Wife isn’t about it

36ddtittyniki

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So let me try to explain our situation...
My wife and I are 38 and have been married for 15 years and together for 18. She’s 5’4” with 36DD and an amazing ass. At first I was very obsessive/protective and it almost cost us our relationship. It wasn’t until we had our first baby in 2011 that things started to change. She had a guy friend that she grew up with and would mess around in there teens. I was fully aware of there past, but my own issues would play a factor in the last 11 years. So I’ve had a problem with prohibited chemical and it was on and off throughout this decade. My grandfather was diagnosed with prostate cancer and I had a hard time processing it. I relapsed it 2012 and told my wife after plenty arguments, she was mad.
So one night in I think August of 2012 this friend of hers came by to ******* beer or whatever I was tired and my ******* was falling asleep so I took him to bed. A couple weeks pass and everything is great, we end up getting extasy and get super honest and she tells me they fucked in the master bathroom 10’ from where I was sleeping. I was mad but that was the first time I felt that feeling of jealousy and turned on but said nothing.
Two weeks later I tell her I wish I caught em and she kinda wanted me to as well. Fast forward 11 years plenty of partying and stuff now she feels I don’t love her unless she’s fucked by someone else which is so far from the truth. It’s been a year and I need to figure out a way to make her realize I love her more than ever?
 
So let me try to explain our situation...
My wife and I are 38 and have been married for 15 years and together for 18. She’s 5’4” with 36DD and an amazing ass. At first I was very obsessive/protective and it almost cost us our relationship. It wasn’t until we had our first baby in 2011 that things started to change. She had a guy friend that she grew up with and would mess around in there teens. I was fully aware of there past, but my own issues would play a factor in the last 11 years. So I’ve had a problem with prohibited chemical and it was on and off throughout this decade. My grandfather was diagnosed with prostate cancer and I had a hard time processing it. I relapsed it 2012 and told my wife after plenty arguments, she was mad.
So one night in I think August of 2012 this friend of hers came by to ******* beer or whatever I was tired and my ******* was falling asleep so I took him to bed. A couple weeks pass and everything is great, we end up getting extasy and get super honest and she tells me they fucked in the master bathroom 10’ from where I was sleeping. I was mad but that was the first time I felt that feeling of jealousy and turned on but said nothing.
Two weeks later I tell her I wish I caught em and she kinda wanted me to as well. Fast forward 11 years plenty of partying and stuff now she feels I don’t love her unless she’s fucked by someone else which is so far from the truth. It’s been a year and I need to figure out a way to make her realize I love her more than ever?
Its called counseling and not relying on a porn site to air your dirty laundry. Stay in recovery, get the party extras out of your relationship and find a professional to rebuild what you broke. This is not the place for anything other than someone telling you seek professional help if you want to save your marriage and for gods sake put the chemicals away for good. Thats part of the problem.
 
So let me try to explain our situation...
My wife and I are 38 and have been married for 15 years and together for 18. She’s 5’4” with 36DD and an amazing ass. At first I was very obsessive/protective and it almost cost us our relationship. It wasn’t until we had our first baby in 2011 that things started to change. She had a guy friend that she grew up with and would mess around in there teens. I was fully aware of there past, but my own issues would play a factor in the last 11 years. So I’ve had a problem with prohibited chemical and it was on and off throughout this decade. My grandfather was diagnosed with prostate cancer and I had a hard time processing it. I relapsed it 2012 and told my wife after plenty arguments, she was mad.
So one night in I think August of 2012 this friend of hers came by to ******* beer or whatever I was tired and my ******* was falling asleep so I took him to bed. A couple weeks pass and everything is great, we end up getting extasy and get super honest and she tells me they fucked in the master bathroom 10’ from where I was sleeping. I was mad but that was the first time I felt that feeling of jealousy and turned on but said nothing.
Two weeks later I tell her I wish I caught em and she kinda wanted me to as well. Fast forward 11 years plenty of partying and stuff now she feels I don’t love her unless she’s fucked by someone else which is so far from the truth. It’s been a year and I need to figure out a way to make her realize I love her more than ever?
Take her out on a date. Just you and her a nice romantic dinner
 
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