While I have enjoyed a black lover (his stamina was amazing!), I haven't really experienced or had a relationship with a black bull before. For me personally, the ideal person would: Have stamina that can rock my multi-orgasmic clock! He doesn't have to wait for my 2nd or 3rd orgasm to cum (which would be less than 5min -LOL), but I would like him to be able to get hard and cum at least 2 or 3 times during our sexual romp. Be a gentleman and seductive to start, and then become dominant once we're in the throes of passion. Be large in size and girth. It's more than a fantasy, it really does matter -- at least for my multiple orgasms. If I wanted only 6-7" and average girth, I would never have pursued my husband's (and now my) cuckold fantasy. Understand the cuckold marriage and respect the husband outside the bedroom [INSIDE the bedroom is an entirely different matter!!!] I love and respect my husband and he loves me; I hope a Bull understands that. However, once we're behind closed doors, I want to be dominated... and for my lover to "own" my husband if he so chooses. Is that too "out there" for a Bull? Again, it's about the power, and for me that's the clincher in this whole relationship. What do you other wives think... and how do Bulls feel about this?