First and foremost, I apologize to anyone who are notified by this, for I am moving up this thread. However, I feel this needs to be said.
I want to say that if this a fictional story, then bravo for presenting this story with your subpar writing. It is highly disturbing.
If this a non-fiction, however, may I say that you are a horrible human being. You are a disgusting, shallow, selfish, self-serving, sadistic, self-serving woman.
I was interested in this story because I that it was created to seek out sound advice on how to get your husband to agree to an open marriage. I was even okay with you leaving him because you weren't pleased. If you don't feel happy in a relationship, then it's best to save you and your significant other the misery and end it. You didn't feel respected either, it's always beat to leave.
However, that went out the window along with my patience when you started to get involved with another man while with your husband. Cheating is never justifiable. NEVER. Then you decided to bring this man along into your relationship? Humiliate your husband in front of him? Put him through mental turmoil for your satisfaction over a dress? Pathetic.
You could've avoided all of this by meeting ALONE in a public spot, told him you wanted a divorce, admit the chemistry isn't there, admit there's another man and if he reacts negatively, call over help. That's simple. There's nothing your husband did to deserve what you that treatment. Two wrongs don't make a right.
You called him selfish for not giving you and Jamaal "his blessings," however you're the selfish one. You're the one who reacted in an uncivil manner and GOD BLESS that this Jamaal isn't the representative of black men.
I'm not one to call one the b-word. I won't do that here either, because you worse that. You are the human equivalent of an abnormal condition that shouldn't have happen in the first place.
In other words: your cancer.
You should live your life as you see fit, but not at the expense of another's. Your husband would've gotten your divorce if you handle it how you should have: maturely. Alas, that is not something you're capable of because that isn't something you possess. You truly are a despicable person who needs to seek help and GOD BLESS you for leaving Tom.
You done him a favor by leaving him. It's not everyday you see trash taking itself out to the curb.
P.S. I couldn't give a rat's hindquarters about my writing.
