hi Mike do you get hard when you think about them fucking or Masturbate at the thought ?? if so you deep down you want it! .... I was mad as hell first then broken and hurt then I had a hardon almost constantly for a week .We worked through it and after many ups and downs we have a far better marriage and we are botha lot happier.
I'm glad that you brought this up. My first love, in college, was an absolute doll, she loved sex, and I was so proud being seen with her. We dated 3-4 months, with me head over heels in love, before finding out through one of her friends that she was screwing other guy
s ... plural (s). When I went to confront her, there was another guy's car parked where I normally parked. I was an emotional wreck, but then realized I was also turned on and had a erection; I masturbated on the spot.
Another time, my wife's old boyfriend (he was my roommate in college for a year) ran into my wife at the mall and she called me to let me talk with him. I invited him to have dinner with us, and he and I ended up banging my wife the entire night. The level of passion was simply incredible. Later, I had regrets, thinking I had reignited an old romance, and it took both my wife and him to reassure me that nothing was happening between them again. That was over 16 years ago and my wife and I could not be happier in our relationship.
I guess the bottom line to all this is that if a man's woman feels she's not getting what she needs out of the relationship, its up to the guy she's with to either provide her what she needs or end up losing her. Its just the way it is.
Mac