows how desirable she is to others. That confidence should be a huge turn on for her. Encourage her to dress just a little bit sexier each time she goes out during the day and have her pay attention to who’s checking her out.
As my wife approaches 50, it’s important that I remind her how attractive and desirable she is. I can tell her that all the time, but it’s much better when a stranger shows the same desires.
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My wife is a retired teacher, I'm her husband, we're both 44, second marriage for both of us, married for 10 years. I'd like to talk about how it started since she was 38, more blacks have fucked her.S0000011A.jpg
 
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