I can’t believe that after all of this time I finally have an update.
My partner and I have been together for more than a decade, and this entire time we’ve had a pretty vanilla sex life. We’re both larger people. She’s a bbw, I’m a bhm. We both have body image issues but hers run a lot deeper. Important for later.
I’ve been interested in cuckolding for a long time, and it’s increasingly become my #1 fantasy. I always just assumed she was way too vanilla for anything like that. Back in 2014, I talked to @Idowives0763 and he gave me some fantastic advice to start small by introducing some toys. Eventually I bought a vibrator and a small dildo which we use frequently. But nothing happened after that.
About 3 years ago, in the middle of foreplay, I told her that I had a fantasy of someone watching the two of us have sex. She reacted calmly, said “hmm that could be interesting, let me think on it” and then we kept going with our foreplay. I guess I thought having someone watch us would be a great opening to get us on the stag/hotwife or cuck/hotwife path.
We usually get ******* and fuck on New Years Eve, and on 1/1/19 I was ******* and horny enough to tell her that I wanted to see her fuck another guy. She said “wait what? Really? I think you’re more ******* than you think you are” and then we kind of dropped it.
Nothing really changed after this. We had sex occasionally. I liked to bust out the vibrator/dildo and use it on her. I would make comments about how hot it was to watch her, how much I loved watching her, how hot she is. Then, a few months ago, she started following body image and pro-fat advocates on social media. In just that short time, she became more comfortable in her body and accepted that people could find her attractive. She even saw something on tantra massage and sent it to me with the caption “interesting?” I was completely blown away. Is this the same girl? Wow.
I decided to use this opportunity to start to bring up other kinkyness. I joked about having someone watch us again, and ended up making a friendly bet about a football game. If I won, we would have someone watch us have sex. If she won, we would do something kinky she wants. Then I said “oh we should do the mojo upgrade quiz, to give you some ideas in case you win.” She asked what it is, and after I explained she said “okay let’s do it this afternoon." Again...who was this woman?
We took the test, and I swear she could hear my heartbeat from across the room. I took it first and focused a lot on the group sex/voyeurism/cuckolding questions. I debated how best to answer so that I wouldn’t freak her out but I would be better able to share my feelings. After she took it, we sat down to look at our results. Lots of BDSM (who knew?), public sex, and voyeurism (yay!).
Then she dropped a bomb. She said “oh, I’m surprised threesomes weren’t on our list.” I think I literally made the face from the surprised gif. I asked “...the threesome with a woman or with a man?” She said “oh either. I put ‘if my partner wants to’ for both”. I could have been knocked over with a feather. I told her “oh well I put ‘if my partner wants to’ for both too.” She said “well if we’re going to do that, you have to be in charge because I can’t really devote any mental capacity toward it.”
Seriously, who is this woman? I love her so much.
Now I’m a bit in my own head. I’m going to make sure we talk through this more, let her know how I feel and find out more about what she’s feeling. One kink was watching porn together. She doesn’t watch any porn, so it’s kind of my prerogative what we watch. Maybe I throw some cuck porn into the mix? We’ve talked about a weekend getaway after the election. Maybe we use that to get more kinky? Maybe even introduce our voyeurism there? It’s all crazy, and I’m happy and excited and nervous, and I had to share with everyone here.
My partner and I have been together for more than a decade, and this entire time we’ve had a pretty vanilla sex life. We’re both larger people. She’s a bbw, I’m a bhm. We both have body image issues but hers run a lot deeper. Important for later.
I’ve been interested in cuckolding for a long time, and it’s increasingly become my #1 fantasy. I always just assumed she was way too vanilla for anything like that. Back in 2014, I talked to @Idowives0763 and he gave me some fantastic advice to start small by introducing some toys. Eventually I bought a vibrator and a small dildo which we use frequently. But nothing happened after that.
About 3 years ago, in the middle of foreplay, I told her that I had a fantasy of someone watching the two of us have sex. She reacted calmly, said “hmm that could be interesting, let me think on it” and then we kept going with our foreplay. I guess I thought having someone watch us would be a great opening to get us on the stag/hotwife or cuck/hotwife path.
We usually get ******* and fuck on New Years Eve, and on 1/1/19 I was ******* and horny enough to tell her that I wanted to see her fuck another guy. She said “wait what? Really? I think you’re more ******* than you think you are” and then we kind of dropped it.
Nothing really changed after this. We had sex occasionally. I liked to bust out the vibrator/dildo and use it on her. I would make comments about how hot it was to watch her, how much I loved watching her, how hot she is. Then, a few months ago, she started following body image and pro-fat advocates on social media. In just that short time, she became more comfortable in her body and accepted that people could find her attractive. She even saw something on tantra massage and sent it to me with the caption “interesting?” I was completely blown away. Is this the same girl? Wow.
I decided to use this opportunity to start to bring up other kinkyness. I joked about having someone watch us again, and ended up making a friendly bet about a football game. If I won, we would have someone watch us have sex. If she won, we would do something kinky she wants. Then I said “oh we should do the mojo upgrade quiz, to give you some ideas in case you win.” She asked what it is, and after I explained she said “okay let’s do it this afternoon." Again...who was this woman?
We took the test, and I swear she could hear my heartbeat from across the room. I took it first and focused a lot on the group sex/voyeurism/cuckolding questions. I debated how best to answer so that I wouldn’t freak her out but I would be better able to share my feelings. After she took it, we sat down to look at our results. Lots of BDSM (who knew?), public sex, and voyeurism (yay!).
Then she dropped a bomb. She said “oh, I’m surprised threesomes weren’t on our list.” I think I literally made the face from the surprised gif. I asked “...the threesome with a woman or with a man?” She said “oh either. I put ‘if my partner wants to’ for both”. I could have been knocked over with a feather. I told her “oh well I put ‘if my partner wants to’ for both too.” She said “well if we’re going to do that, you have to be in charge because I can’t really devote any mental capacity toward it.”
Seriously, who is this woman? I love her so much.
Now I’m a bit in my own head. I’m going to make sure we talk through this more, let her know how I feel and find out more about what she’s feeling. One kink was watching porn together. She doesn’t watch any porn, so it’s kind of my prerogative what we watch. Maybe I throw some cuck porn into the mix? We’ve talked about a weekend getaway after the election. Maybe we use that to get more kinky? Maybe even introduce our voyeurism there? It’s all crazy, and I’m happy and excited and nervous, and I had to share with everyone here.
