We've had similar issues over the years, so no longer play at home, plus when we did, it just wasn't the same. My wife loves dressing up for the night, and coming back to our house with a loaded clothes horse in the lounge room, ******* toys laying around, papers and bills stacked on the credenza just don't allow us to get away from our usual life, so hotels, with neutral/ anonymous space, room service, crisp white sheets etc. let her become the hot weekend vixen rather than average suburban housewife. Plus, she'll ******* more when out which makes her hornier, when she looks sexy she feels sexy, which also means her inhibitions tend to go out the door as wellWe started bringing guys to our home....that was a big mistake with single guys, we have had success with married men coming to our home..but the problems outweigh the positives, since my last regular friend..we stick to hotels.