She was a fuck buddy not a girlfriend. We didn't talk about much, especially race issues. While it is good discussion, it's not exactly fuck buddy discussion material just like it isn't exactly random gut at the bar talk.
A Word on Racism and the IR Community...
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No it is not racism....
No, that’s a matter of personal preference. No one is obligated to date people that they don’t find attractive. If you treat everyone with dignity, respect, and equality, regardless of what race they are, then you're not racist.
I agree... I must admit that because of how I've been stereotyped in the past... I get off on seducing/ flirting with white married women. Fucking them while the hubby is either at work or sexing someone else. Several of the married women that I am seeing from time to time are fucking me because it makes them feel rebellious or like they're getting even with something they felt the husband has done to them. It never gets old to see white women's reactions when they discover that I have more than good dick and conversation.
Isn't it crazy how is brothers can apply the education we were given? Blows America's mind! Ha
This thread is a complete crock. A black guy is fucking white wives and STILL butt-hurt because of some perceived attitude in the women he fucks?!
Are you shitting me? Giving up the pussy is the most intimate act a woman can carry out.
Are you shitting me? Giving up the pussy is the most intimate act a woman can carry out.
This guy here
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Pageant Mom, black people, under slavery, BUILT the US. We are a large part of US history, because the wealth the US acquired from our labor, and other minorities. The fact that you aren't "interested" about knowing American history, is the same as saying you don't want to know about black history. Second, while black men can be racist, we cannot institutionalize our racism. There is no black privilege available for us to do that. Notice, there aren't too many, if at all, black swingers clubs catering to white people. There aren't too many black websites hooking up white people with black people. Collectively, black people don't have the economic wealth and resources to create, promote, and maintain those types of things. When you are racist towards someone, you use your power, collective influence, and status, to subjugate other races to your world view. You are basically saying that anything you do for a minority, is a priviledge and an honor for them, because you think so. So, when racist white women, or men, let black people have sex with them, by treating black people like a fetish, THATS where the racism starts. I think you are getting prejudice confused with racism. Prejudice is just saying racist things. Racism is putting action behind your racism - and even convincing people you aren't doing so in the process. Black people do not have the collective power, status, or influence to do that. Subconsciously, or consciously, racist white women know that black men are curious and idolize them, because society promotes the beauty of white women above all others. Society - American society - also has more sympathy towards white women, which is why a white woman can secretly pursue black men, and black men can be criminalized, once she screams ******* over an encounter. There are many cases of that in history, if you look for them. Lets face it, you would not be here, if sex with black men was largely considered a socially accepted thing, especially with most white people as a whole.
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Hey, Chip, calm down, and stop projecting. I've met some very down to earth, culturally sensitive, non-racist white women in my life. This is directed at the ones who were not those things. Don't let pussy blind you from using your mind. Any woman - black or white - will make a slave out of you. Also, what happened to grandfather was obviously wrong, but plenty of Asians have treated black people just as bad as white people have treated them. The only reason Asians are accepted by most white people, is because you rival them financially. We are borrowing money from China to pay off our debts, right now, and we do a lot of trade with other Asian countries as well.
I respect your opinion. I'm used to your rhetoric.
Nice to know there are still some conscious minded brothers out here.
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MPP, since I have become conscious, I've come to realize two things about racist white people. 1. Racist white men want to ******* black men with guns. 2. Racist white women want to ******* black mens' masculinity and sense of self with pussy. Sadly, though, not enough of us are willing to stand up to white people, because we want them, or want to be like them. Also, what is just as sad, is so called open minded white people, who really have no concept of what racism is or how it really works. If you don't dissect the system and how it got started, you can't change it... which inevitably means, you don't want to change yourself, and those private racist misconceptions you have...
I can diggit’. I work around prominent people everyday and I have to stay guarded against the things you spoke of. I have met a lot of good people but every now and then I meet couples that want to to turn me into a "perk" for them. Game recognize game with its intent!
Yeah I realized it's not just people being racist that's a problem but people ignoring it and then say racism doesn't exist or some other nonsense just because they don't have it happen to them or think racism only takes its form in lynchings and church bombings.
Oooooooh so IR porn is only about "white" racism???
What about the reverse? Maybe it's about black men getting "reparations" on the white man by fucking his wife...right?
Are there racists here? No doubt...on both sides. To be honest, I believe EVERYONE holds reservations towards other races, sex, religions...some choose to be open about it, most don't.
In my experience, i've seen women treated like whores/pieces of meat/sex toy in this lifestyle far far far more verse the "N" word being used.
There are also far more Black men on White women porn sites and vids verse couples/swinging.
Like Paegeantmom said, if you're running into that many bad apples, then maybe it's the crowd you're running with or selection process.
What about the reverse? Maybe it's about black men getting "reparations" on the white man by fucking his wife...right?
Are there racists here? No doubt...on both sides. To be honest, I believe EVERYONE holds reservations towards other races, sex, religions...some choose to be open about it, most don't.
In my experience, i've seen women treated like whores/pieces of meat/sex toy in this lifestyle far far far more verse the "N" word being used.
There are also far more Black men on White women porn sites and vids verse couples/swinging.
Like Paegeantmom said, if you're running into that many bad apples, then maybe it's the crowd you're running with or selection process.
Who said it was only about racism? Who said the N word HAD to be used? It's 2016. Of course you can't just call me the N word and lynch me. We aren't talking about "reparations" but yeah there likely are dudes that are doing this for that. Like you said, not everyone is open with their racism. Also most porn producers, including for IR are white.
When many women in this lifestyle refer to themselves as BBC sluts/whores or anything similar, what do you expect? Drawing BBC slut on their body and wearing clothes with it on there too? Read through the posts. Half of them talk about how the "bull" is in control, her holes are open to only him, She doesn't get to decide if he cums in her or not and anything else that says she is just a piece of meat. And when this is the only side you see of that person, the first impression is going to be "she's just a fuck toy for me".
No way possible? You're putting words in my mouth.
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