My husband has no clue about my infidelity. I tell myself it is because he is away so often, I get lonely. Except that every time he leaves, I am sitting on a bar stool with my legs crossed smiling at the sexy black man at the end of the bar. He'll buy me a ******* and it will happen again...
I disagree that the an unknowing husband will find out. Being open and honest is a better approach but for those women that have an unknowing husband I would say that the odds are quite good he will remain unknowing, provided that the woman does not use an excess of ******* or alcohol. I am not being cynical but women for the most part are far better at deception than men are.Having read through the length of this topic, I notice several ladies saying their husbands don't know what they're doing ... if that involves other men, that's true cuckolding, and I can almost assure the ladies that the outcome of their husbands finding out can be expected to be quite different than if their husbands knew. I imagine most keep this activity a secret from their husbands simply because they don't know what their husband's response would be IF he knew; I can appreciate that excuse. But that reveals a deeper concern about the marriage, if this is the case.
Going behind the husband's back to cuckold him is the truest form of cheating, and I can almost guarantee the results of his finding out (and he will eventually find out) will cause a negative impact to the marriage. Also, by choosing to keep this activity a secret, it proves the lack of trust that they have in their relationship with their husbands. Simply put the shoe on the other foot; imagine the husbands slipping around behind the backs of the wives. What would be the wive's response to finding out that their husbands were doing something similar?
I suggest that the only smart & safe way to enjoy this activity is to have a a trustful relationship with the spouse that will enable them to share sensitive topics and sexual fantasies. Having been with my wife 19 years now, I think this is the only logical route to go IF you truly care about your marriage. It might surprise the ladies to know that their men are much more likely, than they realize, in their husbands' willingness to share in their fantasies. I just don't think its smart to screw around with anyone behind the back of the spouse, unless you really don't care about the marriage. If you don't have trust in your marriage, you really don't have a marriage when you think about it.
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The only problem with this comment is that is very hard to hide the fact that we have been with a BBC as our bodies change shape (you know what I mean} and to try and explain is very hard so deception can only work if you are not having sex with your husbandI disagree that the an unknowing husband will find out. Being open and honest is a better approach but for those women that have an unknowing husband I would say that the odds are quite good he will remain unknowing, provided that the woman does not use an excess of ******* or alcohol. I am not being cynical but women for the most part are far better at deception than men are.
I think this is another area we will have to agree to disagree. Granted, an open honest relationship is preferable but I can assure you that nearly everyone has secrets. Secrets can be kept sometimes on a rather large scale. Then there are people that really don't want to know the truth. One very important consideration is that for the most part women are far better at deception and secrets than men are. Anyone that thinks otherwise is naiveHaving read through the length of this topic, I notice several ladies saying their husbands don't know what they're doing ... if that involves other men, that's true cuckolding, and I can almost assure the ladies that the outcome of their husbands finding out can be expected to be quite different than if their husbands knew. I imagine most keep this activity a secret from their husbands simply because they don't know what their husband's response would be IF he knew; I can appreciate that excuse. But that reveals a deeper concern about the marriage, if this is the case.
Going behind the husband's back to cuckold him is the truest form of cheating, and I can almost guarantee the results of his finding out (and he will eventually find out) will cause a negative impact to the marriage. Also, by choosing to keep this activity a secret, it proves the lack of trust that they have in their relationship with their husbands. Simply put the shoe on the other foot; imagine the husbands slipping around behind the backs of the wives. What would be the wive's response to finding out that their husbands were doing something similar?
I suggest that the only smart & safe way to enjoy this activity is to have a a trustful relationship with the spouse that will enable them to share sensitive topics and sexual fantasies. Having been with my wife 19 years now, I think this is the only logical route to go IF you truly care about your marriage. It might surprise the ladies to know that their men are much more likely, than they realize, in a willingness to share in their fantasies. I just don't think its smart to screw around with anyone behind the back of the spouse, unless you really don't care about the marriage. If you don't have trust in your marriage, you really don't have a marriage when you think about it.
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I'm not married but my dad has no idea i've been with black guys. I was never allowed to even talk to a black guy in high school
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