Last year My husband and I attended several workshops during a Splash Mocha event. A panel of gentlemen led this particular workshop titled " Bulls and their role ". The jest of the course was bascially explaining proper bull behavior regarding couples and their expectations of Couples. Very informative but the thing that stood out the most for me was that the entire panel of men agreed that most "Bulls" aern't really Bulls, just dudes there to " fuck wives" etc. Given their testimonies i can confirm that what they had to say was true.I'd say by my experiance only a small handful would actually qualify as a bull, the rest were just black men that i fucked. No matter how good the night may have went, Im suprised if the guy comes back for more or wishes to stay in contact simply because many just want to hit and run. Other than showing respect for us, i actually expect to be disappointed from the men because very little of them went above and beyond. Its refreshing when they dont disappoint.I would say get used to it, you never know for sure what you'll get from someone.