Which road would you take?

busymom

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I had a situation occur tonight and I had to take a minute and ask what you all would do in my shoes.

A few days ago a good friend of mine and I decided to leave the hubby's at home with the ******* and go out on the town. We spent several days primping and planning and even got a room at a local casino so we could go dancing, drinking, and playing without having to drive. We were so excited to get the new lingerie and little black dresses on.

Then, it happened. One of my other "good" as in BBC good, friend called and said he was coming to town. Now what to do? Go out with girl friend on the town or meet up with a wonderful BBC for the night?

After I get some input I will let you know what I chose.
 
Guess it depends on if the girlfriend knows that you like bbc. If she does then meet the out of town friend together. Don't think he would mind that.
 
pic_IMHP-InMyHumbleOpinion.jpg I totally agree with the responses thus far ... but, here's an additional reason why. By regretfully declining his offer, you'll make the value of your company stronger to him in the future. Its like planting a seed for the future of the relationship. Have fun with your GFs. Mac ;)
 
I'd say stay true to your plans with your GF, especially since you've already done the organizing and shifting things around so you can do this. It would be rude and unfair to drop her once things were already set.

Guys will come and go (literally and figuratively), but a good GF is worth more than gold.
 
When you have made plans as detailed as these and you were excited to get to do it should be no question that your friend comes first, besides how would you feel if she did that to you?
 
Thought I would write and let you all know what I chose.

First of all, I agree with everyone. I couldn't leave my friend high and dry. So I brought my friend along with us. We all had a great time and my two friends enjoyed each other very much. Fortunately, after enjoying each other, they also enjoyed me, over and over until it was checkout time. It was a wonderful night. We all needed it.
 
I had a situation occur tonight and I had to take a minute and ask what you all would do in my shoes.

A few days ago a good friend of mine and I decided to leave the hubby's at home with the ******* and go out on the town. We spent several days primping and planning and even got a room at a local casino so we could go dancing, drinking, and playing without having to drive. We were so excited to get the new lingerie and little black dresses on.

Then, it happened. One of my other "good" as in BBC good, friend called and said he was coming to town. Now what to do? Go out with girl friend on the town or meet up with a wonderful BBC for the night?

After I get some input I will let you know what I chose.
Set up a threesome with the girlfriend and BBC friend.
 
Thought I would write and let you all know what I chose.

First of all, I agree with everyone. I couldn't leave my friend high and dry. So I brought my friend along with us. We all had a great time and my two friends enjoyed each other very much. Fortunately, after enjoying each other, they also enjoyed me, over and over until it was checkout time. It was a wonderful night. We all needed it.

Now that is what I call multi tasking.
 
You do have an obligation to your gf, there has been some some significant preparation on both your parts. Were you both planning on some extra marital sex or were you just going to flirt? From your original post you both appear to want to look your best so it is logical to assume that you wish to attract others. If you were planning on a little extra sex then see how she feels about your out of town friend joining the two of you, or you could meet him at the casino. Worst case scenario would be to tell your out of town friend that you have prior plans, if he is a decent person he will understand. And if your gf is amenable to a 3some it could be a delightful night for all involved
 
Thought I would write and let you all know what I chose.

First of all, I agree with everyone. I couldn't leave my friend high and dry. So I brought my friend along with us. We all had a great time and my two friends enjoyed each other very much. Fortunately, after enjoying each other, they also enjoyed me, over and over until it was checkout time. It was a wonderful night. We all needed it.
Very nice. Best of both worlds. Is your friend's hubby also white, btw? And does he know about what happened?
 
Thought I would write and let you all know what I chose.

First of all, I agree with everyone. I couldn't leave my friend high and dry. So I brought my friend along with us. We all had a great time and my two friends enjoyed each other very much. Fortunately, after enjoying each other, they also enjoyed me, over and over until it was checkout time. It was a wonderful night. We all needed it.
Now that sounds like a win/win!!!! ;)
 
Thought I would write and let you all know what I chose.

First of all, I agree with everyone. I couldn't leave my friend high and dry. So I brought my friend along with us. We all had a great time and my two friends enjoyed each other very much. Fortunately, after enjoying each other, they also enjoyed me, over and over until it was checkout time. It was a wonderful night. We all needed it.
A little mutual cooperation apparently lead to a lot of mutual everything. I am glad it worked out well for all involved. You might have the start of a toe curling group if you want to pursue it further
 
My wife said she would go with the friend but that she would arrange for the guy to”show up” at the casino and see if he could seduce the friend.
 
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