Wife is addicted to her BBC lover hubby feels neglected.

Well i like to see Eric move on..But she hasn't gone back over there since that nite she got sick. Christy often cooks for the guys..don't know if it was the food or the oral sex or combination of both. After dinner she asked Javon to take her to CVS pharmacy. When she came back out the police were there and were about to arrest him for stealing Christy car. They had run the plates and his ID. They let him go after she explained he was a friend. One of the cops recognized Christy. His sister in law worked at the same place. This woman has been talking an spreading gossip since. Christy told her they were just friends but the bitch didn't stop. Some of her other co workers have been talking s hit too. She been so worried about getting fired now.
Yes. This activity and Lifestyle not accepted everywhere yet. But things are changing. Visited a local mall and there was some promption going on. Hundreds of women with their babies and small *******. Whites, blacks, hispanics and asians too. A number of the white women had IR babies. Some white women were there with their black men pushing the baby carraige with the little IR baby. Some white women were there with hispanic husbands and their *******. However, still people who don't accept IR. Some small religious groups also support racial purity. Some companies have strict rules on employees behavior inside and outside of work. For them , this lifestyle encourages marital infidelity and is questionable behavior. For some companies , sexual promiscuity is discouraged behavior. Difficult as so many single women today are sexually active.
 
Yes. This activity and Lifestyle not accepted everywhere yet. But things are changing. Visited a local mall and there was some promption going on. Hundreds of women with their babies and small *******. Whites, blacks, hispanics and asians too. A number of the white women had IR babies. Some white women were there with their black men pushing the baby carraige with the little IR baby. Some white women were there with hispanic husbands and their *******. However, still people who don't accept IR. Some small religious groups also support racial purity. Some companies have strict rules on employees behavior inside and outside of work. For them , this lifestyle encourages marital infidelity and is questionable behavior. For some companies , sexual promiscuity is discouraged behavior. Difficult as so many single women today are sexually active.
It's a Japanese company. There very conservative. Don't think her boss knows. Still as nice as its been having her home she is so depressed. She doesn't even want sex. I know she wants to go over there but she hasn't. Idk. What to do.
 
It's a Japanese company. There very conservative. Don't think her boss knows. Still as nice as its been having her home she is so depressed. She doesn't even want sex. I know she wants to go over there but she hasn't. Idk. What to do.
Clear that she is in transition and wants more BBC but its clearly jeopardizing her "white" life and job so she is caught in the middle. More black cock or keep her job. Some women take a break from BBC and are clearly unhappy without it. Some women make a break from their "white" life and go "all black ". A friends wife did this and is living now with her black lover. He is waiting for her to return. If she does
 
It's a Japanese company. There very conservative. Don't think her boss knows. Still as nice as its been having her home she is so depressed. She doesn't even want sex. I know she wants to go over there but she hasn't. Idk. What to do.
If you don't have a BBC Dildo now is the time to get one and start using it. She isn't interested in your white cock now but the BBC Dildo might make her happy / satisfied. This is just how it goes for us white cuckhold husbands when our wives are hooked on BBC in their white pussy.
 
If you don't have a BBC Dildo now is the time to get one and start using it. She isn't interested in your white cock now but the BBC Dildo might make her happy / satisfied. This is just how it goes for us white cuckhold husbands when our wives are hooked on BBC in their white pussy.
Haven't used ole Amos on her since she started dating Eric. Think I'll hold off for awhile longer..the bruises are healing and her pussy has begin to tighten back up. Hopefully she will be in the mood tonight an I'll get some. I got a hot blowjob yesterday. But I miss fucking her.20180714_161734.jpg20180714_163521.jpg
 
There will be people cheering her on, but down deep, I see a problem. Any type of alternative lifestyle like this, for it to work for a couple, requires both parties to buy in and be on board. It appears you are having misgivings and second thoughts. You need to bring this up to her. If she cares about your needs and feelings, she should listen. If she does not listen, that tells you where her allegiance lies, and it's not with you.

That she apparently cheated before, and you believe she would again, tells me this is not a relationship built on trust. This whole scenario may be good jerk-off fantasy for guys who want to be in this lifestyle, but it's my opinion that this is not healthy for your relationship, unless you two can talk, and you can trust her, and she gives you reason to trust her.

Again, just my two cents worth.

When one party no longer cares or respects the other’s feelings, sadly it may be time to make a decision regarding your own well being.
Your significant other may be addicted to the lifestyle and no longer has dignity or respect for the marriage.
If they are so emboldened as to stay out for days at a time, skip school or work for sex, lie about their whereabouts... it’s over.
If it’s truly “JUST SEX” why lie?
When their fantasy life has crept into your reality and you don’t your spouse anymore...
 
I guess this is a risk we all take and whether a woman is in this lifestyle or not, theres always going to be those who are good at relationships amd those who are not. It sounds like your lady is of the latter.
Talk talk and more talk is required. Face to face, all cards on the table.
And once she has heard your side then listen to hers. A common ground will be there for sure. If not then a major decision needs to be made and both of you move on.
Im sure you can sort it out.
Tell us what your ideal situation would be????
 
I guess this is a risk we all take and whether a woman is in this lifestyle or not, theres always going to be those who are good at relationships amd those who are not. It sounds like your lady is of the latter.
Talk talk and more talk is required. Face to face, all cards on the table.
And once she has heard your side then listen to hers. A common ground will be there for sure. If not then a major decision needs to be made and both of you move on.
Im sure you can sort it out.
Tell us what your ideal situation would be????
Would like it to go back like it was b4. She only dated a couple times a month. We've had a long talk and realize that's not going to happen. Ive just got to learn to accept it. I don't want a divorce. It helps chatting an listening to other advice. This is great site. Glad found it.
 
Would like it to go back like it was b4. She only dated a couple times a month. We've had a long talk and realize that's not going to happen. Ive just got to learn to accept it. I don't want a divorce. It helps chatting an listening to other advice. This is great site. Glad found it.
So was there any compromise? Any changes to be made at all?
 
Would like it to go back like it was b4. She only dated a couple times a month. We've had a long talk and realize that's not going to happen. Ive just got to learn to accept it. I don't want a divorce. It helps chatting an listening to other advice. This is great site. Glad found it.
A phase many women who join this lifestyle go through perhaps unfortunate for the husband. They become very promiscuous and very active often with one partner. It becomes very hot for awhile then fades away perhaps until she finds her next new stud. She fucks lots of new guys and then things settle down. But she will always be fucking other guys now
 
So was there any compromise? Any changes to be made at all?
Well kinda..she told me she loved me an happy she was with all the money$ was bring in with 2nd job.
Then she began to tease me an got out my cockring. Christy was super horny an wanted me to 'fuck her ass '
Knew right away that she hadn't been with Eric as her ass was really tight. It's hard to cum with cockring on an I pounded her good.
Then she rolled over and I ate her out..It was heaven having her him all over my face. We took a break an I cleaned up my dick an was able to slide cockring off.
When I came back to bed she admitted that Javon had taken her out to lunch a couple times last week. She said they didn't fuck but she had given him oral in the car parking lot. The whole time she was telling me about Javon she was stroking my dick. I came soon after she sucked me into her mouth.
While we cuddled she said that she invited Javon over for dinner and that he wants to meet me. That was the first sex we had in 3weeks. It felt so good an Christy was so happy. I couldn't disagree.
So much for being discreet. First the cop then her co-worker found out. Now our neighbors will. So yeah..at least not Eric 20180618_185152.jpg
 
Well kinda..she told me she loved me an happy she was with all the money$ was bring in with 2nd job.
Then she began to tease me an got out my cockring. Christy was super horny an wanted me to 'fuck her ass '
Knew right away that she hadn't been with Eric as her ass was really tight. It's hard to cum with cockring on an I pounded her good.
Then she rolled over and I ate her out..It was heaven having her him all over my face. We took a break an I cleaned up my dick an was able to slide cockring off.
When I came back to bed she admitted that Javon had taken her out to lunch a couple times last week. She said they didn't fuck but she had given him oral in the car parking lot. The whole time she was telling me about Javon she was stroking my dick. I came soon after she sucked me into her mouth.
While we cuddled she said that she invited Javon over for dinner and that he wants to meet me. That was the first sex we had in 3weeks. It felt so good an Christy was so happy. I couldn't disagree.
So much for being discreet. First the cop then her co-worker found out. Now our neighbors will. So yeah..at least not Eric View attachment 1980986
Progression from one black man to others. Yes the tight cock ring serves as a cum lock keeping you from ejaculating your cum into her. Often , removing the ring later allows the cum backup to leak out. Another device to keep your cum out of her white pussy so it doesn't mix with the cum from her black bulls. When not in chasity , my balls are banded and I wear a cock ring too
 
I’m so sorry to hear that. You sound frustrated and hurt. Did you have an agreement before this began? Were there any boundaries?
Was able to see my wife play for first time. We had Javon over for dinner and it didn't take Christy long b4 she was teasing me and kissing him. While I finished cooking she gave him the tour of the apartment. When I came to tell them dinner was ready they were going at it on bed. I just stood in doorway mesmerized. It was not like a porno..not when it's your wife. He was banging away doggy and all I could do was stare at that black ball sack hanging down. Huge fucking balls on this guy. Damn. Christy looked like a little school girl under him
 
If you had no basic ground rules from the start, it seems she is merely taking great advantage. You can do all the suggested remedies, e.g. jerk off, clean her, jump her ass, whatever, but that doesn't resolve the fact she prefers being fucked by him (and friends) and prefers it that way. Her bull/bf seems focused on making her his...plain and simple. She is, basically, his whore. After 3 years if this is truly bothering you, its time to make a stand.
You are actually in control whether you understand it not. You are ALLOWING this to occur. You can either just let it continue or sit down and re-write whatever rules you had...or just tell her to stop or else. The control of the situation is yours.
 
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If you had no basic ground rules from the start, it seems she is merely taking great advantage. You can do all the suggested remedies, e.g. jerk off, clean her, jump her ass, whatever, but that doesn't resolve the fact she prefers being fucked by him (and friends) and prefers it that way. Her bull/bf seems focused on making her his...plain and simple. She is, basically, his whore. After 3 years if this is truly bothering you, its time to make a stand.
You are actually in control whether you understand it not. You are ALLOWING this to occur. You can either just let it continue or sit down and re-write whatever rules you had...or just tell her to stop or else. The control of the situation is yours.
I've known that from our 1st date an that hot blowjob she gave. Been wrapped around her little finger since.
At first I thought I felt sorry for her because of the bipolar disorder but then came to really care and love her.
Now it's all been happening so fast these last two months Christy has changed so much. Never thought she would do any of these things. I know I've got to be more accepting but its hard.. I can't get Javon huge nut sack pounding her out of my head
 
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