Cultural and societal pressure to conform, or stick to your own kind, etc. is of course the major factor. However, having been there and done that, women I've spoken to have often told me the same story. Usually it is one where they always had an attraction to black guys from jump, or as far back as they could recall, and no matter how much they try to ignore it, the feeling never dies.
One of them, whose husband is quite small, and I saw what she meant having seen some pictures she sent to me, described her case as being depressing. These women find themselves locked in a situation where they are deeply frustrated and doomed to a life of sexual inadequacy if their husbands do not allow them the opportunity to purse their repressed desire.
Sad situation that.
To think you only live once yet you have to endure that.
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