Absolutely not always the case. My wife gets a huge rush out of making me squirm, and while she is super sweet, caring, nurturing, philanthropic, etc. she has a true sadistic streak in her, in the bdsm sense. Activities like ballbusting or flogging me actually make her wet. She isn't quite the pain slut I am, and doesn't seek the same kinds of physical punishment I'm happy to be put through, but she loves aggressive and directive bulls, and some of her favorite experiences were with ones also get into dominating me as well. It's not universal, there are plenty of black men she's been with who were cool with minimal involvement from me, just letting me watch or preferring to send evidence home to me after having her to themselves, but her favorite bulls are the ones who actually get off on power exchange, and prefer cuckold couples to single women.Guy, I share your fetish but black guys and white women just want to fuck. They just humor our humiliation fetish.
My wife has a favorite partner who's become a boyfriend, but she doesn't really consider him a bull. They have fantastic sex and a deeper connection than she ever expected to find outside of our partnership, but she still seeks other black men, because she also prioritizes harder kink and cuckoldry. It's not a thing she just does for me.
We've made friends with quite a few black men who really appreciate the energy and dynamics of loving cuckold couples, and keep with many of them in chat apps, online groups and lifestyle events. They aren't doing it to "humor the hubby," at least not in all cases. Listen to the Keys & Anklets podcast if you don't believe this. The host is an experienced bull and lifestyle Dom himself, often interviews other single black men who enjoy filling the dominant role with cuckold couples even more than they are into stag/vixen-type hotwife scenarios. I'll be first in line to admit that a lot of the more extreme fantasies on this site come from white males with a warped perspective on the reality and prevalence of their sexual proclivities, but to make a blanket statement that women and black men don't ever share the interest is just as incorrect.
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