The most logical reasonable response and perfect. some want to get into a deep psychoanalytical study that the UN should fund. Truly enjoy what you want and understand we don’t all like the same things and that’s perfectly fine. You do you and let others do themselves or make yourself miserable trying to get everyone to share YOUR beliefs and opinions.I think at the end of the day people just overthink and overanalyze too much. Does it matter who marries who, who screws who? Why can't everyone just enjoy the IR lifestyle for what THEY want it to be?