Not all about the size. Most women would rather have a solid 8" with a black man who knows how to use it for her pleasure first, then his, versus someone who just has a big dick (regardless of color). Get her grabbing the sheets, chewing on the pillow and grabbing my ass to guide me just where she wants it, and it will beat sheer size any day of the week. You know you've done it right when she quietly groans and whispers sounds and feelings that she didn't know she held inside. That the difference between size and pleasure!