I think if you listen to some people on this thread, you will waste time with jokers and people who want to see what your cheating wife looks like. You have a legitimate concern and others look for opportunities to be the "smart advisor" and to post silly cartoons that are supposed to amuse everyone at your expense. This is cruel, thoughtless and selfish. May I suggest that instead of letting people take advantage of your vulnerability, you subtlely let your wife know that you are concerned. Good communication and trust are the foundation of any relationship. If you do not have communication, you can't have trust. Talk to your wife.Exactly Mac!!!