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Why are whyte people so weird

#1
I've been watching this forum from afar and had to ask the question to y'all upfront. I'm not attacking anyone. The whole interracial thing is quite rasict and the fact that husbands would demean themselves so low goes against human nature. I'm a lightskin dude half black half white but I don't see the meaning behind all this. It's very strange. Like all races of men have large members , the black thing is truly a myth, truly. So can someone explain to me is it about the skin color, is it the fact that you guys feel bad for slavery, are you mad at life. I just want to know that's all. Sorry if I offended anyone.
 
#4
To believe that all people of one race believe the same thing is in fact racist. The truth is that there are many reasons men of all ilk's share their women. Are there specific examples where the underpinnings of their motives are rooted in self loathing, guilt, and hatred? Sure. But, as you suggested, you can't categorize all Black, White, Hispanic, Asian, etc. men equally. We all do things for our own reasons, and engaging in this type of fantasy play doesn't necessarily have to be degrading, or an indictment of anyone's character, to be enjoyable for all parties involved. Despite what you might think, there can be mutual respect and admiration between everyone. But, everyone frames things as they see fit, I suppose. I would rather that most people see these types of encounters/relationships as a positive and rewarding. Some people take fantasy way too seriously.
 

wit

Male
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From
PA, US
#6
There is always someone better. Bigger and thicker in this case. Wanting your beloved wife to get very best sex then often means getting cuckolded, for me at least, since I happen to sport a below average penis. I also happen to be white. Lots of Black Men happen to be well above average in the manhood department, unlike me.

Combine that, pop culture stereotypes embraced to cut down my ego, or its remnants, and the power that gives her over me, and then consider history and how that makes interracial sex taboo to many ---often older--- family members and that encourages her and a multitude of white women to crave cuckoldimg their white boy with a bigger, more masculine Black man. Knowing how shocked her family might be, and the consequences of that spite and animosity from both families to us, makes my encouragement and acceptance more severe in potential anger against us, so when that potential fault that could be assigned to her is lessened, then it is another encouragement to try interracial "forbidden" sex. Particularly when she already knows how much bigger he is compared to her partners smaller white penis. Particularly if premature ejaculation, viagra use, or other issues are problems in the marriage or partnership. Giving up her monagomy obligation, while white guys like me remain faithful, allows her to cheat with no repercussions. Surrendering that, leaves her in the position of power in the marriage. Forever after she wears the pants. If that makes up for other failures it can be a workable compromise. Or he is an alpha male intoxicated by becoming the beta male in the bedroom subservient to all, and learns to like being submissive and obedient to her, even, especially if he has always been in "charge" of most things since they have been a couple.

Each case is different. Communications matter. Almost as much Size. But it is obviously society and culture is seeing a trend towards cuckolding, in fantasy and probably more frequently in action.
 

laphanatic

Couple
Real Person
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From
CA, US
#7
I'm not sure how it's racist to be turned on by a color contrast. My wife and I have no interest in the cuckold stuff. We're both well aware NOT all black men are hung. We do believe there are more hung black men in this lifestyle than the average white men in this scene but believe it's due to the average and smaller black men feeling there's no place for them in the lifestyle since you often read about couples wanting the BBC.

White guilt?? HAHA No! Certainly not an issue for us.

I think it's pretty simple for us. We play with other couples but finding a 4 way match can be challenging so most of our play revolves around single men. I've always enjoyed watching porn(voyeur) and my wife enjoys being an exhibitionist. We found in the lifestyle most of white men in the lifestyle would approach my wife when I would step away for a moment and then disappear when they saw me approaching. Most of the black men we've met in the LS have been the complete opposite, normally approaching me first and then talking to my wife. For us it's about respect for us a couple, then put the voyeur/exhibitionist stuff and the color contrast into the mix and it's worked great for us. Oh! And who would want to watch a porn movie starring their favorite actress when the actor has an average size cock so the bigger the better for us when playing. Having a large cock is something my wife doesn't really care about but since I handle all initial emails she never gets the chance to meet a man with an average penis.
 
#8
I'm not sure how it's racist to be turned on by a color contrast. My wife and I have no interest in the cuckold stuff. We're both well aware NOT all black men are hung. We do believe there are more hung black men in this lifestyle than the average white men in this scene but believe it's due to the average and smaller black men feeling there's no place for them in the lifestyle since you often read about couples wanting the BBC.

White guilt?? HAHA No! Certainly not an issue for us.

I think it's pretty simple for us. We play with other couples but finding a 4 way match can be challenging so most of our play revolves around single men. I've always enjoyed watching porn(voyeur) and my wife enjoys being an exhibitionist. We found in the lifestyle most of white men in the lifestyle would approach my wife when I would step away for a moment and then disappear when they saw me approaching. Most of the black men we've met in the LS have been the complete opposite, normally approaching me first and then talking to my wife. For us it's about respect for us a couple, then put the voyeur/exhibitionist stuff and the color contrast into the mix and it's worked great for us. Oh! And who would want to watch a porn movie starring their favorite actress when the actor has an average size cock so the bigger the better for us when playing. Having a large cock is something my wife doesn't really care about but since I handle all initial emails she never gets the chance to meet a man with an average penis.
I am not sure if you were referencing my post, but yours supports my point that every couple is different and engages in this lifestyle for their own reasons, and enjoys it, based on the parameters they set within it. We get to learn what we like as couples, and do what feels good for both of us. It's these sweeping generalizations that I disagree with. My comment about individual races all believing the same thing, and that being a racist notion, I believe is valid.
 

Ann4BBC

Female
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From
UK
#9
We're in the UK, we have no hang ups about slavery as the British invited our West Indian settlers here. Nor is it a self hatred of being white. With us it's a simple case of blacks looking sexier and the guys we've met being so sexually confident. My hubby struggles to get an erection sometimes, has to be in the 'right mood' whereas black guys seem to be always ready for anything. I love that! No pressures just the fun!
 

laphanatic

Couple
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From
CA, US
#10
I am not sure if you were referencing my post, but yours supports my point that every couple is different and engages in this lifestyle for their own reasons, and enjoys it, based on the parameters they set within it. We get to learn what we like as couples, and do what feels good for both of us. It's these sweeping generalizations that I disagree with. My comment about individual races all believing the same thing, and that being a racist notion, I believe is valid.
No, I was replying to the OP.
 
#11
Yh
I've been watching this forum from afar and had to ask the question to y'all upfront. I'm not attacking anyone. The whole interracial thing is quite rasict and the fact that husbands would demean themselves so low goes against human nature. I'm a lightskin dude half black half white but I don't see the meaning behind all this. It's very strange. Like all races of men have large members , the black thing is truly a myth, truly. So can someone explain to me is it about the skin color, is it the fact that you guys feel bad for slavery, are you mad at life. I just want to know that's all. Sorry if I offended anyone.
I am a 34 year old single white woman who is black exclusive (men that is, women I am more flexible). I know I am not weird. I knew even before I started this that not every black man has a porn sized cock. I will say that I do believe that an average black cock is bigger than an average white one.

My point is that black men have a lot more going for them in bed than the size of their penis, a lot more. And if, and it's a big if, I decide in the future to try the one man conventional life, it will be with a black man. That's my preference and it's not because of guilt over slavery or jim crow, nothing I can do about that.

I am also not some wannabe. I don't wear my hair in cornrows, talk in exagerated ebonics and I hate rap music. I'm just a girl who found what works for me and that dosen't make me weird or a racist, just happy.
 

time2try

Couple
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From
NC, US
#12
It means different things to different people. I never understand the need to label a man who likes to share his wife as less a man. And honestly I have always loved a long thick cock, regardless of color. It's just at this point I want to see what all the fuss is about!
The color difference is erotic, yes. Otherwise to me at least, my husbands "white" feelings of injustice, or whatever one likes to label it, are flights of fancy. We are all the same on the inside! We have no "white guilt" that I see talked about ad nauseum in the media each and every day. Just have fun and stop looking for skape goats.....
 
#14
A vague statement all races have a level of weirdness not just "white people" travel the states and the world you will see- to question the life style is to question ones choice- you choose to come on this site and you're being very judgmental, whats is next???
 
#15
A vague statement all races have a level of weirdness not just "white people" travel the states and the world you will see- to question the life style is to question ones choice- you choose to come on this site and you're being very judgmental, whats is next???

When I read these replies y'all seem so civil but when I go on other posts I see men and women mostly white talking about seeping generalizations. It's kind of disgusting how black males can be regarded almost as animal like or chimps who are just used for one thing sex. I don't see it as being right. Same reason why it's wrong to think an oriental asian women will be obedient and do everything you want or how you expect a Latina to say papi every other minute when your bangin her out. These are definetly some strange and wrong fetishes and reason being is that you don't go around telling people about it because it would be super awkward to see random black people in the street and say I fetishize about you cause your skin color.
 
#16
When I read these replies y'all seem so civil but when I go on other posts I see men and women mostly white talking about seeping generalizations. It's kind of disgusting how black males can be regarded almost as animal like or chimps who are just used for one thing sex. I don't see it as being right. Same reason why it's wrong to think an oriental asian women will be obedient and do everything you want or how you expect a Latina to say papi every other minute when your bangin her out. These are definetly some strange and wrong fetishes and reason being is that you don't go around telling people about it because it would be super awkward to see random black people in the street and say I fetishize about you cause your skin color.
I've been with black men who make no bones about the fact that they prefer white women. If you don't have anything better to do than monitor a site you obviously dislike, why don't you comment on them?
 
#17
When I read these replies y'all seem so civil but when I go on other posts I see men and women mostly white talking about seeping generalizations. It's kind of disgusting how black males can be regarded almost as animal like or chimps who are just used for one thing sex. I don't see it as being right. Same reason why it's wrong to think an oriental asian women will be obedient and do everything you want or how you expect a Latina to say papi every other minute when your bangin her out. These are definetly some strange and wrong fetishes and reason being is that you don't go around telling people about it because it would be super awkward to see random black people in the street and say I fetishize about you cause your skin color.
The question here is, can one be attracted to skin color that is not your own? and is it necessary for one to view black men (or any men of color) as subhuman "fuck machines," when we share them with our partners? I can answer only for myself, but I can tell you, as a Hispanic, the first woman I ever fell in love with was black, the first I had sex with was Hispanic, the first I married was White, and the one I eventually decided I wanted to spend the rest of my life with was Asian. I loved the skin color of each one, because of the person that wore that skin, and believe attraction goes beyond skin color.

With that being said, I don't see any problem being attracted to skin color (and by the way, a lot of black women love white men). The belief system you attach to any interracial relationship, whether it be sex or love based, is unique unto itself. There doesn't have to be any underlying degrading "absolute truth" to any of this. THAT is a matter of opinion. The sooner more white women have more black men's babies, black women have white men's babies (and well lets face it, Hispanic woman have EVERYONES babies) the sooner we can get rid of all this racism bullshit. I know that might stir some feathers in here, but I don't care. It's MY opinion.
 
#18
The question here is, can one be attracted to skin color that is not your own? and is it necessary for one to view black men (or any men of color) as subhuman "fuck machines," when we share them with our partners? I can answer only for myself, but I can tell you, as a Hispanic, the first woman I ever fell in love with was black, the first I had sex with was Hispanic, the first I married was White, and the one I eventually decided I wanted to spend the rest of my life with was Asian. I loved the skin color of each one, because of the person that wore that skin, and believe attraction goes beyond skin color.

With that being said, I don't see any problem being attracted to skin color (and by the way, a lot of black women love white men). The belief system you attach to any interracial relationship, whether it be sex or love based, is unique unto itself. There doesn't have to be any underlying degrading "absolute truth" to any of this. THAT is a matter of opinion. The sooner more white women have more black men's babies, black women have white men's babies (and well lets face it, Hispanic woman have EVERYONES babies) the sooner we can get rid of all this racism bullshit. I know that might stir some feathers in here, but I don't care. It's MY opinion.
The thing is Africa is not a place that welcomes foreigners. So you don't have foreign men traveling to Africa to get pussy. You have black men leaving Africa to get pussy on other continents tho. Maybe one day we'll see Africa become more modern and more foreigners going there. Then the black guy will
Be the cuck and the role reversed. Till then everyone will continue going to the white mans territory or continent and fucking his women. Regardless this stuffs all sick. Thanks for all the helpful opinions.
 
#19
The only thing I agree with you on is that this is all opinion. Because, guess what? Africa to this day has tourism, white men marry African women all the time, and there are plenty of black men that are cuckolds (yeah, I've seen it).
 
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