Hi all, we have our third date coming with a very pleasant friend who meets our wishes and vice versa. We’ll see eachother again in a few weeks.
As a couple, we enjoy the build up together and the anticipation in the mean time ofcourse
We would love to explore ideas on how to even intensify the anticipation as a couple the coming weeks, up untill the date.
What kind of build up in the mean time could make her cum almost instantly the moment she enjoys his 10” again?
Feel free to share your ideas, thoughts and experiences with us!
A lot of folks just like it to 'evolve naturally,' and that's an excellent approach. Just establish a gesture or two between you and your wife to indicate that she's ready and you're all set.
However, my husband and I are the exact opposite. We love the anticipation building up to the actual event, feeling it adds a lot more intensity, for a longer period of time, than just the meeting that evening. So these are our suggestions.
1) Right about now, talk to your wife about what she wants to wear for her big evening. Then this weekend, go out and buy it (or at least accessories (i.e. new shoes, handbag, etc). While doing so, encourage the both of you to talk about what she's buying and how she will feel it will enhance the experience ("Yes hon, I know I have a black purse, but this one is small, and I don't need to take much). Innocent appearing statements like that keeps the juices flowing.
2) Will condoms be used? If so, go with her to the ******* store or supermarket together, have her select the condoms. Tell her that they are for her use, not hers. Extra points if you make her buy them!
3) Does she shave? If so, offer to shave her just before leaving to meet him (or his arrival at your home). Trust me, if you're anything like us, your mind goes wild when my hubby shaves me!
So, you have a few suggestions... But this is what we do... Please note, in our case, the shopping is eliminated as we've been active for a while and don't need to buy anything and we don't use condoms.
The day or two before we're to meet (always at a hotel) I get my hair done. That kind of sets the stage and my brain starts going into overdrive!
The day of, we go out to lunch together, but you can feel the tension - good tension, but tension nonetheless.
When we get home, I take a shower or bath, and while I'm doing that, my husband will select what I'm to wear. Nine out of ten times, it will be a sundress. He then puts it on the bed.
After my shower, I'll go to the bedroom and lie on the bed, face up. Hubby then shaves me completely. We both love the fact that he's preparing me for someone else.
When he's done, I'll put on the sundress that he selected for me, my sandals and small bag and we're ready to go.
The two of us meet my lover at a local restaurant (sports bar, casual dinning) for a light dinner and idle chat, then the three of us go to a hotel (that reservations were premade for) and have fun!
Finally, usually the next day, hubby and I will screw like rabbits, but the next time we go out, we frequently flash what has become known as 'the cuck sign' to each other in public. Serves as a reminder of what we both enjoy and shows exactly what we're thinking about! It's fun and we like it. I've included a pic for you to give you an idea. It's the index and little finger extended vertically.
Finally, it's VERY important that the three of you do what the three of you want to do. Don't let the opinion of others (including me) detract you from what you want to do or find enjoyable. Remember two things:
1) the brain is your biggest sex organ. Fantasy and imagination is key, otherwise, it's just a simple physical activity, like walking. It's the brain that makes everything oh so very special!
2) what turns you on may not be to others liking. There are a lot of folks in this forum that do things I would never dream of. Yet conversely, we've gotten a lot of great ideas from reading other threads. Remember, this is for the both of YOU, not me, not other posters, not your neighbor, but for the both of YOU. So do what YOU two want to do. However, I do hope you find our suggestions at least helpful!
Best of luck, and please let us know how it went!
Hugs
Donna
