Which do you prefer, one nighter's or deep friendships?

[aprilmay]

Friendship more so than one nighters

 

[SanDiegoBlack]

definitely long term

If it's a trusting long term relationship, it certainly helps to remove a lot of the doubts (diseases, cleanliness, compatibility, etc.), and helps to reduce the "no shows" and the "last minute surprises" when a person is not who he/she led you to believe they are.

 

[SanDiegoBlack]

Friendship more so than one nighters

Agreed....The friendships can sometimes be a hell of lot deeper than the one-nighter's. If we click, I look forward to the next time I'm with that person!

 

[SanDiegoBlack]

From my side of the fence, I prefer something ongoing with one person. I know for many bulls they may prefer to "play the field", and that is kool too, but when you develop that longevity with one person, it allows for a better level of comfort to be able to enjoy each other more.

Bam! You hit the nail on the head!

 

[SanDiegoBlack]

For me I'd prefer just 1 or 2 times rather than starting something that lasts a long time. I love the man I'm with and being with the same black man that's superior in every way fucking me its only natural feelings will develop and I dont want that happening

Good point! Hadn't even considered that. Seems as if the hard part would be continually starting over and searching for the right man, but I guess that would be easier than developing deep feelings that interfere with your marriage.

 

[SanDiegoBlack]

I will take them both because a one nighter will leave her thinking about it and wanting more

I've had 'em both, too. I think it's actually harder to find the one nighter's who are on the same wavelength (likes, dislikes, etc.) than having a once every (fill in the blank) relationship where both or all three of you know what to expect. You do you....it seems to be working for you!

 

[SanDiegoBlack]

Long term if possible…..

Glad to hear that---Especially from you!

 

[olena]

Long term, if we click, of course!

 

[SanDiegoBlack]

Long term, if we click, of course!

Here's where I'm puzzled. You say, "long term, of course" but almost everyone on this site is looking for "someone new." May be it's just fantasy or curiosity, but if it is truly a slam dunk, does that mean most of the women/couples posting on this site haven't found that long term Thriller, yet?

 

[Black adonis]

Long-term FWBs.

 

[AnnieS]

In between those two. I domnt like to run around and am very particular but I also like to have a decent relationship with someone, we dont have to be BFF's but have fun when we all get together- me husband and bull.

 

[olena]

Here's where I'm puzzled. You say, "long term, of course" but almost everyone on this site is looking for "someone new." May be it's just fantasy or curiosity, but if it is truly a slam dunk, does that mean most of the women/couples posting on this site haven't found that long term Thriller, yet?

I just speak for myself

 

[muni]

Serious question....Do most women/couples prefer quick, one or two time relationships, or do you prefer a relationship that may take time to cultivate, but lasts for months or years? No right or wrong answers, but since I lean heavily towards growing a relationship, just want to see if I'm out of the mainstream.

long term i think is better. Just it does make things a bit complicated.

 

[BocaBull]

I can honestly say for me personally one night stands can be cool every once and a while but I'll take long term/deep friendships over one nights every time.
Been looking for that for the longest lol

 

[RedHead2Share]

While one-night stands can be very exciting we prefer a longer term relationship with the guy. To learn what everyone's turn-ons are sexually increases the arousal and comfort level. For instance we like going out dancing in public with the "boyfriend" before the sex - it's the foreplay that revs her motor!

 

[shortnbusty]

Long term friendships for sure!

 

[Aeryn]

While I've certainly had a few mind-blowing one-night stands, and there's something incredible about the energy when you know that the moment is all it's ever going to be, I almost develop some sort of longer-term relationship with my lovers.

 

[bulltoronto]

Friendships by far

 

[SanDiegoBlack]

While I've certainly had a few mind-blowing one-night stands, and there's something incredible about the energy when you know that the moment is all it's ever going to be, I almost develop some sort of longer-term relationship with my lovers.

 

[tdv]

I'd only want regular guys with her who pump, dump and go.