Which road would you take?

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by busymom, Apr 27, 2014.

  1. busymom

    busymom Active Member

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    I had a situation occur tonight and I had to take a minute and ask what you all would do in my shoes.

    A few days ago a good friend of mine and I decided to leave the hubby's at home with the kids and go out on the town. We spent several days primping and planning and even got a room at a local casino so we could go dancing, drinking, and playing without having to drive. We were so excited to get the new lingerie and little black dresses on.

    Then, it happened. One of my other "good" as in BBC good, friend called and said he was coming to town. Now what to do? Go out with girl friend on the town or meet up with a wonderful BBC for the night?

    After I get some input I will let you know what I chose.
     
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  2. love2teachu

    love2teachu Active Member

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    I know this is crazy, but friends come first. I would go out with your friend. You never know who you will meet
     
  3. gr8hubby

    gr8hubby Active Member Real Person

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    My wife would agree. The friend is a guaranteed good time. The night out May or May not pan out.
     
  4. wellhungblkmale

    wellhungblkmale Active Member Real Person

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    Guess it depends on if the girlfriend knows that you like bbc. If she does then meet the out of town friend together. Don't think he would mind that.
     
  5. willsrvu

    willsrvu Administrator Real Person Gold Member

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    Your girlfriend, of course.
     
  6. MacNfries

    MacNfries Well-Known Member Sweet & Cordial Gold Member

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    pic_IMHP-InMyHumbleOpinion.jpg I totally agree with the responses thus far ... but, here's an additional reason why. By regretfully declining his offer, you'll make the value of your company stronger to him in the future. Its like planting a seed for the future of the relationship. Have fun with your GFs. Mac ;)
     
  7. Mariposa blanca

    Mariposa blanca Well-Known Member Real Person Gold Member

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    I'd say stay true to your plans with your GF, especially since you've already done the organizing and shifting things around so you can do this. It would be rude and unfair to drop her once things were already set.

    Guys will come and go (literally and figuratively), but a good GF is worth more than gold.
     
  8. Interested Couple

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    What a great dilemma to be in.
     
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  9. gr8hubby

    gr8hubby Active Member Real Person

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    That is for sure. What a bummer, two hot nights to choose from. Any reason you can't do one then the other?
     
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  10. Chip

    Chip Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    When you have made plans as detailed as these and you were excited to get to do it should be no question that your friend comes first, besides how would you feel if she did that to you?
     
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  11. busymom

    busymom Active Member

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    Thought I would write and let you all know what I chose.

    First of all, I agree with everyone. I couldn't leave my friend high and dry. So I brought my friend along with us. We all had a great time and my two friends enjoyed each other very much. Fortunately, after enjoying each other, they also enjoyed me, over and over until it was checkout time. It was a wonderful night. We all needed it.
     
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  12. Cajun BBC

    Cajun BBC Active Member

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    Set up a threesome with the girlfriend and BBC friend.
     
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  13. gr8hubby

    gr8hubby Active Member Real Person

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    Now that is what I call multi tasking.
     
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  14. Torpedo

    Torpedo Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    You do have an obligation to your gf, there has been some some significant preparation on both your parts. Were you both planning on some extra marital sex or were you just going to flirt? From your original post you both appear to want to look your best so it is logical to assume that you wish to attract others. If you were planning on a little extra sex then see how she feels about your out of town friend joining the two of you, or you could meet him at the casino. Worst case scenario would be to tell your out of town friend that you have prior plans, if he is a decent person he will understand. And if your gf is amenable to a 3some it could be a delightful night for all involved
     
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  15. BlackInWhitePNW

    BlackInWhitePNW Member

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    Very nice. Best of both worlds. Is your friend's hubby also white, btw? And does he know about what happened?
     
  16. pienman

    pienman Active Member

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    Why not both?
     
  17. CindyLou

    CindyLou Guest

    Now that sounds like a win/win!!!! ;)
     
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  18. Torpedo

    Torpedo Well-Known Member Gold Member

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    A little mutual cooperation apparently lead to a lot of mutual everything. I am glad it worked out well for all involved. You might have the start of a toe curling group if you want to pursue it further