Why are so few younger black guys familiar with this lifestyle?

[Kull711]

I typically use apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Badoo to find prospective bulls to play with, because I am interested in younger (20s) guys. It’s amazing that 99% of the guys I have met on these apps have never heard of this lifestyle, have never heard of a hotwife, let alone know what my QoS tattoo means. (I showed my QoS tattoo in full view above my bikini all week at Temptation Resort in Cancun, and not a single black guy I talked with had any idea what it meant!) When I find attractive young bulls on the swipe apps it takes a lot of time to educate them on the lifestyle, what it involves, what we’re into, etc. and it never fails to blow their minds. Most think that I am catfish and don’t believe it’s real until I FaceTime or Snapchat them. They cannot believe they had never heard of this before and they thank me for opening up this new world to them! Has this happened to other hotwives and couples? Why is it that in this age of social media, pop culture, internet porn, etc. so few younger bulls have no idea about this lifestyle, especially when if they knew about it, it would open up a whole new world of amazing sex to them?!?View attachment 4580757

I believe this comes down to our own personal experience in this community & in this lifestyle. I know i can't speak for all guys, especially those that are in their 20s & 30s, but from what i can tell from my personal experience being 33 single man in this space, i've experienced some stuff with certain couples & women & have meet them in person & had a good time. In my 20s i didn't know much about this lifestyle & how certain couples & women live & what i've learned from being in my 20s is that i was naive about certain things in this lifestyle & i've started to do my own research about open relationship dynamics when it comes to romance & sex with other couples & women. I hoped what i've shared helps you, you seem like a adventurous couple who knows what they want in life & i hope you'll experience more kinky adventures in this community for years to come. Many blessings to you & god bless .

 

[gettindown907]

I typically use apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Badoo to find prospective bulls to play with, because I am interested in younger (20s) guys. It’s amazing that 99% of the guys I have met on these apps have never heard of this lifestyle, have never heard of a hotwife, let alone know what my QoS tattoo means. (I showed my QoS tattoo in full view above my bikini all week at Temptation Resort in Cancun, and not a single black guy I talked with had any idea what it meant!) When I find attractive young bulls on the swipe apps it takes a lot of time to educate them on the lifestyle, what it involves, what we’re into, etc. and it never fails to blow their minds. Most think that I am catfish and don’t believe it’s real until I FaceTime or Snapchat them. They cannot believe they had never heard of this before and they thank me for opening up this new world to them! Has this happened to other hotwives and couples? Why is it that in this age of social media, pop culture, internet porn, etc. so few younger bulls have no idea about this lifestyle, especially when if they knew about it, it would open up a whole new world of amazing sex to them?!?View attachment 4580757

We have to agree with you there on the educating part. Most of the younger men tend to be unaware of what the lifestyle is. We also use tinder but its a lot of educating.

 

[CoolDuo]

We have to agree with you there on the educating part. Most of the younger men tend to be unaware of what the lifestyle is. We also use tinder but its a lot of educati

It's still a subculture. Even myself, I didn't know about it until I joined the site.

 

[kingofmoab]

Yeah I haven’t heard of it until I came on this site

 

[jsmooth]

I stumbled in this at the age of 19 from AOL chat rooms and yahoo groups back in the day

 

[ImHimTheBbc]

I’m 34 and I’ve been in this lifestyle for almost a decade now. Young guy know about it but it’s the opportunity that has to present itself. I can still remember my first time and that’s almost a decade ago

 

[Jdingo619]

The average young black man is not going to know about the lifestyle or be interested in it because it goes against our masculine territorial nature to share our woman.

There's plenty of videos on the internet of black men who caught their women cheating and all they wanted to do is fight that complete and fatal stranger of his unfaithful woman.

Also I have to be honest here I have seen plenty of videos of mature women with really young guys and I can tell you that its definitely not their performance or the quality of their bbc that was the highlight of the video or what the hotwife seemed to get from it. Its definitely more likely all about the kink of being desired by a younger man and their young eager energy.

 

[mywayintermsofsex]

Young people in general do not know much about sexual lifestyles let alone a very specialized one like this. - It's not only Black men. Many young people have probably heard of swinging but if you ask a random person on the streets, how many will have an idea of what it really is?
Images of what sex or relationships should be like are socially instilled in (every) person's mind already long before their sexual awakening, notwithstanding their personal attraction, individual tastes and desires. And those build and refine with the experiences a person gains. It takes time to develop, navigate and divert in a direction such as the Hotwife Lifestyle!

i guess it's much easier for a Woman of any age to just find a young guy to fuck for the sake of fucking than to find a young Black man who is experienced with couples or who even knows this lifestyle exists. - Perhaps sad, but true.
If you expect a guy to make the first move, walk up to you and directly flirt while you are accompanied by your husband then good luck! Even if it were you to make the first move... it is simply not expected, socially, to be welcome to reciprocate the move by showing interest in another man's woman right in front of him. Off-line (IRL) or online... nobody wants to be conned or ambushed, which could be the intention suspected by anybody who does not know "this" lifestyle.

 

[HorsehungBull]

I typically use apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Badoo to find prospective bulls to play with, because I am interested in younger (20s) guys. It’s amazing that 99% of the guys I have met on these apps have never heard of this lifestyle, have never heard of a hotwife, let alone know what my QoS tattoo means. (I showed my QoS tattoo in full view above my bikini all week at Temptation Resort in Cancun, and not a single black guy I talked with had any idea what it meant!) When I find attractive young bulls on the swipe apps it takes a lot of time to educate them on the lifestyle, what it involves, what we’re into, etc. and it never fails to blow their minds. Most think that I am catfish and don’t believe it’s real until I FaceTime or Snapchat them. They cannot believe they had never heard of this before and they thank me for opening up this new world to them! Has this happened to other hotwives and couples? Why is it that in this age of social media, pop culture, internet porn, etc. so few younger bulls have no idea about this lifestyle, especially when if they knew about it, it would open up a whole new world of amazing sex to them?!?View attachment 4580757

I’d see that tat from a mile away and come running.

 

[rymoore]

I didn’t become active in this lifestyle til I was away from the city and women I knew I could smash.

I typically use apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Badoo to find prospective bulls to play with, because I am interested in younger (20s) guys. It’s amazing that 99% of the guys I have met on these apps have never heard of this lifestyle, have never heard of a hotwife, let alone know what my QoS tattoo means. (I showed my QoS tattoo in full view above my bikini all week at Temptation Resort in Cancun, and not a single black guy I talked with had any idea what it meant!) When I find attractive young bulls on the swipe apps it takes a lot of time to educate them on the lifestyle, what it involves, what we’re into, etc. and it never fails to blow their minds. Most think that I am catfish and don’t believe it’s real until I FaceTime or Snapchat them. They cannot believe they had never heard of this before and they thank me for opening up this new world to them! Has this happened to other hotwives and couples? Why is it that in this age of social media, pop culture, internet porn, etc. so few younger bulls have no idea about this lifestyle, especially when if they knew about it, it would open up a whole new world of amazing sex to them?!?View attachment 4580757

there’s plenty of young guys on this site. Kinda sounds like you’re pursuing the thrill of “blowing their minds” you could find a young guy within 35 minutes on BLK or on this site

 

[curious28]

I typically use apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Badoo to find prospective bulls to play with, because I am interested in younger (20s) guys. It’s amazing that 99% of the guys I have met on these apps have never heard of this lifestyle, have never heard of a hotwife, let alone know what my QoS tattoo means. (I showed my QoS tattoo in full view above my bikini all week at Temptation Resort in Cancun, and not a single black guy I talked with had any idea what it meant!) When I find attractive young bulls on the swipe apps it takes a lot of time to educate them on the lifestyle, what it involves, what we’re into, etc. and it never fails to blow their minds. Most think that I am catfish and don’t believe it’s real until I FaceTime or Snapchat them. They cannot believe they had never heard of this before and they thank me for opening up this new world to them! Has this happened to other hotwives and couples? Why is it that in this age of social media, pop culture, internet porn, etc. so few younger bulls have no idea about this lifestyle, especially when if they knew about it, it would open up a whole new world of amazing sex to them?!?View attachment 4580757

Wow! You are beautiful

 

[CoupleNewToIt]

I typically use apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Badoo to find prospective bulls to play with, because I am interested in younger (20s) guys. It’s amazing that 99% of the guys I have met on these apps have never heard of this lifestyle, have never heard of a hotwife, let alone know what my QoS tattoo means. (I showed my QoS tattoo in full view above my bikini all week at Temptation Resort in Cancun, and not a single black guy I talked with had any idea what it meant!) When I find attractive young bulls on the swipe apps it takes a lot of time to educate them on the lifestyle, what it involves, what we’re into, etc. and it never fails to blow their minds. Most think that I am catfish and don’t believe it’s real until I FaceTime or Snapchat them. They cannot believe they had never heard of this before and they thank me for opening up this new world to them! Has this happened to other hotwives and couples? Why is it that in this age of social media, pop culture, internet porn, etc. so few younger bulls have no idea about this lifestyle, especially when if they knew about it, it would open up a whole new world of amazing sex to them?!?View attachment 4580757

They must have been both blind AND unknowing! YOU, M'Lady, are a hottie, tattoo or no tattoo. I'd not need a tattoo to hit on you!!!

 

[curious28]

I typically use apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Badoo to find prospective bulls to play with, because I am interested in younger (20s) guys. It’s amazing that 99% of the guys I have met on these apps have never heard of this lifestyle, have never heard of a hotwife, let alone know what my QoS tattoo means. (I showed my QoS tattoo in full view above my bikini all week at Temptation Resort in Cancun, and not a single black guy I talked with had any idea what it meant!) When I find attractive young bulls on the swipe apps it takes a lot of time to educate them on the lifestyle, what it involves, what we’re into, etc. and it never fails to blow their minds. Most think that I am catfish and don’t believe it’s real until I FaceTime or Snapchat them. They cannot believe they had never heard of this before and they thank me for opening up this new world to them! Has this happened to other hotwives and couples? Why is it that in this age of social media, pop culture, internet porn, etc. so few younger bulls have no idea about this lifestyle, especially when if they knew about it, it would open up a whole new world of amazing sex to them?!?View attachment 4580757

Very interesting

 

[Badboykilla187]

I'm 23 & I knew about QoS & snowbunny stuff since high school because of porn but I didn't know about an active cuckholding lifestyle where a woman with a faithful man has consensual sex with black guys.

 

[MasterL]

I typically use apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Badoo to find prospective bulls to play with, because I am interested in younger (20s) guys. It’s amazing that 99% of the guys I have met on these apps have never heard of this lifestyle, have never heard of a hotwife, let alone know what my QoS tattoo means. (I showed my QoS tattoo in full view above my bikini all week at Temptation Resort in Cancun, and not a single black guy I talked with had any idea what it meant!) When I find attractive young bulls on the swipe apps it takes a lot of time to educate them on the lifestyle, what it involves, what we’re into, etc. and it never fails to blow their minds. Most think that I am catfish and don’t believe it’s real until I FaceTime or Snapchat them. They cannot believe they had never heard of this before and they thank me for opening up this new world to them! Has this happened to other hotwives and couples? Why is it that in this age of social media, pop culture, internet porn, etc. so few younger bulls have no idea about this lifestyle, especially when if they knew about it, it would open up a whole new world of amazing sex to them?!?View attachment 4580757

Fuck you are gorgeous. I'm 19 and I wish I was there when you were strutting around in that bikini. I've always had a love for the interracial lifestyle but I learned about the hotwife and QoS lifestyle about a year ago after coming across it online

 

[Rodgersmith1]

If your wife wants to try a younger black guy ( under 24 ) she’s going to have to do it alone… they are not into any guy there period.

ps. They don’t pull out and cum quick. ( and remember, they are extremely fertile at that age )

Pss….but they do recover very quickly and ready to go in less than 10 minutes usually for much much longer time the second round

 

[Hay621]

I typically use apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Badoo to find prospective bulls to play with, because I am interested in younger (20s) guys. It’s amazing that 99% of the guys I have met on these apps have never heard of this lifestyle, have never heard of a hotwife, let alone know what my QoS tattoo means. (I showed my QoS tattoo in full view above my bikini all week at Temptation Resort in Cancun, and not a single black guy I talked with had any idea what it meant!) When I find attractive young bulls on the swipe apps it takes a lot of time to educate them on the lifestyle, what it involves, what we’re into, etc. and it never fails to blow their minds. Most think that I am catfish and don’t believe it’s real until I FaceTime or Snapchat them. They cannot believe they had never heard of this before and they thank me for opening up this new world to them! Has this happened to other hotwives and couples? Why is it that in this age of social media, pop culture, internet porn, etc. so few younger bulls have no idea about this lifestyle, especially when if they knew about it, it would open up a whole new world of amazing sex to them?!?View attachment 4580757

 

[Hay621]

You are perfection

 

[coupleukfun]

Have you been to a club where there are guys in their 20s? Our experience is one of extremes..they are either giggling schoolboys let loose in a sweet shop....or they " wanna act gangsta!". As with other comments on here...come and say hello in a few years!

 

[whitepvnda]

Like any young man why would they be interested in this at such a young age? They have women thier own age plus it's a thing for when you get older in your 30s I'd say