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[Marco3311]

I might be on the wrong site I don't understand what him being black exactly has to do with it. And I've been her husband for 20 years and taken care of everything but you're saying I'm going to get kicked to the curb if she can't be alone with another dude I must be missing something. Never agreed to be cuck. Trust me I'm no little bitch

Well said DnR. If you look at the replys of Steviegirl, then you see they all have a common red line. In which I personally doubt she is even a girl.
Bottom line is, you need to talk to you wife. Tell her you are not okay with that, you are okay with the three of you, but not her alone with him.
I do not know you or your wife, but with my experience as a bull, but you might have to watch out for her doing it anyway behind your back. Like I said, I do not know if she would do that.

 

[Marco3311]

No no no your no little bitch & him being Black has NOTHING to do with it, BUT you rang this bell (Cant be undone) now your having second thoughts since she is NOT following your fantasies scenario,
Now take a DEEP breath and be supportive of anything she desires or it could get very ugly, (Communicate) show her your love & you will not have to worry what she is doing & she wont have to do anything behind your back,
it is sooooo much fun to be included. but it is a give and take type deal

When I was a bull there were a lot of couples who only played together. That was their agreement. So that good also work perfectly for DnR. Yes it is give and take. GIVE, she can fuck with a other man, TAKE, it can only when he is also there. No problem with that. In my opinion woman who want more and more are only thinking about themselves, and not about their husband anymore.

 

[DnR]

When I was a bull there were a lot of couples who only played together. That was their agreement. So that good also work perfectly for DnR. Yes it is give and take. GIVE, she can fuck with a other man, TAKE, it can only when he is also there. No problem with that. In my opinion woman who want more and more are only thinking about themselves, and not about their husband anymore.

thanks for taking the time to write these replies I couldn't agree more with every word. Actually talking with my wife she use the word selfish and actually admitted to getting caught up a little bit. Our situation has changed from a random guy once in awhile to a steady guy. I'm sure we'll continue to talk and come up with a compromise that works for everyone we haven't been married 20 years for nothing. And I would have to say that I've been on this site a week and you can tell there is a lot of fake people on here dudes in their mom's basement.

 

[Marco3311]

thanks for taking the time to write these replies I couldn't agree more with every word. Actually talking with my wife she use the word selfish and actually admitted to getting caught up a little bit. Our situation has changed from a random guy once in awhile to a steady guy. I'm sure we'll continue to talk and come up with a compromise that works for everyone we haven't been married 20 years for nothing. And I would have to say that I've been on this site a week and you can tell there is a lot of fake people on here dudes in their mom's basement.

You are spot on. There are a lot of wannabes who like to get you In a extreme situation, or at least try to let you do things.
It now stupid to read that people tell you you should let her, you should be supportive and so on. It is clearly to see they have only you wife in mind, what she wants, they are not thinking about what you want. With cuckolding, or in fact with every kink, communication is the most important thing. Good luck with talking with your wife. Do not be afraid to set some hard lines. I think she also has some hard lines for you, like not fucking other woman, so it is okay for you to have some of your own.

 

[Marco3311]

from reading some of your posts you seem to be treading on thin ice. relationships, no matter how strong, have been ruined by these scenarios. i read somewhere else on this site a 15 year old marriage lead to a divorce.

be careful my dude

Yep, you got that right. As a bull I've seen a lot of divorces. Some were bound to happen anyway, the lifestyle just speed it up. But also marriages which were really good didn't make it. It is sad, but it is the reality.

 

[rocknrobin007]

Your wife needs to feel an attraction for her bull MORE than just sexual this makes the sex and relationship between them much better...

I totally agree with you on this. I always love when Robin has an attraction for a black man shes seeing other than sex....maybe it his looks which is always a good thing if hes clean...fit....atttractive...takes care of himself but more than that if he has a personality that draws Robin to him. Thats a great start for building a relationship of friendship and sex between them which is why she is there. Robin enjoys good intelligent conversation...talking about more than sex....hopefully finding subjects to discuss that are of interest to both of them. When I see her in good conversation with a black man over a ******* I usually see a smile on her face and I know the sex they are going to have will be beautiful...of unless for some reason hes a real dud in the sack which would be very dissappointing for both Robin and I.

 

[Rcp]

You agreed to the cuck arrangement. She's either totally infatuated with him... or possibly falling in love. And why wouldn't she be. He's a sexy black man, and most likely gives her grand mal orgasms every time they hook up. You would be smart to support her request for the alone time, or you might find yourself kicked to the curb.

Not much of a loss if she can't respect his feelings.

 

[Easygliderpro]

When my wife says that's she loves when all 3 of us are together. She also enjoys 1on 1 time with bull without me there. Should I be hurt by this? Just trying to understand her.

Was it your idea, hers or both to play? Did both of you set the rules n what lines cannot be crossed?
Your past n now relationship with your wife, will test n set if she will stay or leave.
It seems n sounds it was your idea, but you did not plan the outcome.
Watching porn on your computer at home, it’s NOT the same when you bring someone at home. You can turn off your computer, but you can’t turn off her feelings n emotions now.

 

[Curiouscpl14]

I don’t talk to bulls alone, it’s what hubs and I prefer but if there was ever a time or place he wanted to play separately I think the sexiest part would be explaining in detail what all naughtyyy things I did for him while it occurred and to have him ravish me once I got home to him where I come to each night at his side where I choose to be and belong

 

[Curiouscpl14]

Hubs is supreme. No questions asked. I come home to HIM. And only him. So anything else is just us being sexy for each other to turn each other on. ?

 

[Miket83]

0 that is what you want let her go and my wife will stay the weekend together with her bull and soon to move her a bull in the house so she can get training I will only fuck her afterwards

Hopin ur around south bend?

 

[MacNfries]

Going forward it's be either everybody or nobody

Its got to work for both of you, or it won't work at all. Hold your ground to this.
This is an interracial site, DNR, but its not necessary or even required that her partners be black. You have two things going on ... the cuckolding that occurs when your wife has sex with other men; that's what cuckolding is all about. Interracial cuckolding obviously assumes the men she is seeing are all black. There's a lot of emphasis put on dominance, submissiveness, etc ... some feel that's a necessity to create the full atmosphere of enjoyment ... basically its trying to emasculate the white male, making him feel incompetent. To some here it is done as fantasy, but to others, its like the caffeine to coffee ... there's no decaf for them; they demand the full effect. Unfortunately, that's not good for marriages. The last thing you two need is to allow a true romance to bloom; its about great sex, and if that's not enough ... push the stop button and expect her to respond appropriately. Best Wishes ... Mac

 

[Ladylovesblack]

Marco and Mac, you've added spot on info as always! Cuckolding is a unique & wide range of actions and activities just like the swinging lifestyle. They sometimes overlap and always have their extremes. Bottom line, if you don't communicate throughout the entire situation, how can you expect issues to be resolved? One's emotional state has to be conveyed or it will bring mixed signals to all involved. You must first make YOUR relationship solid again...its the first step. The directions from a frank discussion are way too many to ponder but you entered this as a team and can go on or end the team play. Please let us know the outcome of your good open discussion because many of us here are learning from others. Thanks!!

 

[StevieGirl]

You have no problem with your wife being fucked by a black man, but you feel hurt because she wants alone time with him? No, don't feel hurt. You've given both of them a green light, which creates optimal conditions for her feelings for him to grow... including romantic alone time.

 

[Chetansha]

Classy reply

Must always trust...her response makes you squirm....because you know he Satisfies that ever so deep...DEEP sexual need....that you cannnot...dont fear, love is about more than sex....Communicate honestly. Trust in greater power

 

[NdBBC4herNala]

My wife and I have an understanding with our playing. She can fuck anyone she wants, as can I. But we do nothing without the other person there. If she’s playing with a guy or a group and I walk out to have a smoke or whatever she can keep going. But no meeting alone for either of us. This is just fucking no more no less. We can be friends with guys she hooks up with and enjoy their company. But that’s as far as it goes. We both know if one cheats, everything we have worked for is over and done. I think couples need to have a good talk about what each person wants from swinging. And set your rules accordingly. But remember swinging won’t help a marriage/relationship in trouble. It only exposes the problems.....

 

[Miket83]

My wife and I have an understanding with our playing. She can fuck anyone she wants, as can I. But we do nothing without the other person there. If she’s playing with a guy or a group and I walk out to have a smoke or whatever she can keep going. But no meeting alone for either of us. This is just fucking no more no less. We can be friends with guys she hooks up with and enjoy their company. But that’s as far as it goes. We both know if one cheats, everything we have worked for is over and done. I think couples need to have a good talk about what each person wants from swinging. And set your rules accordingly. But remember swinging won’t help a marriage/relationship in trouble. It only exposes the problems.....

Good ******* a full understanding